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Zou Shiming: I'm definitely not the best, but I'm definitely the hardest.
The Tokyo Olympics are in full swing, and a "second generation of the Olympics" quietly appeared on the hot search, he is Zou Shiming's eldest son Zou Mingxuan.
Friends who have watched "Where Did Daddy Go" may remember the curly-haired, chubby, lazy "snack goods".
However, when he appeared in front of us again, he was already selected for the national polo team.
Countless people expressed surprise and felt that "the contrast is too great".
However, a netizen pointed out a detail from many years ago.
"You can see it when he wrestles, this kid is focused and resilient."
Back in 2015, 4-year-old Zou Mingxuan entered everyone's field of vision through Hunan Satellite TV's "Where Did Dad Go".
In the eyes of many people, the impression of this little guy is "warm-hearted" and "cute".
However, no one expected that a steppe wrestling afterwards would let us see the tenacity of a child.
In the face of the "professional" Kazakh little brother, Zou Mingxuan was possessed by the "God of War" throughout the process, and even if he was fallen again and again, he tried to get up and attack the other party.
Knowing that there was an "invincible opponent" standing in front of him, this 4-year-old boy always followed the rules, did not play tricks, and did not give up.
It wasn't until the end that he stood up with his little head and said, "I'm going crazy." ”
And the father standing on the side, except for loud encouragement, did not step forward to help him from beginning to end.
In "Hello Dad", Zou Shiming said a sentence:
"I'm definitely not the best, but I'm definitely the hardest."
This is also his mentor, Chinese boxing gold medal coach Zhang Chuanliang's evaluation of Zou Shiming:
Zou Shiming's congenital conditions are not ideal, and the only advantage is that he is willing to work hard.
Subtly, this sentence is also influencing the next generation in this family.
When that little boy, trembling and majestic, stepped onto the foal and took the first step, every drop of sweat gathered into the best self in the future.
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Deng Yaping: I would rather be in pain than dump the pot on life.
In China's Olympic history, Deng Yaping represents a legend.
Can be incarnated as a human mother, Deng Yaping also has her own troubles.
Perhaps it is genetics, son Hanming has a very good talent for table tennis.
But like many teenagers, Hanming has "a wide range of hobbies", and for a while he was addicted to esports games and yearned for professional players.
"Mom, it's a competitive sport too. And I'm probably in the top eight in Beijing among amateurs. ”
Deng Yaping is an athlete and knows the cruelty of competitive sports.
She didn't want to pour cold water on her child.
Because from childhood to adulthood, her father's education was to "try boldly".
Later, she personally took her son to inspect two professional teams.
When my son heard the phrase "esports trains 12 hours a day, he gave up." ”
Because compared to playing table tennis, the training intensity of esports is much greater.
This is not to say that children can't suffer, but esports is just a teenager's "whim".
Hanming has learned taekwondo, practiced badminton, and loved football and basketball.
Eventually, he put all his energy into table tennis.
So, we see this result:
2020 Beijing Junior Table Tennis Championship singles champion.
For this reason, this teenager who is "afraid of hardship" has suffered that many people cannot endure.
Once, at the request of his mother, Hanming practiced serving long balls in the sideways position.
He practiced this one movement for two and a half hours.
A young heart can yearn for the boundless sky.
But when you have a choice, you should be determined to go towards your goal.
Just like Deng Yaping's confession to her son:
"In fact, only you know that your mother let you play, not let you win the world championship. What my mother really wants to bring you is actually the kind of spiritual quality, the quality of will to dare to fight no matter what challenges you encounter.
Compared to throwing the pot to life, it is very hard to compete with yourself... But I would rather be painful, and don't dump the pot on life. ”
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Liu Xuan: The more self-discipline, the more free.
The "Xuan Beauty" in the gymnastics arena back then was the dream lover of many boys.
However, when Liu Xuan retired, no one expected that she would become a "tiger mother".
Because his son Xiongzheng is allergic, Liu Xuan strictly controls the family's diet and reduces snacks and sugar.
Seeing that her child was of school age, she moved out of her athlete's code of conduct and set a strict routine for her son.
Accurate to what time to eat, what time to sleep, what time to study, what time to play games every day...
Hoping to reduce children's dependence on electronic products, the whole family does not watch TV, does not play with the computer, and only uses the mobile phone to make calls.
Also, shift your child's attention to books.
Sometimes children are naughty, don't like to study, and roll around when practicing words.
Liu Xuan also showed no pity:
"Writing is something you have to do every day, you have to write when you cry, you have to write if you don't cry, you have to write happily, and you have to write when you roll."
Under the tutelage of "tiger mother" Liu Xuan, his son not only developed the habit of reading at a young age, but also became an intimate "little warm man".
And this scene was completely displayed by the TV program in front of the national audience, but everyone called Liu Xuan too fierce.
But as a mother, Liu Xuan has her own good intentions:
"The more self-discipline, the more freedom. You do something that you want to be free, completely borderless, impossible. This society has social rules. ”
When the child's mind is undecided, parents are obliged to set rules for the child.
Because you don't follow the rules, one day this society will teach you a long lesson.
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Guo Jingjing: Life will not win forever, but you can win a better version of yourself.
Although he has faded the aura of an Olympic champion, Guo Jingjing is still a frequent visitor to the Olympic Games.
On July 22, Guo Jingjing went to Tokyo as a member of the FINA Technical Committee.
As a mother of 3 children, although she was a little uneasy, she still had to hand over the children to her husband Huo Qigang.
However, soon the "accident" happened.
Three days later, Guo Jingjing was scoring the referee in the women's double diving final, and netizens collectively made a small report to her:
"Hurry up and see your husband and baby."
It turned out that taking advantage of Guo Jingjing's absence, Huo Qigang took the three little guys to "let go of himself".
"Mommy is not there, eat Mai Ji, simply another meal."
After being exposed by netizens that this father was somewhat "incompetent", Huo Qigang hurriedly followed the opportunity of the reporter's interview and explained, "It's only occasional."
Then consciously upload the daily life of taking a baby at home on Weibo.
Father Huo's level of bringing babies "remains to be seen", but the well-behaved and sensible little guys have been praised by everyone.
At the same time, with the frequent hot searches of the three children, an interview with Jingjing's mother about her children's education became popular on the Internet.
One is a diving champion and the other is a member of the Hong Kong Sports Commission.
Born in such a family, the couple attaches great importance to the physical exercise of their children.
Children are often encouraged to participate in competitions.
But children have a strong sense of victory and defeat, and they are often discouraged when they encounter setbacks.
As a champion mother, Guo Jingjing did not blindly encourage or give harshness, but said a meaningful word to her child:
"Life is like that, you can't win forever. After losing, you have to find your own problems and constantly improve yourself. ”
As a "Changsheng General", Guo Jingjing's teaching to her children is not "Versailles", but the best gift a mother can give to her children.
The long track of life is not to lead at the start, but to persevere on the way and eventually surpass yourself.
So the Huo family children presented in front of us will always be so warm, loving and full of vitality.
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Lang Ping: You don't have to be me, but you can be as brave as me.
In China, Lang Ping is not just a name, she is also a spirit.
But we pay little attention to her other identity: her mother.
Last year's "Winning the Championship" was released, and we saw a very similar face to the young Lang Ping in the movie.
She is Lang Ping's daughter Bai Lang.
In real life, Bai Lang did not become "Lang Ping", but her figure overlapped with her mother in the movie.
In the short film "Unthinkable", Bai Lang said:
"There are so many things in you that I can't think of, but I'm more and more like you, your stubbornness, persistence, desperation... I won't necessarily be as great as you, but I will be as brave as you. ”
When Bai Lang was very young, her parents divorced, and she grew up in the United States with her father.
In Bai Lang's memory, his mother Lang Ping always flew around in the sky.
For a long time, she couldn't see her mother.
Because at that time, Lang Ping was already the head coach of the Chinese women's volleyball team.
But leaving does not mean absence.
In his autobiography "The Passion Years", Lang Ping said:
"I called the United States and told the nanny to drink more water for Langlang, and then I took care of him (my ex-husband) to put a cool towel on Langlang's head to cool down. What is said is actually nonsense, but if you don't say no, you can only be solid when you say it. ”
But if he can give the company to his children, Lang Ping will also insist on doing it himself.
You can see the coach on the volleyball court on the volleyball court while watching the battle while hugging his daughter.
can also find the mother who is full of guilt in Lang Ping's autobiography, driving mosquitoes for her daughter and pressing quilts until the dead of night.
Years later, Bai Lang finally understood her mother's greatness, because her mother's bravery and strength were reflected in her heart since she was a child.
Today's Bai Lang does not have a female inheritance of her mother's business, but she was admitted to Stanford with her own efforts, entered the financial industry after graduation, and began to move towards her great future.
I like Bai Lang's words after performing "Winning the Championship":
"I have suffered and been injured, but because of this, I know my mother better, and I have retraced my mother's path as an athlete. Like, also found myself. ”
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When it comes to children's future, we often remember one word: hope for a dragon.
But ignored another beautiful word: Zhilan Yushu.
During the Eastern Jin Dynasty, the Xie family prospered.
The children of the family are as noble as Zhilan Yushu, and all of them have talents, either entering the dynasty as officials, or being literary and popular.
People are envious but also puzzled, thinking that there must be some mystery in this.
After hearing this, Xie An only said:
"I taught myself."
What do you mean?
Practice what you preach.
What kind of person you want your child to become, you have to be first.
Why do so many children of Olympic champions stand out in one way?
The key is not how well they can provide children with learning conditions, but that they themselves have come step by step from the grind.
As in Sukhomlinsky's words:
"Every moment, when you see your child, you see yourself, and when you educate your child, you are also educating yourself and testing your personality."
discipline, first self-control, then management; Tutoring, first self-teaching, then teaching children.
That's all.