Unconsciously, good people have good rewards into stories and legends, while good people have no good rewards, but they have become reality.
A singer who is dedicated to doing good deeds and devoting his life to charity, he has funded 183 poor children in his lifetime, donated 150 disabled people, adopted 37 orphans, participated in more than 300 charity performances, volunteered more than 6,000 hours, selflessly donated 3 million local stars, and finally ended up with no money to treat the disease, and died of stomach cancer.
01 born cold door but not lose pride
In October 1969, Cong Fei, whose original name was Zhang Chong, was born in a poor family in the countryside of Tianzhuangtai Town, Dawa County, Panjin City, Liaoning Province, and Cong Fei's birth was a mixed blessing for this family, on the one hand, the whole family was happy about the arrival of this new life, on the other hand, the family was worried about the future poor life, because the family of 8 lived on Cong Fei's father.
Perhaps it is precisely because the poor life was too hard when he was a child, so Cong Fei has a little more compassion for the children of poor families, which prompted him to devote himself to charity and help poor children go to school.
Of course, Cong Fei's kindness is also related to family education. Cong Fei's family are all good-hearted people, and their home is a well-known home of good people in the local area. In this family atmosphere, Cong Fei naturally learned from him and had good intentions.
Although Cong Fei's family was poor, he never lost his love of life. This pure heart prompted Cong Fei to be proud of being in the cold door.
Since childhood, Cong Fei has liked to sing, but he sings differently from his father, who sings duo turns, and he sings interludes from TV dramas. And Cong Fei is very smart, the talent in music is very high, he has not received systematic music training, only listen to "Huo Yuanjia" and "Shanghai Beach" once or twice, you can sing a lot.
Even the neighbors thought that this young man was highly talented in singing, and when he had nothing to do, he liked to move a stool and sit in front of Cong Fei and listen to him sing.
It seems to Cong Fei that his singing voice can be liked by his neighbors, because he has been affirmed.
In this case, Cong Fei's love for music is getting deeper and deeper, and his attachment to music is getting heavier and heavier.
Unfortunately, because his family was too poor, he had to drop out of school to enter the society and work as a cashier in a bank.
Cong Fei who left school was actually unwilling, he still wanted to continue to study and continue to take the road of music. Therefore, Cong Fei, who did not lose his perseverance, worked while studying on his own, and then was admitted to the Shenyang Conservatory of Music.
In 1992, Cong Fei graduated from the Shenyang Conservatory of Music and went to Guangzhou alone, in this big city, Cong Fei, who had no background and no property, ran into walls everywhere and could not find a suitable job for a long time. Penniless, he went to sleep in the bridge cave and went to the street to sell songs.
Fortunately, heaven was kind to him, and one day when he was singing "Ussuri Boat Song", a girl who passed by was moved to listen to it and took out 600 yuan to sponsor him to participate in the singer competition.
In 1994, Cong Fei took the stage and became a singer loved by the audience.
In 1995, Cong Fei's efforts and talent impressed the tenor singer Guo Song, who was accepted as an apprentice.
02 Life has a turning point
Cong Fei, who became a singer, has the financial resources and his life is getting better and better.
At this time, he looked back on his life and felt that there were noble people to help him along the way, so he could have today. Whenever he thought of this, Cong Fei's heart and intestines became softer.
And just when Cong Fei was grateful and loving to the world, a charity performance allowed him to find the direction of his life's struggle - dedication to public welfare. It was precisely because of his decision that there was a turning point in his life.
In 1994, Cong Fei was invited to participate in the out-of-school children's return to school charity performance held in Chengdu, after completing the performance on the stage, Cong Fei did not rush to go, but walked down to communicate with everyone, in Cong Fei is really not able to see the star's shelf, he is always so grounded, giving people a sense of intimacy.
Seeing Cong Fei, the parents and teachers in the audience actively greeted him and communicated with him.
In the process of talking, Cong Fei knew the pain behind these out-of-school children, to tell the truth, if there was no money, how could parents be reluctant to let their children go to school.
At this moment, Cong Fei remembered his former self, in his second year of junior high school, he was also forced to leave the campus because his family was poor.
Because of empathy, Cong Fei did not hesitate to take out all the money he had at that time, a total of 2400 yuan, which was also a huge amount of money in 1994.
The money could allow 20 poor elementary school students to complete two years of schooling.
Looking at the grateful looks of the parents, the happy smiling faces of the children, Cong Fei is extremely proud, and the sudden pride has allowed him to find the direction of struggle - so that more poor children can go to school!
Cong Fei, who was full of joy, could not imagine that it was this idea that made him embark on a road of no return, and he could not get out of it from then on.
Over the next 11 years, Cong Fei ran around the country, bringing hope to countless people.
In 1995, he went to a county in Hunan Province to participate in a charity performance to rescue out-of-school children;
In 1996, he became one of the first "volunteers" in Shenzhen and participated in the "Help the Poor and help the weak" tour;
In 1997, he entered the labor camp, drug rehabilitation center and other places many times, performed, and used his singing voice to bring strength and encourage people to progress;
In March 1998, he encountered Hu Shishi, who was begging everywhere and paralyzed, and took out tens of thousands of yuan on the spot to fund Hu Shishi's courage to pursue his literary dreams; from March 10 to 16, in just 6 days, he held 7 concerts in a row, and donated all the 500,000 tickets he received to the Shenzhen Youth Career Development Foundation; in August, he paid a penalty out of his own pocket in order to participate in the large-scale charity performance of "Flood Relief in Love Disaster Areas";
In 1999, he went to Zhijin County, Guizhou to participate in a charity performance, met the poor students here who were eager to learn, and once again moved his compassion, donating money and materials to fund students' study. And then he went to Anshun City and Zhijin County in Guizhou 5 times to do public welfare;
In 2000, in order to participate in the "Golden Autumn Charity Performance", he pushed off the performance in Jiangsu and flew to Shenzhen to participate in the charity performance despite the persuasion of others;
In 2001, he sponsored 10 poor primary school students of the Miao, Qing and Tu ethnic groups to continue their studies;
In 2002, he participated in a total of 48 performances to publicize the moral obligations of citizens, donated 60,000 yuan, and flew to poor areas in Guizhou many times to visit the children he sponsored;
In 2003, he donated more than 91,000 yuan to establish the "Cong Fei Love Aid Foundation";
From 1994 to 2003, Cong Fei did not suspend public welfare undertakings for a year, and he has always stood in the front line of public welfare from beginning to end, doing good things without reservation and doing his best.
Unfortunately, good people did not repay well, and his efforts were not exchanged for affirmation, but instead raised a group of insatiable people.
03 Raise countless white-eyed wolves
Cong Fei had just done charity, and his wife was very supportive. His wife is a Burmese, gentle and kind, everything is centered on the husband, plus the two have just been married for a long time, the feelings are still very deep. Moreover, Cong Fei could also earn money at that time, and the cost of public welfare was not particularly high, so his wife felt that it did not matter and could accept it.
It wasn't until Cong Fei became more and more obsessed with public welfare, invested all the money he earned into this "bottomless pit", and ignored the family, that his wife felt that she could not stand it, angrily divorced, and threw her two-year-old daughter to Cong Fei.
Cong Fei, who lost his family, still did not give up the public welfare undertaking, while he was busy with out-of-school children, while taking care of his daughter, it can be said that he was tired and tired every day.
Fortunately, a flight attendant Xing Dan, who learned of the touching deeds of Cong Fei, was greatly shocked in her heart, took the initiative to find Cong Fei and help Cong Fei take care of her daughter, for which she also deliberately resigned her job and single-mindedly ran the family for Cong Fei, so that Cong Fei could engage in the public welfare undertakings he liked without worries.
For Xing Dan's choice, some people could not understand and asked her: "Cong Fei donated all the money, do you have any opinions?" ”
Xing Dan replied with a smile: "No opinion, we are not unable to eat now, there is no point in holding so much money, it is better to donate to more people in need, besides, money is something that can no longer be earned." ”
Xing Dan replied freely, which greatly touched countless people, how many people can look down on money like them? In them, we can see pure, unreserved goodness.
However, people are good at being deceived, horses are good at being ridden, and sometimes being too kind is not necessarily a good thing.
Cong Fei has struggled in public welfare for 11 years, the first 9 years he is still quite at ease, but in the last two years, he is really struggling to do public welfare.
In July 2004, Cong Fei adopted 32 orphans and poor students in Zhijin County, Guizhou, and at this time, he was actually carrying a huge amount of 170,000 yuan.
In 2005, Cong Fei was diagnosed with stomach cancer, and it was difficult to eat, and in January, he also took the illness to participate in six disaster relief charity performances for the tsunami-stricken areas of Southeast Asia.
It can be said that when Cong Fei's life enters the countdown, the first thing in his heart is his public welfare undertaking.
However, at that time, he obviously had more than enough and insufficient strength, and he had no physical cost, and he cut off his financial resources.
He had no money, and those who had once smiled at him began to show their fangs.
At the beginning of March 2005, seeing that the new semester had started, Cong Fei had never heard from him, and many of the children and parents who had been sponsored by him could not sit still, and they got together and muttered, suspicious and suspicious. Some people even tried every means to get Cong Fei's phone and asked him: "Why don't you call the money?" You promised to support your children to complete their education, and now you don't want to achieve it? Do you really have the heart to let these kids drop out of school again because they lack money? ”
Cong Fei, who was lying on the hospital bed, heard these words, couldn't sleep day and night, he was anxious, worried that the children could not afford to go to school, and at the same time there were some sadness, thinking that the people he helped with his heart actually only recognized money and did not recognize people.
One night, he couldn't help himself and confided in his wife: "I sent myself up the ladder, but I found that I couldn't get down now, and I couldn't find the way down the ladder." ”
His wife saw that he was tormented and turned off his mobile phone, hoping that he would be at ease.
Unexpectedly, Xing Dan's move made those who were waiting for Cong Fei to take the money suspicious again. They said: "Cong Fei wants to pay the bills, does not want to sponsor the children to go to school, and now even the mobile phone is turned off, the phone can not be called at all." ”
Cong Fei took the mobile phone from his wife, and as soon as he opened it, a phone call for money came over: "You said that you would offer my child until college graduation, and now he has not finished junior high school, you regret it, isn't this a pit?" If you can't do it, don't make promises in the first place. ”
Cong Fei listened and quickly explained: "I am sick, hospitalized, and there is no way to continue the performance, so I can't send money to the children for the time being, and when I am better, I will definitely find a way to send money." ”
The other party was a little suspicious, tentatively asking him: "What is your illness?" ”
Cong Fei explained the actual situation.
The other party not only did not care about the greeting, but immediately asked: "Then when will you get better?" Hurry out and make money from the show. ”
I have to say that this person is really an unfamiliar white-eyed wolf, with only money in his eyes and no gratitude at all. These people obviously regard Cong Fei as a cash machine, and only want to collect money from Cong Fei, and do not care about Cong Fei's life or death at all.
Of course, there is more than one white-eyed wolf like this.
A girl who became a music teacher once said to the children: "Cong Fei helped me, this is his voluntary, no one forced him." People have a purpose in doing things, what is Cong Fei's purpose in doing this? Not to mention that we all know it. ”
There is also a poor female student, who does not know how many pounds she has, and blindly compares herself with others. She once saw someone else have a popular MD CD player at the time, and she also wanted one, and wanted to grow a long face in front of her classmates. So she wrote a letter to Cong Fei, saying that she wanted an MD CD player to help her learn, Cong Fei believed it was true, and immediately rushed into the mall to buy a 2800 yuan MD to send to the other party, the girl received it, only coldly replied: Something was received.
There are also some poor students who have been sponsored by Cong Fei, and after being admitted to college, they turn their heads and say: "It is a very humiliating thing to be funded, don't mention my name in the future." ”
When cong fei was hospitalized for cancer and was told about the children that Cong Fei had sponsored, they didn't care and casually said: "Oh, I wish him a speedy recovery." ”
Knowing that the people he funded were so thin and cold, I don't know if Cong Fei had a trace of regret at that time?
Maybe there was, but it was only a flash, because Cong Fei's next move once again proved his selfless kindness.
04 Tragic death
During cong fei's hospitalization, many people in the society donated money for him, hoping that he would have money to treat diseases and hope that good people could live a long life.
This person who has been paying for public welfare has changed his identity role in an instant and become the party who is helped, at this moment, he must still have some touches in his heart, and he feels that what he has done over the years is worth it.
Perhaps because of this touch, or perhaps because his heart to do public welfare has been too strong, so when he received the charity money, he only kept three months of medical treatment money, and then donated all the other money.
Cong Fei, who was sick, was still thinking about those poor children in his heart, so that under the worry, his condition deteriorated sharply.
On April 20, 2006, Cong Fei fell into a coma and died not long after, when he died, he was only 37 years old, which was in the good years of his life.
Before his death, Cong Fei left three last wishes: first, he wanted to join the party; second, he hoped that the cornea of his cornea could be donated after death; third, he did not accept a four-bedroom and two-hall house sent by the Shenzhen Housing Bureau.
After Cong Fei's death, the Shenzhen Youth Foundation specially set up the "Cong Fei Special Fund for Student Assistance" to help the poor students that Cong Fei once sponsored to complete their studies, and to fulfill his promise for Cong Fei.
On the second day of his departure, his cornea was also transplanted to a girl named Liu Lin in Jiujiang, Jiangxi.
On the day cong fei was buried, more than 300,000 people spontaneously gathered together to send him on the last journey, these people were silent, holding up signs in their hands: Cong Fei big brother, all the way good!
Heaven was really unfair to this kind family, and not long after Cong flew away, his delicate wife had an accident.
Xing Dan is a very responsible woman, and when her husband was seriously ill, she took care of her in front of the ward every day. After her husband left, she silently carried all her debts alone and took her daughter, who was only 6 months old, to live a tenacious life.
On April 13, 2011, an accident took her young life.
That day, Xing Dan was driving on the road, there were three bear children giggling on the side of the road, casually throwing out a stone, did not expect to seriously injure Xing Dan's left corner artery, she was sent to the hospital on the way to the dying, and finally the rescue was ineffective, died. She was just 30 years old when she left, and she was still very young.
Xiao Jingjing, who lost her parents one after another, was only 5 years old and became a fatherless and motherless orphan, and in the end, Xing Dan's parents took Xiao Jingjing back home and became her guardian.
Looking back at Cong Fei's life, it is really a pity.
Cong Fei is definitely a selfless and benevolent person, and what he has done is indeed very admirable, but it is not worth 100% of people's learning. Because kindness should also have a degree, only by grasping the degree of kindness and choosing a good way to do good deeds can we help others while preserving ourselves.
You know, people's hearts are unpredictable, not all people have good intentions, and even sometimes people's hearts are not as good as wolf hearts. Li Weiyi, the "first wolf girl in China", saved a "wolf son" and can still be remembered by this "wolf son" Green. But Cong Fei rescued 183 poor students in his lifetime, donating a total of more than 3 million yuan, and there were very few people who finally said that he was good and who cared about his kindness. So sometimes people are worse than a wolf, which is really ironic.
Such a situation should cause us to reflect: when did people's hearts start to get cold? When did kindness become a fault?