"Good people don't pay well"?
He has been doing good deeds for 11 years, and after his debut, he has performed more than 300 charity performances, donated a total of 3 million family properties, and rescued 183 children in poor mountainous areas.
Cared for 37 homeless orphans.
However, the kind man did not get the blessing he deserved, and died of illness at the age of 37, and soon after his wife was smashed on the head by a naughty child, he lost too much blood and died, and his two daughters became orphans.
He is Cong Fei, a brilliant figure who touched China because of his kindness, but after he brought warmth to others, in exchange for the destruction of his family.
Cong Fei was born on October 29, 1969, to a rural family in Liaoning Province, whose original name was Zhang Chong.
When he was a child, Cong Fei was very fond of singing, and he often sang the theme song of the fire TV series to his parents and neighbors, and sometimes used the broom as a microphone to sing very devotedly.
Everyone liked to hear him sing, and everyone said that Cong Fei had a talent for singing and his voice was particularly good.
However, as a rural child, Cong Fei's talent was not valued, after all, the family did not have enough funds to support him to take the road of singing, and his parents did not have this concept.
Although the family is poor, Cong Fei's parents are kind-hearted people, and the two adopt a daughter and treat her as their own children.
When they could not open the pot in their own homes, they still did not hesitate to help the beggars, and led the beggars to the house to give them a hot meal.
Growing up in such a kind and warm family, Cong Fei has had a kind heart since he was a child, he will never show a disgusted expression to beggars, and even take the initiative to share food with them.
The family's meager income gradually became difficult to support Cong Fei's tuition, and the helpless Cong Fei was forced to quit school in the second year of junior high school. Cong Fei, who left school, began to look for a job to reduce the burden on his parents.
Because of his low education, Cong Fei could only find a job as a cashier in a bank, which brought a lot of income to the family, but the repetitive work made him feel tired.
At this time, Cong Fei's heart once again lit up the dream of singing, and he decided to pursue the life he wanted, so he worked while preparing for the Shenyang Conservatory of Music.
In 1992, Cong Fei officially graduated from the Shenyang Conservatory of Music, and he came to Guangzhou alone with a vision for the future, hoping to break out of his own world in this bustling metropolis.
The ideal is very full, the reality is very bone, and cong fei, who has no background, can't find a way out after coming to Guangzhou, and hits a wall everywhere.
In order to continue to live here, he can only do some dirty work such as washing dishes and moving bricks, and when he can't make money, he can only live under the overpass.
During these difficult and difficult days, singing became his only comfort, and he always liked to sing when he had a rare rest.
Once he was sitting in the street singing, and pedestrians hurried past him, but a young girl stopped and listened to him sing the whole song.
After learning about Cong Fei's deeds, the girl gave him 600 yuan to continue to pursue his musical dreams.
In that era, 600 yuan was not a small amount, which was undoubtedly a charcoal in the snow for Cong Fei, who was penniless.
With the help of this fund, Cong Fei finally stepped onto the stage, and his singing voice was heard by more people.
The up-and-coming Cong Fei did not attract the appreciation of Zhiyin, but got the attention of the liars, some people claimed to be able to take Cong Fei to make more money, to lead him to Shenzhen to perform, Cong Fei did not think much, followed him to the performance.
After coming to Shenzhen, Cong Fei carried out one performance after another, thinking that he had made a lot of money, but after a large-scale commercial performance, the people who brought Cong Fei to Shenzhen disappeared and took away all the money.
Cong Fei thought that he had finally survived, but he was once again in trouble.
But Cong Fei was not angry, he said that although he did not get money for this performance, it was not a bad thing for him to increase his acting experience.
Cong Fei, who retired from the stage, began to circulate in various dance halls, and his strength also improved in singing again and again, and his singing became better and better.
Gradually, Cong Fei accumulated a lot of popularity, and even many people did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to invite him to act.
On a normal day in 1994, Cong Fei came to Sichuan to attend a charity performance for out-of-school children, where he saw many children who could not go to school because of their family poverty, which inevitably reminded him that he had dropped out of school early.
It is precisely because he has experienced too many tribulations that Cong Fei knows the importance of reading, and at the end of the event, he will not hesitate to put all the money on his body into the donation box.
The host thanked him and said that the more than two thousand yuan he donated could help more than two dozen children complete two years of schooling.
This shocked Cong Fei very much, and he suddenly realized that his small actions could change the lives of others.
Looking at the children's thirsty eyes, Cong Fei secretly made up his mind that he would sponsor these children to complete their studies!
Cong Fei is not a ten-dividend singer, the income is not as much as a popular star, in order to make more money, he has to continue to participate in charity performances.
Cong Fei always wanted to fund more people, but at that time, there were too many children in China who could not afford to go to school, and his ability alone was limited after all, and he slowly appeared to be powerless.
Cong Fei invested all his money in public welfare undertakings, but his life was very poor, and even the house was bought with a loan.
When his father knew what he had done, he did not object, but only felt sorry for his body and asked him to take care of himself.
Of course, not all family members can understand what Cong Fei is doing, and Cong Fei's high-intensity public welfare actions invisibly put a lot of pressure on his wife.
In 2002, his wife made up her mind to divorce Cong Fei and left her 2-year-old daughter to him.
The departure of his wife, coupled with the heavy pressure of public welfare, Cong Fei was overwhelmed and once on the verge of collapse.
That time was Cong Fei's darkest time, one day, he wanted to end his life with a bottle of sleeping pills, but at the last moment, a phone call left him in the human world.
Perhaps it was his own arrangement, and his friend Xing Dan called Cong Fei when he was most desperate and chatted as usual.
But the attentive Xing Dan quickly heard the abnormality in Cong Fei's tone, hung up the phone and immediately rushed to his side.
Looking at the frustrated Cong Fei, Xing Dan gently asked him what had happened.
At this time, Cong Fei couldn't bear it any longer, and told Xing Dan everything in one fell swoop, removed all disguises, and cried into tears.
After knowing Cong Fei's tragic experience, Xing Dan was very distressed, and the two people hugged each other tightly.
This experience allowed Cong Fei's long-standing negative emotions to be vented, and he no longer sought death and rekindled the hope of life.
This frank meeting also made the feelings between Cong Fei and Xing Dan soar, Xing Dan is also a kind-hearted person, she admires Cong Fei's behavior, and it didn't take long for the two to be together.
At that time, Xing Dan was young and beautiful and should have a better belonging, but she chose to accompany Cong Fei, who had no car and no house, which showed the depth of their feelings.
After getting married, Xing Dan has been silently supporting Cong Fei's public welfare behind his back, in addition to taking care of his life and living, Xing Dan sometimes goes out with Cong Fei.
In 2004, Cong Fei was going to the mountains of Guizhou to send tuition to the poor children there, and Xing Dan, who was uneasy, went with him.
The moment they stepped into the school, a group of children pounced on them, their faces filled with pure smiles, shouting "Daddy" in unison.
Xing Dan was deeply shocked by this scene, and it was only at this moment that she truly understood what her husband was doing.
After returning home, Xing Dan could not forget the simple children in the mountains, so she quit her job, hoping to do her best for them.
After resigning, Xing Dan carefully handled the children's affairs, personally selected the appropriate stationery for them, seriously replied to the letters written by the children, and even took the children to Shenzhen to take care of them.
Xing Dan treats the children in the mountains very carefully and meticulously, as if he were his own child.
In 2005, Xing Dan, who often deals with children, finally had a child of his own, but it was not long before bad news came to the family.
The child in Xing Dan's belly was just four months old, Cong Fei was diagnosed with stomach cancer, and more seriously, the cancer cells have spread, and the treatment is very difficult.
This is undoubtedly a huge blow to their small family, the couple has invested all the money they earned in public welfare undertakings for many years, and now the money for medical treatment has become a problem.
Cong Fei knew the difficult situation at home, and he understood that he would not live long, so he quietly told his friend about the aftermath.
For Xing Dan, he hoped that his friend would try her best to persuade her to beat up the child in her belly and start her life again.
For his parents, he hopes they will be able to return to the countryside with their eldest daughter, where the stress of life will be less.
For the children he was sponsoring, he implored his friends to find a way to help him continue to care for them anyway.
However, Xing Dan was unwilling to beat the child in his belly no matter what, and in the end Cong Fei still saw this cute new life.
After Cong Fei fell ill and was hospitalized, there was no source of income, and the financial support for the children was cut off.
At this time, there were many people who did not know the truth, still constantly calling him, urging him to pay tuition quickly, and did not come to visit him after learning that Cong Fei was ill, but cold-bloodedly asked: "Then when will you recover and continue to make money?" ”
There was once a girl who expressed her desire to be Cong Fei's apprentice, but after being politely rejected by Cong Fei, she pretended to be a poor student and texted Cong Fei for help.
Cong Fei, who received the information, did not hesitate and immediately transferred 2,000 yuan to her.
After that, the girl even asked Cong Fei for an expensive CD player on the pretext of studying, and Cong Fei did not suspect it and immediately went to the street to buy it and send it to him.
However, when the reporter contacted the girl during Cong Fei's hospitalization, her attitude was very cold, and she only said: "Oh, then I wish him a speedy recovery." "There is no following.
One of the students who was sponsored by him said: "It is not that I forced him to fund me, it was all voluntary, he has his own ideas, anyone who does a thing has a plan, what he wants, you should know." ”
Even more egregious is that some of his sponsored students have called reporters and asked to erase their names from the list of sponsors, because they feel so ashamed.
The cold-blooded behavior of these people is undoubtedly a few stabs in the heart of Cong Fei, who is undergoing chemotherapy, although he is very distressed, he still does not feel disappointed, "He said, if his voice is dumb in the future, he can also play mime to make money and continue to support public welfare undertakings." ”
However, not long after, Cong Fei's condition suddenly deteriorated, and cancer cells continued to torment him.
Many people in the society learned of his deeds and donated money to him, but Cong Fei only left a small part for treatment, and most of the donations were donated by him to children in mountainous areas.
Although Cong Fei funded some of the "white-eyed wolves", most of them were kind.
When lying in the hospital bed, Cong Fei's favorite thing to do was to receive letters from people he helped him write to him.
A girl who was in her second year of high school wrote to Cong Fei: "Dad, I have never seen the sea, I would like to go to see the sea, when you are well, we will go to see the sea together, you can rest assured, I will study hard and grow into a useful person to society." ”
Many people who have been funded by Cong Fei have said that Cong Fei's kindness to them is very heavy, and without Cong Fei, there would be no them today.
Unfortunately, in April 2006, Cong Fei suddenly fell into a coma and never woke up again, when he was only 37 years old.
After Cong Fei's death, Xing Dan raised her newborn child alone, and she named her daughter Xing Xiao Cong Fei.
Xing Dan also repaid the bills that Cong Fei owed for treating patients and supporting others, and continued to support students in poor mountainous areas to the best of his ability.
Although her life was poor, Xing Dan was still trying to live, but an accident fell on her.
On April 13, 2011, Xing Dan went to find a friend to reminisce about the past, and when passing through Shiling Village, he was hit on the head by a stone and died of excessive blood loss.
After investigation, it was found that it was because some naughty children in the village just hit Xing Dan's head when they threw themselves on the highway on the mountain, and the last few children were arrested according to law.
Cong Fei's death has brought great harm to her daughter Xiao Cong Fei, no one dares to tell Xiao Cong Fei about her mother's departure, until at Xing Dan's wedding, Xiao Kunhong told Xiao Cong Fei: "Mother went to find Daddy." ”
Xiao Congfei was very sad, but she was also very sensible, and she forced herself to hold back tears and said, "I will miss my mother." ”
Cong Fei and Xing Dan have helped many people, and their deeds have moved countless people, and now that the two have left one after another, the life and study of the two daughters left behind have received widespread attention from the society.
Many people have extended a helping hand to them, and the Shenzhen Charity Association has also provided help to the two of them to protect the smooth growth of the two children.
Another "good Chinese man", Jiang Dafu, also recognized Cong Fei's eldest daughter as a dry daughter, and every year he sent 10,000 yuan to her account to fund her studies.
It has been 15 years since Cong Fei's death, and the eldest daughter, who was 6 years old at the time, has now grown up and become a young girl, following in her father's footsteps and entering the Shenyang Conservatory of Music.
The youngest daughter, Xiao Congfei, has always been taken care of by her grandparents, and for the second elder who has lost her beloved daughter, Xiao Congfei is the only comfort in their lives.
In addition to her grandparents, her aunt has also been taking care of Xiao CongFei and guiding her to grow, and now Xiao CongFei has become a versatile girl who is growing up healthy and happy.
Cong Fei was born poor, and he dropped out of school in his second year of junior high school, but he single-handedly realized the college dream of more than 100 poor children.
Although some people did not understand what he was doing, even those who had received his help treated him coldly, he still did not care, and made his life a legend.
Unfortunately, this hero left us forever at the age of 37.
But the transmission of love is still continuing, he has helped many people in the society, and now his daughter is growing up healthy under the protection of all walks of life, and his deeds should always be remembered by the world.