The safety of the child is no small matter, and nothing can be sloppy.
In the past two days, I have seen a shocking news:
A 13-year-old boy in Shenzhen stuffed 186 magnetic balls into his urethra out of curiosity!
The next day, the bleeding could not come out, and I told my parents.
At first, the child did not dare to tell the truth, saying that in order to suck out the magnetic ball in his body, he stuffed more than a dozen beads into it.
As a result, when I saw the film, the doctor was shocked, and the child's bladder was densely packed with magnetic balls.
These magnetic balls are all glued together and cannot be discharged at all, and doctors can only clamp out the magnetic balls one by one through minimally invasive surgery.
The doctor said that it was good to take it out in time.
Otherwise, it is likely to cause intestinal perforation, and even cause hydronephrosis and damage the kidneys.
Magnetic beads, also known as "buck balls", each with a diameter of only 5 mm, because of the super magnetic force between each other, can change various shapes at will, looking cool.
The balls easily adsorb together in the body, causing perforation or blockage of the gastrointestinal tract. If it is not taken out as soon as possible, it may also cause blood poisoning and even the risk of death.
Similarly, an 11-year-old boy from Xi'an also stuffed 19 magnetic beads into his bladder and removed them a year later.
Because the beads are magnetic, doctors can only remove the beads by surgically making small incisions. When the 19 magnetic beads are removed, they are connected to about 10 cm.
Not only magnetic beads, but also foreign bodies stuffed into the body of the child, can be said to be varied, strange.
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Only you can't think of it, you can't stuff it without ta
There are really too many cases of curious babies stuffing foreign objects into their lower bodies!
A 14-year-old boy in Taizhou, Zhejiang Province, accompanied by his family, asked the doctor to save him, his face full of horror and his voice trembling. He actually stuffed the live crayfish into his anus.
Why did he do it? The answer is even more ridiculous:
When the boy watched a wilderness survival show, he saw that in order to obtain fresh water on a desert island, the protagonist in the show took out the internal organs of the sea fish and stuffed them into his anus to absorb the fresh water in the internal organs of the sea fish, and eventually the internal organs of the sea fish that lost water became dried internal organs.
This aroused the boy's adventurous spirit of drawing inferences and trying his own adventures, and it happened that the family had just bought crayfish, so he did not sleep in the middle of the night and stuffed a live lobster through the anus.
After being tortured by live shrimp for 7 hours, doctors finally removed the crayfish through colonoscopy. The sharp shrimp claws have stung the inner wall of the boy's rectum, streaked with blood.
An 11-year-old boy in Hangzhou was equally bearish, daring to put a sewing needle into his urethra. You don't need to ask to imagine how painful and uncomfortable a needle is in the body!
The boy is naughty and dares to do anything.
But in this matter, relatively quiet girls were not spared, and they were often hurt deeper.
Dr. Shen of the juvenile gynecology department of Zhejiang University Children's Hospital saw a 6-year-old girl who had started stomach pain a few days ago, had bloody discharge in her lower body, and walked a little wrong.
When the doctor checked it, he found that there was a foreign object on the lower body of the little girl.
Is this sexual assault? No!
Instead, the child stuffed the coin cell battery himself while playing.
The battery was rotten, and the inside of the girl's vagina was scorched in large pieces, because three or four days had passed, and some of them had turned into scars.
Not to mention the girl's parents, any parent will feel heart-wrenching when they look at it. You said okay, why are you stuffing a battery into your body?
But even if the child is not stuffed, some things will enter the girl's lower body.
Tingting, a two-year-old girl from Ezhou, was taken by her grandmother to play in the grain pile when she was busy on the farm. One day, the mother noticed a foul smell on her daughter, took off her pants, and was frightened: there was a large amount of pus and bloody discharge in the vagina.
Upon examination, the doctor found that an unpeeled grain had "taken root" in the vagina, causing bleeding. Because of the deep roots, doctors had to surgically remove it.
There are really too many such bizarre cases.
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Why do children stuff foreign objects into their bodies?
Children like to stuff things into their bodies, not quirks, let alone "perverts".
First, curiosity is greater than security awareness.
Most children enter the exploration period after 6 months, they are curious about everything in the outside world, and want to connect with the world by hearing, seeing, touching, etc.
Children aged 0-6 will go through a "hole sensitive period", in which children have a strong curiosity about physical holes.
After the age of 2, children's curiosity about the body peaks, in addition to liking to touch every part of their body, they also develop curiosity about what happens when they put objects into their bodies.
At this time, even if the parents tell the child, they can't stop the child's heart to try, and while the parents don't pay attention, the foreign body is stuffed into the facial features and even the genitals.
The official account of a district people's hospital in Loudi, Hunan Province, once released a case in which a 3-year-old girl out of curiosity actually stuffed a brush about 8 cm long and 0.5 cm wide into her anus.
The little girl did not tell her family, she had no way to take it out, until the pain was unbearable to cry, her parents immediately took her to the hospital after repeated inquiries, under intravenous general anesthesia, it took 30 minutes to remove the foreign body completely and smoothly.
The five senses and genitals are the channels through which the body communicates with the outside world, and because children are curious about the role of these channels, they will put their bodies at risk regardless of the principle of safety.
Secondly, for sexual pleasure.
If babies stuff things out of curiosity, then for teenagers who are already sensible, it's all about getting "sexual pleasure".
13-year-old Xiaojie put so many magnetic beads into the urethra one after another, he will not be unaware of the danger, and he insists on doing so for another reason, which is what the doctor calls "vague sexual pleasure".
This is not uncommon, and someone on Zhihu asked that the 13-year-old sister often uses the computer to browse pornographic cartoons, and there are large pieces of blood-stained erasers in the toilet trash can, with suspected abnormal white discharge.
The questioner does not know how to say it to his sister, and he is worried that it will cause damage to his sister's body, and most of these children who still do this despite knowing that there is danger are children who are about to reach puberty.
With the gradual development of the child's body, sexual pleasure is normal, but satisfying oneself by stuffing foreign objects is abnormal behavior.
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How to prevent my child from stuffing foreign objects into my body?
As a boy's mother, I really empathize with the fact that raising a child means that parents have to their hearts for a lifetime, and they can't slack off at all.
I remember when my little nephew was about 3 or 4 years old, he was playing with Lego bricks, and I saw him playing attentively, so I went to the kitchen to prepare food for him.
Who expected that in less than 1 minute, he suddenly burst into tears, and I was so frightened that I immediately rushed to his side and asked him what was wrong?
While crying, the child pointed to a small piece of wood and said, "I can't bite!" Oh my God! Thanks to the large building blocks, they will really swallow it in one bite, and it is actually strange that the blocks can't bite!
Even children with such large blocks still want to put it in their mouths to taste, but you can imagine those gadgets that parents can't guard against!
Many things that parents can't figure out have really happened, what should parents do to prevent their children from stuffing foreign objects into their bodies?
First, parental care should be in place and comprehensive
For young babies, parental care is the most important thing.
Try not to wear open pants, in addition to wearing diapers and pants, children under the age of 3 must be around adults at all times, in order to stop the child as soon as possible.
For children over 3 years old, parents should make sure that there are no small toys, small parts and other things that may fit into the body.
When choosing toys and clothing, we should also try to choose things with simple styles and few decorations to control dangerous things from the source.
And when the child is playing, parents should observe the child's movements more, once they find that the child is motionless or abnormal crying, they must quickly ask what the child is doing and do a good job of prevention.
Second, do a good job in children's physical education
Is curiosity important or is your body important? Is sexual pleasure important or is the body important? Parents are concerned about their children's safety, but many children can't do it because their parents' safety education is not deep enough into their children's hearts.
For children under the age of 6, who do not know how to explain, they can teach children the importance of protecting their bodies through picture books.
For example:
"Beans that Can't Be Stuffed", "The Story of Little Chickens" and "Our Body", "The Hole in Our Body" and so on.
For children over 6 years old, parents can show their children videos of relevant cases to tell their children more intuitively the harm of foreign bodies entering the body, so that children are afraid to do such behaviors because of pain.
Don't nag from time to time, but regularly give your child science popularization knowledge about protecting the body to ensure that your child can listen and do.
Raising children requires parents to be careful and careful, not only to prevent problems before they happen, but also to always pay attention to the dynamics of their children, so that children can grow up healthily in a safe environment.
丨Content source: Mom and Dad Vision, reprinted and released by Yueyang Maimang
Responsible editor丨Nana
Editor-in-chief of the preliminary review丨Circle circle
Review editor-in-chief 丨 Little ghost