Lust - that is, a kind of need and sustenance of people's feelings. Man is a high-level animal, and the need for feelings is the most basic need, and if feelings are abandoned, there is no difference between man and animal.
Everyone's attitude towards feelings is different, some people are single-minded about feelings, yearning for a permanent and stable feeling; while some people, but they regard feelings as children's plays, staying merciful everywhere, seeing different thoughts.
There are more people who agree with the former, and the emotional need is a kind of spiritual comfort and sustenance, and only by being single-minded and long-lasting can we experience the taste and happiness in it. And the latter, not only can not experience the happiness of it, but also harm others and harm themselves, and over time, amorous will become ruthless.
Many people complain that it is difficult to seek real feelings, but it is not. As long as you care, as long as you cherish, you will get real feelings. Animals raised, for a long time, will have feelings, let alone humans? Feelings need to be cultivated carefully and slowly, like children living at home, today
It is not surprising that he proposes to him and shows him love tomorrow without real affection.
Materialism - is people's pursuit of material interests. In today's real society, materialism is becoming more and more important. According to the philosophical point of view, matter is primary, consciousness is secondary, matter determines consciousness, and consciousness is the reflection of matter. Matter is the basis for human survival and development
The foundation, if you put aside the material security, feelings, naturally it is difficult to maintain.
We are in no way opposed to the role of matter in guaranteeing feelings. Just imagine, two people together, hungry, how to develop feelings? But I agree that material benefits are created by two people, and that the material satisfaction of co-creation is a real pleasure.
Sexual desire is the desire to meet people's physical needs, and it is also an instinct of human beings. Sexual necessity, though, is not the only way to enhance feelings, is equally important. If there is no physical need, two people can not be together, men and women form a family, physiological mutual attraction is the premise. Only when the feelings of two people are sublimated to a certain extent, sex, will not be the decisive factor.
Sex is beautiful, but sex is also limited, human ancestors, apes lived a group life, then sex has no restrictions, thousands of years of traditional moral constraints, only gradually standardized as monogamy, sex will also change from hybridization, to single-mindedness. Single-mindedness relies on moral constraints, and in today's era of advocating individuality, morality is pale and weak, which provides convenience for those who overemphasize sex, and there is a "one-night stand".
Disapproval of single sexual behavior, single-minded, beautiful sex, is an important factor in enhancing feelings, if the indiscriminate pursuit of "one-night stands", not only affects the feelings between two people, but also is not safe. People's desires are endless, and people who are accustomed to one-night stands will be trapped in them and cannot help themselves, and they will not get a fixed feeling.
Lust, materialism, and sexual desire together constitute inseparable feelings, and the three are interconnected and interact with each other. To pursue any of these alone is not to reach the highest realm. Lust is the end, is the destination, sexual desire, material desire is the means to achieve lust. Only by combining the three well can we achieve a wonderful, happy, and happy feeling.
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