Recently, there is a particularly popular entry on the Internet: whether there is a brother who sees this paragraph is silent.
The topic came from a conversation between a Korean male idol, and his sister.
When my brother went to cook noodles, he said to his sister: You know that instant noodles must have an egg in it, right?
But she was opposed by her sister, who felt that instant noodles should not contain eggs.
I thought it was just a difference in personal taste, but I didn't expect that the controversy about "son preference" was involved?
Just when the two people were in their own factions, the brother first moved out a more powerful "proof" - mother, saying that when she was a child, her mother had eggs added.
My sister was even more confused at this time, aren't we a mother? Why did you never let me go?
My brother's first reaction at this time was to completely disbelieve my sister's words, and threatened: Do you want to call your mother now?
After the brother got the reply from his mother putting eggs, he was even more arrogant, feeling that his sister's memory was biased.
But when my sister asked again why she had never put eggs for herself, her mother did not answer positively, but changed the topic bluntly.
So the question of whether to put eggs in boiled instant noodles is the end of the agreement between mother and son, and the sister looks aggrieved.
After a family argument, the mother ignored her daughter's problem, the brother was immersed in the triumph of his victory, and no one cared about his sister's grievances.
Until this content was broadcast in the variety show, whether it was internal entertainment or Korean entertainment, whether it was internal entertainment or Korean entertainment, whether there was a brother who saw this paragraph was silent.
Some netizens said: Is there a lack of this egg at home?
Some netizens also came forward to say: There is no shortage at home, but I don't think there is any need to give my daughter food.
Of course, some people think that it is not the mother's partiality, it may just be that the girl can't finish eating.
By the way, Korean netizens also added another small habit of my sister, that is, you should pretend that you haven't eaten anything you've eaten, such as a bite of fried chicken to put it upside down, and you can't see that you have been bitten; Eat grapes in an inconspicuous position. The reason is that my mother said that I couldn't do it when my brother was away, so I developed the habit of covering up over time.
After the video fermented online, many people accused the mother of preferring sons.
Subsequently, the sister came forward to clarify. Explain that her brother and mother love her very much, and that she is not the child who is treated differently.
Maybe it's because she feels sorry for her mother being scolded by netizens, or maybe it's because her brother is an idols who need fame.
The brother in the video is Yoon Ji-sung, a former member of the boy band WANNA ONE.
When Yoon Ji-sun was a trainee, his younger sister had already entered the society to work, and also funded his brother's idol-like business.
At that time, when Yoon Ji-sung participated in the talent show, he also attracted attention because his interaction with his sister was very interesting, and his sister's funny personality helped him attract attention.
This time I went on a variety show with my sister, and the original intention was also to show the interesting daily life of the brothers and sisters, but I didn't expect it to overturn.
After the controversy, Yoon Ji-sung also explained that it was just a matter of different tastes from his sister. said that he is the eldest son in the family, and he has developed the habit of waiting for his sister to have something to eat.
In fact, there is less talk about brothers on the Internet, and more accusations of parents preferring sons to daughters.
And the resonance of my sister, as the one who was treated unfairly, will be the first to come out to "apologize".
In fact, after the video was broadcast, aside from the fact that she didn't put eggs on her daughter since she was a child, the attitude that my mother avoided talking about at the moment, and the attitude that my brother took for granted when he was favored, was deeply stung in the eyes of netizens.
If the mother can face the problem squarely at that time and give a reasonable reason, or say "my mother will add eggs to you next time I come home", or if my brother can see my sister's grievances and say "My brother will make you a bubble noodle with eggs now", my sister can also be comforted in my heart.
However, the truth is that no one feels that this is called "differential treatment", nor does they take their sister's grievances seriously.
Even many netizens complained: It's just an egg, as for what?
There are also some fans of Yoon Ji-sung who released examples of his friendliness to his teammates in the group to prove that he is a good person. Even though most of the fans are girls.
Remember yesterday's article in Digging Sauce? (Review poke here) mentioned that many women will be labeled with some malicious labels, tanks, money-losing goods, good family style...
Every stage of a woman's life, as long as she is well-behaved and sensible, a good wife and a good mother who does not conform to the worldly vision, it is followed by a different vision, or the education of people (regardless of gender). This is the norm for women in this current social order.
And when this girl was born into a patriarchal family...
Even before she was beaten by society, the overt and covert discrimination in the family was enough to destroy her yearning for family, family affection, and marriage.
In the past, when the patriarchal ideology was more commonplace, there were several girls named Zhaodi in almost every village, and the meaning of existence was to carry the family's expectations for male children.
Now, in the face of some families with extreme situations, women who have awakened their minds dare to wave a knife and cut off the connection with their original family to welcome their new life. The past life was painful, but the good thing is to re-embrace the free future.
But the situation that can completely get rid of the original family is a minority after all, because the reality is that people's emotions are complex, and it is more patriarchal than the straightforward patriarchal preference like Zhaodi, who penetrates into every bit of life and repeatedly pulls with family affection.
The difference in life may be similar to the brother/brother's instant noodles with eggs in it, and you don't.
Therefore, many women are extremely empathetic to Yin Zhisheng's sister to come forward to clarify the behavior, even if they are treated differently, but when they see their mother being scolded and their brother being scolded, they will still can't bear it and want to speak for them.
Another label that accompanies the preference for sons is the reference to girls as "brother-supporting demons".
It refers to girls whose parents prefer sons and daughters, but who are still willing to pay for their parents and younger brothers/brothers after having financial resources.
Including the aforementioned sister Yin Ji Sheng, after coming forward to clarify for her brother, she was also similarly ridiculed.
There are many examples of "helping the younger brother demon", which is nothing for this younger brother, but it is a burden for girls with younger brothers. For example, in the marriage market, everyone is afraid of encountering "helping the brother devil"; On social media, the sister should be cautious about expressing her dedication to her younger brother, and the slightest mistake will be classified as a brother demon.
Diao-chan does not approve of the behavior of helping the younger brother, but also does not approve of the fact that women will be added a layer of infamy in this family bondage.
Why is a story of instant noodles and eggs sweeping the public opinion platform in China, Japan and South Korea?
Because there are too many women struggling with similar families, trapped in the walls of family affection, blood ties that cannot be abandoned, grievances that are occasionally treated differently, and then gradually realize the fact that parents may not love you, but they just don't love you as much as they love their brother/brother.