Recently, Shen Teng was invited to participate in Chang Yuan's brother-in-law's wedding, and the scene was happy and lively. But no one expected that this ordinary wedding would make Shen Teng rush to the hot search, and his wife Wang Qi was criticized.
The hot search exploded, the focus of the discussion was not on Shen Teng, but what attracted the attention of netizens was Wang Qi's out-of-shape figure, and they talked about it:
Some people think that Wang Qi's body is out of shape because of "physical problems"
Someone speaks without looking at the occasion and knocks under the entry
Some people are even more malicious and curse that the couple will have to leave sooner or later!
However, in fact, Wang Qi, who is "fat" and "not in good shape" in their mouths, was also a slender dancer with outstanding strength in the past, and he starred in sketches because of his good looks.
She has also participated in films such as "Railway Guerrilla" and "Ode to the Great River", and her professional strength is undoubted. The audience also appreciated her aura looks and acting skills.
Now she is ridiculed more because of her out-of-shape figure after giving birth, which is too harsh. There are many cases like her in the entertainment industry, and they have all been sneered at without exception.
Zhang Xinyi, who was originally prone to fat physique, was out of shape after giving birth, and came out to work before his body recovered, but was criticized for "lack of body management".
Once Zhang Xinyi wore a low-key dress to visit her husband Yuan Hong, and the photos taken secretly caused controversy on the Internet, and many people ridiculed "loose figure, poor waist-hip ratio". The straightforward Zhang Xinyi personally scolded and called on everyone to be more tolerant of breastfeeding women.
However, this did not stop the good deeds, and even the slender married women who recovered well after giving birth made "picking bones in the egg".
Just like Zhao Liying, after giving birth, she recovered her figure at the speed of light and came out for business, and her whole body was impeccable, but she was still complained by netizens that she had no aura.
Ma Yili was questioned about "sagging breasts" just after breastfeeding, forcing Ma Yili to respond because of breastfeeding the baby.
Good thing netizens can't imagine how much harm these malicious words can do to a woman who has just become a mother, they don't see the difficulties of breastfeeding women, and they will only judge women.
And this atmosphere is still pervasive, and even began to promote "hot mothers", as if it is very easy to recover immediately after childbirth. Even some men were affected, and when they saw their wives who were out of shape around them, they were dissatisfied, complaining about why they were lazy and did not do body management, and could not recover immediately.
An amateur variety show in South Korea shows this phenomenon: a wife who has three children and is a housewife at home is worried that her husband is drunk late at night and is not safe, and takes her child to find him against the cold wind.
When the husband saw his wife, he did not feel happy, but looked her up and down with great disgust, and his face was full of displeasure.
After returning home, he even accused his wife of why she appeared in front of colleagues, calling her "not good-looking" and "making herself faceless".
Under the influence of this grotesque atmosphere, more and more men feel that their wives should not only do housework and take care of children, but also pay attention to body management. Failure to meet the standards dislikes and questiones the wife who bears children for him.
However, this so-called "standard" is just something marketed by some people, which is superficial and meaningless.
The domestic film and television drama "This Life is also the First Time" attacked this phenomenon. The heroine is a newborn mother, shiny on the surface, people can't see that she gave birth, but under the actual delicate face is a tired face and small belly and stretch marks that cannot be concealed. She said that childbirth has never been as easy as everyone thinks, and that perfect mothers do not exist.
Someone once did an experiment on the uterus, which showed that the unborn uterus is very small, but the uterus expands to about 20 times the usual during pregnancy, and it is difficult to return to its original appearance even after childbirth.
This is the real fertility phenomenon, so women who are pregnant or have just given birth do not need to feel anxious, do not let the packaged marketing affect themselves, learn to accept and please themselves is the most important thing.
There are many kinds of beauty, and the confidence that radiates from the inside out is more important than appearance and figure.