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Kou Zhenhai is a famous actor and national first-class actor in the entertainment industry, who has participated in film and television works such as "Ao Lei Yilan", "The Legend of Young Shuai", "Deep Love", "Invincible County Order", "Yangmen Tiger General", "Thirty Mile Pu", "Four Generations in the Same House", "Gold Fan Family", "Jinghua Smoke Cloud" and other film and television works.
Kou Zhenhai has had two failed marriages, and in 2007, Kou Zhenhai married Li Ting, a beautiful actress 21 years younger, and the two had a son. Surprisingly, his mother-in-law was a few years younger than himself.
So what kind of person is Kou Zhenhai in life, and how did he not feel embarrassed to give filial piety to his father-in-law and mother-in-law?
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Kou Zhenhai was born in 1954 in an ordinary family in Suihua, Heilongjiang. After graduating from Suihua No. 3 Middle School in 1971, he was admitted to the Suihua Drama Troupe and became an actor.
In the troupe, Kou Zhenhai has performed in Peking Opera, Pingju Opera, Drama, Opera, Allegro and so on. At that time, although he was not yet 20 years old, he had missed the best opportunity to practice, and Kou Zhenhai, who did not admit defeat, passed this difficult stage with extraordinary persistence.
Although Kou Zhenhai worked hard and persevered, he had cramps every time he practiced, but the effect was not ideal. In the end, he ended up with a scar all over his body, even if he still has some sequelae.
To this end, Kou Zhenhai also wants to change the environment and look for a more suitable unit for development. He has successively gone to the Peking Opera Troupe and Song and Dance Troupe in Heilongjiang Province, the Song and Dance Troupe and the Drama Troupe in Guangdong Province.
Kou Zhenhai, who has rich acting experience and is self-motivated, almost admits whichever he exams, but the Suihua Drama Troupe of his unit just won't let him go.
In order to be able to change the status quo, this made Kou Zhenhai also constantly plead with the leader, but the leader was indifferent to his request. Then, Kou Zhenhai did a clever negative job by eating garlic before the performance to create the illusion of "pouring his voice".
Even if Kou Zhenhai tried everything he could, the leader still ignored it, in the words of the leader: It's not easy to train an actor by myself, why should I give it to others?
It was precisely because of such thoughts that Kou Zhenhai felt extremely helpless and distressed. When he was young, he only thought about himself, so he did not understand the practice at that time, a question related to personal future and destiny, why the leader did not consider it.
For a long time, Kou Zhenhai felt very stressed and angry at the same time. It's just that the environment of the times at that time, that's it, most people are the same as Kou Zhenhai.
For this reason, Kou Zhenhai can only idly watch the flowers blossom and fall in front of the court, wandering with the clouds outside the sky, consuming his youth in depression and helplessness.
In 1978, Tang Xiaodan, a famous director of Shanghai Film Studio, came to Heilongjiang to select actors for the movie "Ao Lei Yilan", and the young and handsome Kou Zhenhai was selected.
In a sense, being able to enter the crew of "Ao Lei Yilan" is undoubtedly a salvation for Kou Zhenhai. And this time, it was also a number of leaders who came forward to borrow Kou Zhenhai to the crew.
The film tells the story of the mid-17th century, when Aura Yilan participated in the mortal struggle to defend the country. The character Jingqiri Obuku has a lot of emotional drama, great tragedy and joy, big ups and downs, which puts a lot of pressure on Kou Zhenhai, who has just entered the film industry.
Although he had no experience to draw on, he consulted from various sources to find some creative essays of Soviet actors, as well as the performance theories of some domestic veteran drama bones with superb acting skills.
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Although Kou Zhenhai cherished this opportunity to star, no matter how hard he tried, he still couldn't scratch his head. Fortunately, the director is Tang Xiaodan, and the actors include actors such as Zhong Xinghuo and Zhang Yu, as well as newcomers like Kou Zhenhai Liang Danni, Liu Zhibing and others.
In the crew, Tang Xiaodan gave the actors a lot of free play and constantly encouraged everyone to say what they really thought, and Tang Xiaodan was particularly patient with the actors and never spared the film.
For this work, every time Kou Zhenhai recalls, he can't help but sigh with emotion: I played "Ao Lei Yilan", there are spring, summer, autumn and winter plays, and all the sour, sweet, bitter and spicy have tasted again.
In midsummer, Kou Zhenhai filmed winter scenes, he wore seven or eight layers of clothes, a cotton hat, and a leather jacket, covered for a whole day, and waited until the end of the evening, but found a large white spot on his back, which stunned everyone.
The hard shooting made Kou Zhenhai also usher in a harvest. When the film was released, "Ao Lei Yilan" won the Ministry of Culture Outstanding Film Award, and Kou Zhenhai, as the starring role, the performance was undoubtedly successful.
Although the film was a success, Kou Zhenhai said: This drama has left me with a lot of regrets, such as there are many traces of Peking Opera, the performance is blunt, and it is too emotional.
However, it is also because of this movie that Kou Zhenhai took the first step in the film and television industry. More importantly, this also allowed Kou Zhenhai to solve a difficult problem that could not be solved for a long time.
In 1979, Kou Zhenhai left and was transferred to Changchun Film Studio. Kou Zhenhai, who was bent on leaving, was trapped for seven or eight years, but was easily solved by a movie.
Even today, Kou Zhenhai is still full of emotion: If I am a leader, if my subordinates want to go to a high place, they will definitely let him go, and talents can continue to be cultivated when they leave, but there are not many opportunities for a person in a lifetime, maybe only once or twice.
Since then, Kou Zhenhai has successively filmed "Laughter in Moon Bay" and "Love, what is your last name?" ", "The Third Goddess" and a series of films.
During this period, Kou Zhenhai learned to swim in swimming and learned to act in performance, successfully completing the transition from stage actor to film and television actor, and he has been waiting for an opportunity, a chance for him to really become famous.
In 1983, with a handsome appearance and a temperament full of haoran, Kou Zhenhai was favored by the crew of CCTV's "The Legend of Young Shuai" and began the process of "Young Shuai Professional Household".
At that time, many people felt that Kou Zhenhai was very much like "Zhang Xueliang", but Kou Zhenhai always thought that he was not like it, not at all. In fact, Kou Zhenhai's inner masculinity and elegant temperament are most in line with the director's "god-like" requirements, and also in line with the image of "Zhang Xueliang" in the audience's mind.
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Although Kou Zhenhai is not a big-name star, his personality is straightforward and bookish, and he often clashes with the director. At that time, he was more youthful and genuine, and the director seemed to lack a kind of handling art.
Once, in the handling of the role, after a dispute with the director, Kou Zhenhai went downstairs in a negative mood to adjust his emotions, and waited until three minutes later to go upstairs again, but found that the director was gone, and other actors said: He went to find the director because Kou Zhenhai "striked".
And this also led to the intensification of the conflict between Kou Zhenhai and the director, and even more actors and directors clashed. In the end, the Taiwan leader decided to change people, but the person who changed was not Kou Zhenhai, but the director.
At that time, Kou Zhenhai was too truthful, and even he couldn't help but say: I was too young, did not know how to coordinate at all, was too self-centered, always thought that I was right, and lacked mutual understanding.
The new director, who respects the actor very much, often says to Kou Zhenhai: "How should I do tomorrow's play?" "Kou Zhenhai will go to the photographer to talk about splitting lenses. It is Kou Zhenhai's seriousness and professionalism that has driven the enthusiastic creation of the whole crew, making this work a masterpiece.
When "The Legend of Young Shuai" was broadcast, it was broadcast seven times on CCTV, and the image of the young handsome created by Kou Zhenhai also captivated most audiences and became the favorite to win the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actor that year, but in the end, Kou Zhenhai did not even report his name.
For this matter, Kou Zhenhai also said calmly: This is not the scourge of my fierce conflict with that director.
In 1985, Kou Zhenhai was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy acting cadre special class to study, systematically learned performance theory and skills, and studied hard with a large number of popular actors such as Tang Guoqiang, Guo Kaimin, Song Chunli and so on.
For this opportunity to learn, Kou Zhenhai cherished it very much, eagerly absorbed the nutrition of film art, and went to graduate school after studying.
When he walked out of the school again, he was greeted by the TV series "Young Shuai Spring and Autumn". This TV series can be called a sister chapter of "The Legend of Young Handsome", focusing on legend, the difference is that it pays more attention to realism.
Before going to further training, Kou Zhenhai clearly knew his own shortcomings, he learned from experience, began to make up, and studied hard to play a good role.
When "Young Shuai Spring and Autumn" was broadcast, it was once again broadcast on CCTV, and Kou Zhenhai's performance also reached the level of pure green, and "Young Shuai" also became synonymous with Kou Zhenhai.
He has played the role Zhang Xueliang in nine film and television works such as "Yang Hucheng", "Manchurian Tiger Action", "Feng Yuxiang" and "Zhifeng War". Even if there are so many films, what he is most satisfied with are "The Legend of Young Shuai" and "Young Shuai Spring and Autumn".
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In 1997, Kou Zhenhai was transferred to the China Youth Art Theater and participated in starring in several dramas. Kou Zhenhai, who was involved in the drama, suddenly disappeared on the screen, which made many people very curious.
It was not until 2002, in the Qiong Yao drama "Deep Love" broadcast by CCTV, that everyone saw Kou Zhenhai. For this role, it also caused a lot of controversy at that time.
After all, before this, Kou Zhenhai created a very positive image, and in "Deep Love", he played the "Black Panther" Lu Zhenhua, very sharp, irritable and stubborn.
I have to say that in this work, Kou Zhenhai's performance is very exquisite, and every expression is very subtle, highlighting the father's love for his daughter, and the husband's love for his wife.
In the face of Kou Zhenhai's performance, Qiong Yao also called him specifically and praised: You acted better than the script.
Then, he participated in film and television dramas such as "Gold Fan Family", "Flying Knives, See Flying Knives" and other film and television dramas, and the roles he played were almost all fathers, and the father image on the screen was unforgettable, and at the same time fascinated many people, and was even known as the "master killer".
It's just that people didn't expect that this "grandmother killer" has suffered many vicissitudes emotionally, has been divorced twice, and has a daughter Koaro.
Still in the 80s, Kou Zhenhai got married and had a daughter Kou Aro. It's just that because the sense of career is too strong, which makes Kou Zhenhai film outside all year round, the couple get together less and leave more, and the relationship is getting weaker and weaker, and finally chose to part ways.
In the 90s, Kou Zhenhai entered into marriage again, but this marriage did not last long, and for various reasons, they divorced peacefully.
Although he has had two failed marriages, Kou Zhenhai is still full of desire for a happy family and is still actively seeking love. Talking about love and marriage, Kou Zhenhai said: love is unattainable, there is no immutable thing, the sea oath mountain alliance is useless, sometimes it is difficult to predict, sometimes it is fate, if you don't want to, don't marry, don't get married in order to cater to others, sometimes you have to give up when you should give up.
In 2003, while filming the TV series "Flowers Drift Zero", Kou Zhenhai met the beautiful actress Li Ting. For the original intention of the two to fall in love, they all maintain a unified caliber: his or her kind of real energy is the most exciting to me.
Li Ting, born in Qingdao, Shandong Province in 1975, is 21 years younger than Kou Zhenhai, and has participated in works such as "Bitter Cauliflower", "The Legend of Bruce Lee", "Heroes Without Regrets", "Flowers Float Zero" and other works.
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Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting's first encounter originated from a car scene. At that time, Li Ting just knew that she was going to play a couple with someone 21 years older than herself, which she thought was unlikely.
However, on that day, Kou Zhenhai was wearing a suit, and Li Tingxin said: Isn't this the old man in "Deep Love"?
Although Kou Zhenhai entered middle age, he was very humorous, and jokes from time to time soon made Li Ting forget the age gap. In the circle, Kou Zhenhai's serious dedication has been witnessed, and a scene is a word from beginning to end.
Once it was a shot of Li Ting, Kou Zhenhai gave Li Ting a word, and accidentally fell into the sofa. Even though the gaffer covered his face, he was still there.
Looking at the dedicated Kou Zhenhai, Li Ting was suddenly shocked, she admired Kou Zhenhai very much, and felt that he was a very serious and dedicated man from her heart.
While filming a drinking scene, Kou Zhenhai said half-jokingly to Li Ting: "Let's do it!" Unexpectedly, the bold Li Ting poured the whole glass of wine down as soon as she leaned her neck, and as a result, she fainted before the scene was filmed, and made a lot of jokes.
It is precisely because of Li Ting's real strength that Kou Zhenhai's heart ripples. They both have a crush on each other, so they will both pay attention to each other.
In the later observation, Kou Zhenhai found that Li Ting was not only good at entering the play, but also very kind, pure, and not philistine, and his good impression of her was born.
Although he longs for love, after two divorces, Kou Zhenhai is very cautious about love, and he doesn't know if the girl will have a grudge about the age gap between them.
Because he has a good impression in his heart, Kou Zhenhai is very good to Li Ting in the crew, which also makes many people in the crew say to Li Ting that Teacher Kou likes you, but Li Ting can't see it, even Kou Zhenhai doesn't think it's like, but an appreciation.
Every evening, Kou Zhenhai would call Li Ting to dinner. Slowly, the hearts of the two became closer and closer, and when the scene was filmed, they also confirmed their relationship.
However, none of them said "I love you" directly. For Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting, those three words are best buried deep in their hearts, take root and thrive.
Perhaps this shortcoming is poetic romance, but it has a sincere and strong simplicity. Love is not meant to be a heavy burden in life.
After falling in love for a few years, Kou Zhenhai never mentioned marriage, he felt that at his age, he had no right to ask Li Ting to go to the palace of marriage, and it was also Li Ting's idea to get married.
For Li Ting, she wants to continue this love until the whitehead. And Kou Zhenhai persuaded against his will while longing: You are still young, you should find someone of the same age, career and physical condition are more suitable for you.
And beside Li Ting, there is no shortage of such excellent men, but she still persistently hopes to be with Kou Zhenhai, accompany him to old age, and take good care of him.
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However, for the love between Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting, there were also obstacles, that is, Li Ting's parents. When they learned that their daughter was with Kou Zhenhai, who was 21 years older, they strongly objected and asked Li Ting to break up with Kou Zhenhai immediately.
How can a girl who is deeply in love get out so easily? She promised her parents, but Li Ting transferred her love underground.
Even after being discovered by her parents, Li Ting still insisted, no matter what her parents said, Li Ting would be with Kou Zhenhai, looking at her affectionate daughter, her parents could only helplessly agree.
In 2007, Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting held a wedding in Beijing and became a couple. The following year, Li Ting successfully gave birth to a son, and the 54-year-old Kou Zhenhai was happy to be a father again.
You know, her daughter Koaro was 27 years old at that time, but Kou Zhenhai was still very excited and happy, and poured all his love into this son.
In order to be able to give his wife and children a better living environment, even if he is over half a hundred years old, Kou Zhenhai still does not dare to grow old, is active on the screen, and constantly filmed to earn money to support his family.
After having a child, Li Ting shifted her focus and energy to the family and gradually reduced her work. Under Li Ting's care and care, Kou Zhenhai lived a warm and happy life.
Although this "yearless love" marriage has caused a lot of controversy, Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting paid no attention to it, only using time to prove that they really love each other, and they feel that as long as the family is together, they are happy.
Under Li Ting's young vitality, Kou Zhenhai, who has reached the age of flower armor, has also become much younger, and the frequency of taking on plays is higher than that of some young actors.
Because Kou Zhenhai is old, many times, it is Li Ting who takes care of him and warms Kou Zhenhai's later life in the most intimate way.
And behind the sweet love of Kou Zhenhai and Li Ting, Li Ting's family has also been hurt, and even brought them endless pressure and ridicule.
They gradually reduced their social interaction and interaction with relatives and friends, and lived with their daughters and sons-in-law. You know, Kou Zhenhai is a few years older than Li Ting's mother, and when they first got along, they were also more embarrassed, which is a common human feeling.
However, no one's heart is made of iron. Strictly speaking, Kou Zhenhai also has to thank Li Ting and his father-in-law and mother-in-law. Because of the nature of his work, this makes him very busy, for the sake of the family, Li Ting gave up her career, and was at home with her husband and son, and her father-in-law and mother-in-law also came to help from time to time.
For the help of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Kou Zhenhai saw it in his eyes. Even if his age is worse than his mother-in-law's age, when facing them, he will still be respectful and warm the hearts of his father-in-law and mother-in-law in a warm and filial way.
Although his mother-in-law is a few years younger than himself, Kou Zhenhai can still calmly and calmly give them filial piety, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law can also enjoy the old age of their children and grandchildren.............
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