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"What the hell are you trying to do with this old man?
This is the most common thing Li Ting's parents and friends say to her.
Whether the name Li Ting is a little popular, many people don't know who she is, but when it comes to the "old man" that Li Ting has a crush on, they must all know it.
"Deep Love and Rain" is also a witness of an era, and when many people hear this drama, they will think of "Aunt Xue who knocked on the door", "Warm Yiping", and "Black Leopard Lu Zhenhua".
Today is talking about the "irascible black leopard" Kou Zhenhai.
married a Li Ting in her early 20s at the age of "knowing her fate", and was almost poked through her back!
Old Husband and Wife
For a long time, "old husbands and young wives" has always been one of the topics of people's attention.
In this fast-paced society, many people find the relationship difficult to maintain and find common ground.
However, real-life examples tell us that as long as two people truly love each other, no matter how much age difference, they can create a good married life.
When he was 49 years old, Kou Zhenhai met the 28-year-old actress Li Ting in the filming of the TV series "Flowers Drift Away".
The two get along more and more frequently in the crew.
Kou Zhenhai has had two marriages before, and has a daughter who is about the same age as "Li Ting".
Perhaps sensing Li Ting's good impression of him, he decided to take the initiative.
At a party, Kou Zhenhai gave Li Ting a drink, but Li Ting fell drunk on the sofa.
Only then did Kou Zhenhai realize that Li Ting didn't know how to drink at all.
He felt deeply remorseful, personally drove Li Ting home, and became more devoted to her after that.
Soon after the crew ended, the two officially established their relationship.
But Li Ting's parents strongly opposed the relationship between the two.
They feel that the 21-year-old age difference is really unfavorable for their daughter, after all, by the time her daughter is 50 years old, Kou Zhenhai will already be in her 70s.
But Li Ting was desperate for Kou Zhenhai.
Once, she took Kou Zhenhai home for dinner.
Kou Zhenhai also tried his best to please his father-in-law and mother-in-law and express his sincerity to Li Ting.
Gradually, Li Ting's parents also accepted this eldest son-in-law.
After four years of love, 53-year-old Kou Zhenhai and 32-year-old Li Ting finally entered into marriage.
Their wedding was huge.
Li Ting and Kou Zhenhai's ex-wife's daughter got along well and became good sisters.
On the other hand, 55-year-old Kou Zhenhai became a father again, and Li Ting gave birth to her son Kou Jiabao.
As a new old father, Kou Zhenhai is not only relieved by the joy of being a father again, but also worried about taking on the responsibility of making money to support his family.
In order to earn milk powder money, 68-year-old Kou Zhenhai is still filming non-stop.
He hopes to be with his son for a longer time in his lifetime, and maybe he can accompany him through 30 or 40 years of life.
Kou Zhenhai also often does housework with his son, teaching him to grow vegetables and other activities.
His parenting style has benefited his son immensely.
Now his son has also joined the entertainment industry and wants to become an excellent actor like his father.
This over-age relationship is also quite surprising in the eyes of others.
Whenever Kou Zhenhai brought his beautiful wife, who was much younger than him, to a party, he would always be questioned frequently. ，
"Is this a daughter?" made Kou Zhenhai cry and laugh.
But after so many years of marriage running-in, the old husband and young wife have long been Xi to it.
They lived happily ever after.
Li Ting didn't look at the wrong person, Kou Zhenhai was really good to her.
However, Kou Zhenhai was also very good to his ex-wife, but the two still ended in divorce.
Kou Zhenhai's ex-wife also met Kou Zhenhai from acting.
I don't know what it's like to be young
Kou Zhenhai developed a strong interest in drama when he was a teenager and joined the Pingju Troupe to begin professional training.
Despite the pressure, including not being able to do certain movements due to his age and being ridiculed in life, he persevered and got up at four or five in the morning to train.
After several years of learning and training, he gradually became an important pillar Xi of the theater and participated in many classic productions.
Slowly, Kou Zhenhai realized that only by going out of his hometown could he achieve his dream of greater achievements.
He signed up for a number of art groups outside the province and successfully joined the Harbin Opera House through auditions.
There, he was given more opportunities to develop his talents, but he also suffered setbacks.
It was here that Kou Zhenhai met his first love, named Zhang Xiaohui.
Although the age difference between the two is also a bit big, they still love each other and quickly enter the palace of marriage.
Because Kou Zhenhai was busy pursuing his career at that time, he neglected his family and his lover, which led to a deepening rift between the two.
In addition, after having a daughter, Kou Zhenhai became more and more busy for the sake of his daughter.
In the end, for various reasons, they got together, and they went to divorce.
After the divorce, Kou Zhenhai knew that he owed the family, so he made concessions on the division of property and left most of the property to Zhang Xiaohui, hoping that she could live a better life.
After Kou Zhenhai's first marriage ended, he did not feel discouraged, on the contrary, he devoted all his energy to the development of his career.
In 1978, the famous director Tang Xiaodan saw his potential and invited him to participate in the performance of the movie "Ao Lei Yilan".
Kou Zhenhai's first encounter with film was not an easy task, as he did not adapt to the requirements of the script at first, and he seemed at a loss compared to other colleagues.
After repeated rehearsals and team support, Kou Zhenhai gradually found a rhythm and performed well in the play.
The success of this film made him popular in China, which also strengthened his confidence in the development of the film industry.
It was also because of this drama that Kou Zhenhai met his second wife.
The woman's name is Li Yan and she is an ordinary clerk.
In the face of this passionate relationship, Kou Zhenhai, who had been married once, was a little overwhelmed, but he still mustered up the courage to pursue and marry Li Yan, and started the second marriage in his life.
But this seemingly happy love is only as fragile and fragile as a glass doll after all.
As time passed, Kou Zhenhai felt more and more that he and Li Yan's personality were not compatible, and it was difficult to communicate.
And the values of the two sides are too different, so they stumble and can't find a common topic.
Not only that, Li Yan and Kou Aluo, that is, Kou Zhenhai's daughter did not get along very well.
Faced with family trivialities, in this way, Kou Zhenhai began a long-term busy life, which also led to the relationship between the two becoming increasingly estranged, and finally inevitably broke down.
After his second divorce, Kou Zhenhai was determined to open up new fields.
Kou Zhenhai participated in the competition of Changchun Film Studio and was hired.
At the beginning of the new unit, he did not first act as an extra, as many newcomers do, but was directly assigned as the leading role.
This changing of the guard brought a qualitative leap to his career, and he took on many TV episodes in a row and won the love of the audience.
In his career, Kou Zhenhai's roles are mostly deeply rooted in the hearts of the people with the image of being brave and good at fighting, especially in the TV series "Please Jun", which shows his personal charm and strength.
There is also the most classic "Deep Love and Rain", the "Black Panther Lu Zhenhua" played by him is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and many viewers almost smashed "rotten eggs" for him after watching the TV series.
Although Kou Zhenhai is now 68 years old, he is still active in the entertainment industry.
His life is full of color and energy, not only does he have his own business, but he also has a lovely wife and well-behaved son by his side.
Their marriage was like a pair of shoes, and despite all the ups and downs, they stayed together.