The 28-year-old girl was placed in an object, and because of the dowry problem, the two families were deadlocked

The girl's name is Shanshan, 28 years old, after graduating from college, she is looking for a job in Shanghai, and her unit is a state-owned enterprise.

Shanshan's parents have two children, a son and a daughter, Shanshan is an older sister, and her brother is 25 years old, called Yuwen, who has been working in the local area for several years and has not yet found a partner.

Shanshan's parents are laid-off workers, because there is no income, after the implementation of the state's policy of re-employment of laid-off workers, both people have found jobs, but they do not earn much, and the family originally had some savings, because for the two children to go to college, the family has been spent.

Shanshan's parents' monthly salary went to the living expenses, and the human expenses were not left with a few dollars.

There are to Introduce the object to Yuwen, when the blind date, also feel good, when talking about the wedding bride price, the house and the car, which involves money, the old two are embarrassed, can not come up with money, the other party's family does not agree.

The old couple discussed how not to let the son find no object.

What did they think of?

Let Shanshan ask for a bride price for her brother to get married.

You can guess without saying: "That's the wool on the sister." ”

A daughter who has been raised for more than twenty years, if she marries someone else's family, it should be reasonable to order a bride price, and there is only one way.

After the parents discussed it, the pace of urging the daughter to find a partner began to speed up.

In fact, it is also very normal, Shanshan is 28 years old, and no longer looking for age is getting older and older every year, and it is getting harder and harder to find.

Here Shanshan through the introduction of friends, met a young man, a year older than her, all aspects are good, the most important thing is that this boy is real, but also likes Shanshan, honest about Shanshan, people are cheerful and atmospheric, do not drag mud and water, vigorous, and honest and do not play tricks.

The young man, Wu Di, is 29 years old, studying at a university in Hangzhou, and after graduating from college, he was admitted to the civil service and worked in an organ in Shanghai.

Shanshan is also very optimistic about Wu Di, but she still feels that she does not know Much about Wu Di, and she still needs to talk about it after getting along with Wu Di, because things have not yet developed, so she has not told her family.

Shanshan made up her own mind and began to get along with Wu Di.

You don't have to say that these two people have good character, are humble and condescending, and feel good after a while.

After a few months, the two began to study meeting parents.

Shanshan felt that she had to talk to her parents first, and it was not too late to see her parents again.

Wu Di also agreed that the two people would first explain each other's situation to their parents and see the opinions of the family.

When Shanshan told her parents, her mother was very happy and said to Shanshan in front of Wu Di's photo:

"Nice, handsome. ＂

Shanshan's father said:

"Don't be in a hurry to be happy, ask about the bride price, the bride price can't be taken out, we can't agree."

Shanshan's mother also said:

"We have to say yes first, otherwise if we don't get enough dowry at that time, we can't agree to this marriage, let relatives and friends laugh, and it won't be good for our daughters."

Shanshan's mother had already calculated that she had to ask for a dowry of 250,000 yuan, and not a penny could be less.

Shanshan's mother said to Shanshan:

"Tell Wu Di at one time, let his family get a dowry of 250,000 yuan, in the future, when you get married, we can't pay the dowry, and we don't spend this money, so leave it for your brother to get married."

"And with the money, we don't need you to retire when we're old, and you don't have to manage alimony."

Shanshan was confused after listening to it, how to tell Wu Di about this, isn't this not wanting me, is this selling me?

Shanshan was so anxious that her tears came down, there was no way, she could only tell Wu Di the truth.

Can Wu Di solve the problem of 250,000 dowry?

No.

Wu Di's parents are working-class people, have savings, in Shanghai, they took out a loan to buy a small apartment, their deposits are not enough to pay a down payment, and they borrow tens of thousands with their relatives, there is no money in their hands, and there is no place to borrow.

Originally, I thought that Wu Di had a place to stay, find an object to live a life, and the old two helped repay the loan, and this day could still be good.

Who ever wanted to marry a daughter-in-law, but also to take the dowry money, but also 250,000 points is not a lot, the old two listened to the son after speaking, the heart is not a taste, the 250,000 really can not be taken out.

Wu Di is not only thinking about the 250,000 yuan problem, he feels that Shanshan's parents are a bit too much, taking not adoptive parents as a condition, which is a bit incomprehensible.

If Shanshan's parents are old, and her son and daughter-in-law do not adopt their parents, can Shanshan remain indifferent?

Things get to this point, this couple is a little difficult to handle, want to break up? The two were reluctant to score.

Want to keep getting along? One family asks for money, and the other can't come up with it.

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