孟非，作为曾经的“江苏名嘴”，曾凭借《非诚勿扰》成功坐上“江苏卫视一哥”宝座，一度大红大紫，人们亲切地称他为“孟爷爷”。
然而，如今的孟非，却仿佛在娱乐圈成为了“隐形人”，近一年除了一档《非诚勿扰》，几乎没有在别的舞台上出现过。
很多人觉得，孟非这是“过气”了。
在主持界，已经混到了没有节目可主持的地步了！
Actually, otherwise.
假如你看过孟非从印刷厂工人到电视台主持人，“一路飞升”的人生故事，你会发现，他比我们想象的还要睿智。
你更会发现，如今51岁的他，原来早已走上了另一条“康庄大道”了！
Meng Fei's wisdom finally couldn't hide it!
01
Compared with He Jiong, Kang Hui, and Sa Bening, who are still fighting on the front line at the age of forty or fifty, the 51-year-old Meng Fei is already in a "semi-retired" state.
细扒他近几年的微博，你会发现，孟非近几年，几乎所有的时间，都在游山玩水，十分惬意。
这也让他的精神气儿，比同龄人好太多。 不知道的人，还以为是二十多岁的小伙子。
Seeing this, maybe you will be curious :
Teacher He Jiong, who is a good moneymaker, is still trying to make money, why can Meng Fei be so dashing and comfortable?
况且，直播中，孟非的家，看上去并非豪宅，甚至还有些老旧，就连经常开的车，也是几十万的档次。
比起一线明星，孟非不算有钱。
提前半退休，哪来的底气？
其实，没有例外，这背后，还是钱给的底气。
We thought Meng Fei was ordinary, but we didn't know that people just didn't love big mansions and didn't like to show off their wealth.
As early as after "Do Not Disturb" became popular, Meng Fei's value soared all the way.
In the 2014 Forbes Celebrity List, Meng Fei was on the list, with an annual income of 18.2 million!
那之后，各种代言像雪花一样，向他飘来，孟非赚得盆满钵满。
Naturally, the entertainment industry is updated quickly, and if you only rely on these incomes, maybe one day it will not be popular, and the income will fall off a cliff.
Therefore, the wise Meng Fei has long had a layout.
很全面，有尝试，也有取舍。
In 2011, Meng Fei published his autobiography "Feel Safe with Encounters".
In the same year, the royalty income was 4.8 million, ranking 19th on the Chinese Writers' Wealth List.
In 2012, he opened a cultural development company in the name of his daughter Meng Xingya.
先后投资了十多家公司，赚了不少钱。
In 2014, Meng Fei began to use his popularity to do business, he opened "Meng Fei's small shop", and the noodle shop business has grown from strength to strength, and now has 10 branches.
In the same year, Meng Fei and Jiangsu Satellite TV, two directors Wang Peijie and Wang Gang, who had produced "The Strongest Brain", co-founded "Vision Film and Television".
Subsequently, many programs were produced, such as "Four Famous Suke", "Amazing Child", and "New Blind Date Era".
This also means that Meng Fei, who was dependent on Jiangsu Satellite TV in the early days and took a dead salary, has become a behind-the-scenes boss and has a share of income.
In 2017, Meng Fei and Huang Lei opened the "Huangliang Yimeng" hot pot restaurant.
Because of the high price and the complaining, Meng Fei stopped the loss in time and withdrew.
Later, Meng Fei also tried to bring goods to the popular live broadcast, but only brought it once, and he understood that the money in this field was not suitable for him to earn.
Therefore, he wisely withdrew from this road, and also avoided the situation of word of mouth overturning like many stars.
Because of these layouts, and because he knows how to make trade-offs, Meng Fei has already achieved financial freedom early.
他将人生的选择权，牢牢地把握在自己手里。
不过，而今，早已是富豪的孟非，依旧低调。
The million-Mercedes-Benz Big G and the Rolex Green Water Ghost, who only occasionally appear in the camera, are still inadvertently revealing his family background.
说到这里，你也许会好奇，孟非是怎么一步步从一个印刷厂工人，逆袭为而今的隐形富豪？
Everything, you have to start from the beginning.
02
Huang Lei once said of Meng Fei: "There is a bookish atmosphere in the reckless atmosphere. ”
Indeed, in Meng Fei, you can see the shadow of the workers and smell the persistence of the intellectuals. It is clear that he is from a scholarly family, but he constantly emphasizes that he comes from the bottom.
看似矛盾的背后，还和孟非早年的经历有关。
Meng Fei, born in 1971, is a media family in Chongqing.
Before the age of 12, due to his parents' busy work, Meng Fei was sent to his grandmother's house in the countryside.
There, Meng Fei had his grandmother's meticulous care, and there were happy times with his friends to pick up stones, catch clams, and look at the stars, and he thought that such happiness would last forever.
Until he was 12 years old, his parents came to pick him up:
“该回城里念中学了！”
于是，孟非恋恋不舍地告别外婆，跟着父母，回到城里。
Although the material conditions in the city were richer than in the countryside, Meng Fei was depressed.
Because here, parents are emotionally discordant and often quarrel; Because of his busy work, he neglected to take care of him.
In addition, his grades were seriously biased, and his Chinese grades were excellent, but his mathematics, physics and chemistry scores were quite poor, and he was often criticized by teachers.
正如许多年后，孟非所感慨：
"My life, from the age of 12, has become bleak."
Meng Fei, how much he wanted to go back to his grandmother, to the good times before he was 12 years old, but unfortunately he couldn't.
那段时间，为了排解学习和生活的不如意，孟非时常把自己一个人，关在房间里读书。
也正因如此，孟非的学识突飞猛进，文字功底和表达能力快速提升。
这意外地让他的作文拿高分，甚至还经常在作文比赛中拿奖。
然而，这对高考来说，是远远不够的。
In the year of the college entrance examination, Mengfei language scores caught up with the top students in liberal arts, but the mathematics, physics and chemistry combined barely scored 100 points.
没有意外，孟非高考落榜了。
His parents suggested that he repeat his studies, but he would not have enough confidence in himself and did not believe that he would be admitted to university after another year, so he decided to go to Shenzhen to work.
It is said that all roads lead to Rome, maybe it is a way out!
The day before he went to Shenzhen, Meng Fei was full of hope for the future and spent Christmas with his parents at his parents' colleague's house.
They are all talents in the media industry, you play the piano, I sing, he dances, his music is harmonious, and the cultural atmosphere is very rich.
However, the next day, when this son of the original elegant family was really thrown into a strange environment, he suddenly realized:
Everything was different from what he thought.
03
Before coming to Shenzhen, Meng Fei thought that "no matter where a hero comes from", even if he does not have that diploma, he can break into the world.
But, in fact, diplomas are far more important than he thought.
Because he only had a high school education, Meng Fei searched for a stable job.
That year, Meng Fei was either setting up a stall, helping others carry goods, and even riding a tricycle to bring water to others.
In this way, after working in Shenzhen piecemeal for a year, Meng Fei felt that it was not a way to go on like this.
于是，他打道回府，托父母给自己介绍了一份在江苏广播电视报印刷厂当印刷工的工作。
比起，在深圳当搬运工那有一顿没一顿的生活 ，印刷厂的活儿轻松多了 ，孟非感到很知足。
So, he rolled up his sleeves every day and worked hard.
Until one day, Meng Fei had dinner with a former female classmate, he suddenly realized: it can't go on like this.
那天，孟非约了中学的一位女同学吃饭。
Before going to the appointment, Meng Fei also specially brushed his hands with a full process of kerosene, gasoline and washing powder.
However, when Meng Fei arrived at the restaurant, his clean hands, which thought they were brushing, printed on the dining table, could still see the imprint of ink.
尤其，指甲里的黑色和女同学惊诧的目光，更是让孟非感到：
"Not worthy of this tablecloth."
So, he silently put his hand under the table.
From then on, Meng Fei understood:
Society has relegated him to another class.
Even if he doesn't want to admit it, circumstances and people will remind him that he has fallen into the bottom.
就像，他曾在食堂吃饭时，电视台的编导老师，看到和他一样的工人同伴们在窗口勾肩搭背地打饭时，总是刻意避开。
都说，经历若能感悟，也能变成一份礼物。
这段被俯视的经历，让孟非痛苦的同时，也让他有了改变命运的决心。
从那时起，孟非总是利用业余时间，恶补文化知识，准备再考一次大学。
However, before he could be admitted to university, an accident happened.
Meng Fei, who worked two consecutive night shifts, was too tired when cleaning the machine, and his hand was accidentally caught in the steel roller, and his flesh and blood were blurred immediately.
For the next two months, Meng Fei was recovering from his injuries.
During that time, Meng Fei's mood was very bad, he felt that he couldn't do anything, and his mood reached the lowest point.
就在这个关口，孟非的父母帮他做了一个足以改变他一生的决定：
I worked at Jiangsu TV Station, starting as a temporary worker.
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People who have experienced the trough know how to cherish it more.
曾经孟非身上那份无知无畏的劲儿，慢慢地在时光中沉淀成一份稳重和隐忍。
At the TV station, Meng Fei's first job was as a photographer's assistant.
At that time, he always carried a bulky tripod to the scene, was called around every day, and was often sent to run errands and miscellaneous, without dignity.
However, after experiencing the days at the bottom, Meng Fei cherished this hard-won opportunity even more.
那会的他明白，他要的不是一份听起来光鲜的工作 ，而是要改变自己的命运。
Therefore, he couldn't fight back, scolded and didn't fight back, and got along with his predecessors and had a good relationship with them.
Gradually, the seniors felt that this young man was reliable and could be a person, and they were willing to take time to teach him photography and editing.
此外，孟非还私下准备考大学，并于1994年，成功考上大学。
Fortunately, in the same year that Meng Fei was admitted to university, he also upgraded from junior assistant to photographer.
05
成为摄影师之后，孟非也没放慢前进的脚步。
In addition to improving his photography skills, Meng Fei also learned to write and interview.
Perhaps it is because I have done almost the work in the stage and have good control over the overall process.
那会，孟非的片子质量，总是台里最好的。
1995年，孟非得到拍摄纪录片《奔向亚特兰大》的机会，并且获得体育电视二等奖。
In 1996, Meng Fei was the chief photographer and shot the 26-episode feature film "Flying to Atlanta", which won the award again.
至此，孟非在台里大放异彩，才华也被台长发现。
Meng Fei was delegated more tasks:
Directing, writing, producing...
In every case, Meng Fei completed excellently, and his excellent language ability was gradually excavated.
So, in 2002, the director of the station once again assigned Meng Fei a newcomer task - to host the live news information program "Nanjing Zero Distance".
于是，31岁这年，孟非就从幕后走到了台前，事业也即将迎来了急速上升时期。
Because he is not from a professional background, Meng Fei's hosting is not so standardized, but it seems grounded.
因为在底层摸爬滚打的经验，孟非了解底层老百姓在想什么，也能感同身受，话总能说到老百姓的心里去。
再加上孟非多年工作，沉淀下来的睿智，这一切，让孟非的节目，一经播出就受到追捧。
随着时间推移，孟非在观众中的影响力，也越来越大。
Once, a young man quarreled with his girlfriend, and his girlfriend threw out the door, and the young man couldn't find anyone, so he called the show for help.
As a result, Meng Fei said a sentence in the program:
“两人一起到异地打拼，互相照应扶持，很不容易。 不管怎么样，再给他一个机会见一面，不好么？ ”
Unexpectedly, after hearing this, the guy's girlfriend came to meet the guy after work.
还有一次，孟非感冒嗓子痛，节目播到一半，突然就说不出话来了。
As a result, not long after, a listener's eldest sister rushed to the TV station to treat his throat.
There was also a peasant brother who rode 100 kilometers from the village and brought 3 old hens to replenish Meng Fei.
这份影响力背后，是孟非对底层老百姓的理解，是孟非为他们而发声。
所以，那些年，孟非也被称为，“城市平民的代言人”。
People said of him:
"A flesh-and-blood representative of the moderator who always gets to the heart of the problem and denounces injustice."
And Meng Fei also gave everything for this trust and liking.
他始终在岗位上兢兢业业，始终对自己的观众，抱有一份极大的责任心，9年时间，只请过一次假。
His program "Nanjing Zero Distance" also ranked first in Nielsen's Nanjing regional TV program list in the 36th week after it was broadcast.
孟非，终于在主持界，站稳了脚跟。
06
都说“十年磨一剑”，在主持了10年《南京零距离》之后，孟非的主持功力越来越深厚，并被委派主持相亲节目《非诚勿扰》。
结果，这节目播出10期之后，收视率就超过3%，成了一部现象级节目。
In the show, his wisdom, Lejia's sharpness, and Huang Han's true feelings, coupled with some strange female guests who "would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" appear from time to time, bringing a steady stream of popularity to this show.
This also once made Jiangsu Satellite TV surpass Mango Satellite TV and become the industry leader, and Meng Fei, as the program host, also won the position of "Jiangsu Satellite TV's first brother".
After that, a steady stream of endorsements and commercial performances flew towards Meng Fei like snowflakes.
Rarely, Meng Fei did not float.
Even, in the face of the three invitations to the Spring Festival Gala, he declined politely.
He is well aware:
The Spring Festival Gala is a heavenly ladder, but it is also easy to step on.
在事业的巅峰期，保持一份这样的清醒，已经很不容易。
What is even more rare is that with the arrival of fame and fortune, Meng Fei did not embark on the road of "men become bad when they have money".
爆红这么多年，他始终没有传过绯闻。 For his first love, but also his later wife, he has always been affectionate as ever.
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从昔日的印刷厂工人逆袭为隐形富豪，功成名就之后却不飘，已实属难得。
更难得的是，孟非始终不忘作为一个公众人物的担当，并且总是力所能及地给予他人帮助。
河南郑州暴雨，灾情严重，他第一时间就捐出了100万。
In addition to donating to ordinary people who have suffered occasional changes, Meng Fei is also committed to sustainable charity.
Because of the pain of not going to school, in 2018, Meng Fei established the "Meng Xiang Extraordinary" trust through the "Charity First Trust".
每年捐100万，帮助云南大学100名贫困新生，直至他们本科毕业。
而今，是“孟想信托”成立的第 4年，孟非已经累计捐款400万，首批受赠的100名学生，也已然顺利完成学业。
都说，读书改变命运。
一个人的命运改变了，一家人的命运也就改变了，一个小地方的命运或将跟着改变。
孟非的善举，影响的不止是一个人，而是一个个家庭，一个个贫困地区。
Love knows no bounds.
It is believed that under the influence of Meng Fei's kindness, more and more people will join this good deed, including students who have received Meng Fei's help.
只想说，孟非，好样的。
励志、有责任感、有担当。
I hope that there are more and more public figures like Meng Fei in the entertainment industry, and while achieving their own achievements, they will not forget their social responsibilities.
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