Japanese anchor and actress Nami Tanami (田中みな実) recently revealed his amazing private life philosophy. In order to eliminate all unpleasant things in her private life, she broke off all relationships. Not only do they not maintain personal relations with anyone, they do not belong to any group, and they do not participate in any activities. Naomi Tanami believes that this life makes her quite comfortable and happy. However, this statement immediately triggered heated discussions among netizens, and everyone's views were quite polarized!
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"In order to eliminate the irritating things of his private life, Tanami Nami severed all interpersonal relationships and lived quickly."
Japanese beauty anchor Naomi Tanami (田中みな実) recently talked to guests on a radio show about how to face the unpleasantness of their private life. Tanami Naomi said that she just hated the troublesome interpersonal relationships in her private life, so she chose to cut off all personal relationships. This way you won't encounter anything unpleasant!
After this statement was reported by the media, it immediately triggered a large number of netizens to discuss. Some people are quite envious that Tanami Nami can do such a great job, and hope that he can be like her in the future. But some people are quite worried, thinking that this lonely life will cause psychological pressure and have nowhere to vent, or it is better to communicate with others!
The opinion of Japanese netizens is...
"I don't think I should cut off all relationships, but it's necessary. Thanks to the trade-offs in relationships, I haven't had any annoying things lately."
"This kind of mental construction is very important, and if you force yourself to keep communicating with others, it will not do you any good." Stress only hurts you."
"This is what I am striving for, and although I feel lonely, as long as I have someone around who can be called a best friend, that's enough!"
"I'm also tired of relationships, and I hope to get rid of the problem of liking to rely on others."
"I also want to be like this (laughs) It's good not to belong to any group. Although I should feel lonely, lately I just see those huddles and feel... Can't stand it. And Nami Tanami is really cute."
"I feel the same way. If you don't belong to any group, you don't need to bear inexplicable responsibilities and habits, and you won't encounter things that call you brothers and brothers and talk badly to each other in private."
"If you dedicate your life to work, if the work is not going well, you will feel that something will go wrong with your psyche, which is terrible."
"I also understand this feeling, but I am also afraid that loneliness will come soon."
"Nami Tanami can meet and talk to many people every day at work, unlike us who 'work is just typing on the computer keyboard'. So her so-called severance of personal friendship should not be comparable to us..."
"A lot of people have this idea lately, but I think it's a bit extreme, and some people even get to the point of arrogance. It can't be said to be the right thing to do."
"If you imitate her approach, it will only end badly." Because if you want to really break off relations with others, it is equivalent to letting others decide to break off relations with you. When the other person is still trying to maintain a relationship with you, you must also ruthlessly reject the other person. If she really did do this behavior, I would suspect that she was a person who had no humanity at all. What's more, the quality and quantity of personal friendship between ordinary people and artists are completely different, and they cannot be easily referenced."
"Even people who can tolerate loneliness occasionally want to be able to talk to others or feel the warmth of others. Therefore, severing relationships may usher in liberation, or it may collapse as a result. What is certain is that unless you are a genius, if you do this, the chances of discovering something new or changing life in the future will be greatly reduced."
"Many people think that networking or relationships are 'better than nothing', but if they are just thin exchanges, in the end it is meaningless. It is still best to maintain a thick and mutually beneficial and convenient relationship between the two parties. If there is no one to maintain the relationship, it is indeed enough to live alone. A convenient relationship sounds a bit like that, but I think it's really important."
Wan Sang was thinking, could it be that Tanami Nami is also a kagai bureau who chooses to sever a life of interpersonal relationships? Born in New York in 1986 and returning to Japan when she was in high school, her father is a bank president, her sister graduated from the University of Tokyo, and she herself graduated from Aoyama University.
Good looking, high education, good family, can be said to get a good script as soon as he was born, after graduating from university, Tanami Nami successfully entered the well-known Japanese TV station TBS as a female anchor.
But because she was contrived in the show, pretended to be cute, and was scheming, she was scolded very badly, and she was the first most hated female anchor in Japan for three consecutive years.
But in fact, what many people don't know is that it's just the arrangement of the show.
Seeing that she was whitewashed by the choice of hated ordinary people, and Tanaka did not choose to blacken herself, she chose to resign from TBS, put down her well-known anchor status, and switch to a free anchor, many people at that time did not understand that she killed herself.
As a result, Tanaka won another wave of fans through the show "How about a little scheming".
In the show, she boldly pointed out that the girl's "careful machine" sometimes shows her advanced gameplay, and with her true temperament and interesting comments in the show, Japanese audiences like her more and more.
In other shows, she is also bold in opening the microphone, polite and terrier, and for a while she gradually whitewashes and is liked by more people.
Then she launched her own personal portrait, at first she thought that it was already very good to sell 200,000 copies, but she didn't expect to sell 600,000 copies directly, won the sales championship, and even broke the record of the goddess Mai Shiraishi.
And to the surprise of many people, many of the people who bought her are girls, because everyone found her self-disciplined and excellent, and regarded her as a role model.
As a result, she has become the queen of Japan's goods, and as long as it is her upper body fashion items, it will soon be sold out.
Not only that, she was also exposed to acting, and starred in many roles, all of which were well received. From the former "most hated female anchor" to now Tanami Nami has been rated as the "most popular actress".
Such a "provocative master" and "most popular actress", but to reveal that he chose to cut off his interpersonal life, I can't help but be surprised, but if you think about it, if the economic conditions are enough to support, the editor who is a house seems to enjoy a person's willful free life.
Now we have reached an age of farewell, in fact, we have to give up many things, refuse useless socialization: those illusions of wide connections, the vanity of intertwined, the drama of calling brothers and brothers, in fact, there is no benefit, none of them are reliable at critical moments, don't go home quickly after work, it's a big deal to rest early, or accompany your parents more, that's what the world is worthwhile, do you think?