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The game between men and women is extreme, at a deep level, there is no right or wrong, and all right and wrong arise from self-thoughts, and also disappear because of self-meditation.
In recent years, talk shows have become popular under the leadership of Xiaoguo culture, and many jokers have also successfully gained fame and fortune.
TALK SHOWS, TALK SHOWS, ARE ACTUALLY COUNTED, BUT AFTER VARIOUS CHANGES, IT HAS BECOME A HUMOROUS JOKE WITH WITTY RIDICULE AND RIDICULE OF CURRENT AFFAIRS LIFE, AND IT IS A FIXED PROCESS TO MOCK SOCIAL PHENOMENA OR THE BEHAVIOR OF A CERTAIN PART OF PEOPLE.
In life, I find that the details of my thoughts of sorrow, joy and dislike are changed into paragraphs, but this kind of joke with personal judgment of likes and dislikes will inevitably cause controversy because of the difference in personal insight and experience, especially if the performer simply uses himself as an example, it may be better, once using the example of others, it is difficult to say whether it will cause confrontation and discussion in the group.
As mentioned in the previous paragraph, because the creators have different experiences and insights, some topics are difficult to think more far-reaching, such as ridicule about the sexes, among which the biggest response is Yang Li's "Puxin".
After watching that issue, I didn't actually feel how in the process of watching, as offensive art, on the stage, in the limited space and time period, these ridicules were actually not malicious, so no one thought that the abuse of ordinary people after art amplified individual characteristics would cause unexpected problems.
A certain netizen anonymously left what he encountered, he and his girlfriend had a good relationship and had planned to get married, but one day I don't know what the situation was, my girlfriend suddenly asked him:
"Are you a general believer?"
This sentence made netizens confused, he asked his girlfriend what do you think of me?
The girlfriend thought for a moment and said, "Isn't it? ”
This happened that day, but netizens hung this sentence in their hearts, he has never compared these things with his girlfriend in the past, thinking that it is good to have feelings, but I don't know why my girlfriend asked him, in short, this question can be said to stimulate this friend.
So he himself is out of control, he can't control the constant comparison, his height is 180, graduated from Fudan with a master's degree, won the national award, the family still has the ability to buy a house in Shanghai, parents are still public officials, in turn, the girlfriend is ordinary, the height is 155, the conditions at home are generally not good-tempered, and the parents do not have a pension, so a comprehensive comparison he can't figure out who believes it?
Netizens feel that they have been taught since childhood that people must be confident, even ordinary people should be very confident to face life and everything, but after the word Pu Zhen came out, it really made him feel ridiculous.
He believes that people with high self-esteem outside of self-confidence are actually not divided into men and women, in turn, many girls will be more self-esteemed than boys, so lofty and far-reaching, which was originally the weakness of some people's human nature, no gender, but in such a promotion on the show, the result became a prejudice, an unfriendliness to ordinary men, so this netizen felt that he should calm down and consider the marriage period.
This example is that the characteristics of some people mentioned at the beginning are artificially amplified and the result brings embarrassment and discomfort to many people, and it also gives birth to a group of people who think about problems with prejudice, and too much template and subjectivity will bring conflicts and inconveniences.
Men and women do have certain psychological and emotional differences due to different genders, but there are also similarities, and seeking common ground while reserving differences is the true way to live in harmony.
Especially for lovers, it should be based on respect and understanding of each other, rather than stimulating each other with prejudiced cognition, otherwise men and women will really not be able to coexist harmoniously.
Treating each other as equals is the basis for creating a happy family. In a family, whether male superiority or female inferiority or female inferiority cannot have the harmony and happiness of the relationship between husband and wife. A liao mosha