#天南地北大拜年 #
From childhood to adulthood, I look forward to the Spring Festival and the New Year every year. If you want to say that this Xingshi moves the crowd to celebrate the New Year, what is its plan?
I concluded, our Chinese New Year is about the number of gifts, and the picture is to be smooth.
This gift, this heart, is in everyone's heart.
You see, from drinking Laba porridge, to the reunion dinner on the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the lantern festival on the fifteenth day of the first month, a whole set of elaborate rituals, rules and regulations, all have to be done.
You say, don't you go home? Do you still have an old man in your heart? This is the number of gifts set by thousands of years of ancestors, and the rules cannot be broken, they must be made.
Pray for the New Year on the first day of the first lunar month, don't you pray? The old man sits in the high hall and waits for that, it is necessary, the grandchildren worship, the old man still has money to press the year!
On the second day of the first lunar month, the daughter-in-law returns to her mother's house, the son-in-law wants to accompany her, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law are waiting for you with a good meal, don't you go back? If one less person has a number of disrespects, it will not work!
These eternal rituals and rules have long been passed down from generation to generation, integrated into the bloodline, and hidden in the bottom of the heart. Whoever does not pay attention to etiquette and breaks the rules will cause the blockage of the originally normal functioning qi and blood of the human body. As a result, the normal routine of life changes.
Serious disruption of the family relationship network system. Needless to say, there must be something wrong with someone who does not understand the general body and does not understand the number of manners.
With the changes of the times, especially the past birth policy, which has led to the problem of one-child, coupled with the aging era of the mainland, in recent years, young couples, every year for the New Year, often go to the mother-in-law's house or the mother's house, and cause turmoil, and seriously lead to the breakdown of marriage.
It can be seen that this ritual has taken root in the depths of people's hearts, and a slight change will hurt people's hearts.
A woman who did not agree with her mother-in-law said: "I have conflicts and estrangements with my mother-in-law, and my husband can't pass my mother's pass, so I don't accompany me back to my mother's house, so I have to take my daughter back by myself."
My mother-in-law knew that I was not doing well when she saw it, so she could only hide in the kitchen and cry secretly, not daring to let my father see it.
Over time, I myself got a breast tumor and eventually divorced." How many years have passed, and today I think about it, when men and women: both sides can pay attention to the minimum number of courtesies and give their loved ones a certain amount of respect, and they will not hurt people so much.
I think that etiquette, not feudal rites, will not bind human nature, it is a way to connect people with affection, respect, respect, maintain friendship, and one day help each other.
If a person does not know the minimum number of courtesies, then when dealing with interpersonal relationships, he must rely on his natural and spontaneous nature, offend others, and do not think so, then he must be a failure.