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Did the mothers, in the end, become a watchful posture?
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Another Spring Festival is coming, a day of reunion of ten thousand families.
Yu's mother, who is also working and looking forward to it, has not seen her son for another year.
Three years ago, I graduated from university, I wanted to work hard outside, said yes, and returned to my hometown after two years.
The mother could not go against his will, reluctantly agreed, but in her heart, she wanted her son to come back and work in his hometown.
But the son is older, more knowledgeable, and his heart is bigger, and the outside world attracts him.
My mother, who just turned fifty, suffered an illness a few years ago that took her husband's life, and she was very sad for this.
What if my son finally graduated and didn't want to come back.
Look around, there are many children outside, and comfort yourself, two years is fast, when the time comes, the son will keep his promises.
Now, three years later, Yu is still adrift, has changed several jobs, and the income is not ideal, but he does not want to return.
My mother was sometimes angry and said, "Is there a blood basin at home?"
This is a Dunhuang dialect, which means is it dangerous to come back?
No, this year, the sun is outside and the mother is also yang.
No one can take care of anyone.
In the words of my mother, we mother and son, who lives who is now, he is at home, working all day, I will have hot meals and hot dishes waiting, outside, sometimes make a little by myself, sometimes takeaway makes do, how can I rest assured.
I feel that the sky and the earth are big outside, no one knows anyone, and it is my own business to live better than relying on it, but it is relaxed.
What about the mother, not to say that it is to raise children and prevent aging, at least, I have watched it grow up since I was a child, and now I can see it every day, which is good.
Let's just say that this year's New Year, my mother is also angry, Yu first said that she didn't want to come back, under the pretext of busy work, she would return next Spring Festival.
But the mother couldn't stand it, lonely, lonely, missing, alone, sad crying.
This made my son think back.
Upon learning the news, the mother immediately forgot about the previous unpleasantness and was as happy as if she were something.
The son loves this, the son loves that, and it is fried, marinated, and boiled, and the heart comes up at once.
People, they are all emotional animals, eat and drink thickly, as long as the family is together, and happy and happy.
The need for affection above all else.
Mothers, willing to work hard, but also to let their children eat and drink well.
Blood relationship, in the annual Spring Festival, is even more vividly interpreted.
Two
Jia Jia studied abroad and could not come back for the New Year.
Her parents had been divorced for many years, and she also knew her mother's loneliness.
Hold on, in more than a year, you will graduate, and when the time comes, you will return to your country first.
She wants to work in Beijing and Shanghai, and Jia Jia loves these two big cities.
Her mother was young, but more conservative, and she didn't want to break her heart or go against her wishes.
My mother, a worker, retired two years ago.
Her daughter spends a lot abroad, and she also has a job.
Busy, tired, can endure, that is, poor health, high blood pressure, diabetes, especially miss my daughter, look forward to it day by day, my daughter graduated and went home.
She didn't know her daughter's plan, as long as her daughter returned to her hometown, found a secure job, and then, fell in love, got married, and had another child, she would be satisfied.
Mother and daughter, the relationship has always been very good, she believes, the daughter will understand her.
When I saw her yesterday and talked about the New Year, Jiajia, she smiled and said:
My daughter was not there, and I didn't want to prepare anything special, so I lived as usual.
Recently, my appetite is also not good, which may be due to the impotence of the near future.
I comforted her, it's okay, Jia Jia is learning skills outside, you just take care of yourself, don't think about anything else.
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Three
As mothers, we all take one step at a time.
Can't influence the movements of their children, they can only think as much as possible, after all, their lives, they are in charge.
We, just gave birth to him.
At this point, thinking of Long Yingtai's "Eye Sending" that I read last year, mother and son mother and daughter, gradually drifting apart, it is an inevitability, who can help.
The Spring Festival is just around the corner, and those who hope to be reunited, those who can't, take care of themselves.
The sky is high for birds to fly, and the sea is wide for fish to leap.
In the torrent of the times, you can only follow the trend.
May the mothers of the world be happy and prosperous; May all children, near and far, remember that they will go home when they have time, and that their mothers are looking forward to it.
2023.1.17.
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