Because of the quarrel in the show, Zheng Jun and Liu Yun were on the hot search again.
In the video, because the two people had a little conflict before this, when several people recorded the program together, Zheng Jun had to leave first because he wanted to record other programs, and before leaving, he greeted his friends one by one, but ignored Liu Yun.
Chen Qiaoen on the side proposed that Liu Yun hug her husband, and Liu Yun was embarrassed: "He didn't look for me either?" He muttered with a look of disappointment: "He just left?" ”
Liu Yun, who couldn't be angry, found Zheng Jun and said, "You just left me there like that, and deliberately let me not get off the stage, are you very happy?" ”
Because he was too angry, he didn't wait for Zheng Jun to answer, and bombed him like a cannon.
"What I ask of you is the minimum and most basic, that kind of response between good friends."
"You can't do some things that may not even be as good as good friends, and you think I'm doing it."
Zheng Jun's answer was quite representative, he said: "I am a big straight man, I am not as considerate as others, not as subtle as others, but I also tried my best, you let me become like Lu Yi, I can't change, I really can't change!" ”
Liu Yun, who wanted to be comforted, was even more aggrieved: "I never asked you to be like Lu Yi!" "Then I started crying.
Perhaps realizing that not giving a comfort would make this fight endless, Zheng Jun finally loosened and put his arm around Liu Yun, and Liu Yun really put his arm over the fire.
Netizens all said: "How long these two can live depends on how long Liu Yun can endure." ”
It seems that I am on the verge of divorce all the time, but after chasing this show, I found that things are not so simple.
Zheng Jun said that he couldn't be Lu Yi, it seemed that he put Lu Yi in a very high position, as a husband and father, Lu Yi was indeed caring and gentle to Bao Lei, and was very family-oriented. Lu Yi's biggest advantage is that he loves Bao Lei and likes to pay for his family completely from the heart.
If nothing else, 26 years of love with his wife and 16 years of marriage can still be sweet like first love, which is really not every man can do.
When Bao Lei gave birth to her first child, Lu Yi put down her work and guarded every step 24 hours a day; When giving birth to the second child, in order to take care of Bao Lei, Lu Yi directly stopped work for three years, "wife and daughter and family always take precedence over work", it is said that Bao Lei gave birth to the second child for several months, Lu Yi is still at home all day long, Bao Lei is anxious, and finally there is no way to "kick" Lu Yi and let him go out to film.
Lu Yi has to lose early entry into the industry, lucky, when he looks the most handsome, he shot a few big blockbusters and became popular, otherwise, people like him who are not motivated and not positive, I am afraid that they have long been out of everyone, in fact, in addition to the male one in "In the Name of the People", Lu Yi has few masterpieces for so many years, this is a highly competitive actor industry, all kinds of small fresh meat mushrooms have sprung up after rain, "time is everything", Lu Yi has long been outdated.
Therefore, if Lu Yi is really given to Liu Yun, Liu Yun may not be able to catch it. How motivated, how hardworking, how worldly, how much she loves to make money! Although she has been in the industry for many years, acting in movies and TV series, and filming MVs have not been popular, but at least she has been tossing - look at her various "Buddhist" Zheng Jun on the show to make money: Liu Yun still prefers a worldly and lively life.
So is it wrong for her to ask Zheng Jun to have emotional value?
That's right.
It's just that it's not so much that Zheng Jun had to succumb under her various attacks of cannons and pear blossom rain, but that they have long been accustomed to this way of getting along that outsiders don't understand and don't look good on.
Looking closely, although Liu Yun is dissatisfied with Zheng Jun's "who loves whom" and "solo music" every time, she expresses her understanding of all this with actions every time.
In the show, as soon as he got up in the morning, Zheng Jun made the room like a garbage heap, Liu Yun couldn't look past it, and shouted: "Don't let the room be so messy, put it away!" ”
Zheng Jun blurted out a sentence: "The most important thing is that I am comfortable, who I love." ”
Liu Yun had nothing to say, and silently began to sort out the clothes on the ground; Zheng Jun, without any intention of helping, also went to light an incense next to him, made himself tea to drink, and sighed while looking at his busy wife: "Good tea."
In the car, Zheng Jun nibbled on a tomato by himself, and repeatedly said "delicious", Liu Yun didn't have to eat, and kept asking him: "Is it delicious?" How delicious is it? During the period, he also licked his mouth, and it seemed that he also wanted to eat it, but Zheng Jun couldn't see it at all, and he was still intoxicated to nibble tomatoes, when he splashed the juice on his hands, Liu Yun would automatically help him wipe it, and Zheng Jun was used to this.
Until the tomato juice was splashed on Liu Yun's head, Liu Yun shouted next to him, and he didn't say a word of sorry.
You see, Zheng Jun did not ask Liu Yun to collect clothes and help him wipe his hands, she did them all one by one, feeling that the two were playing that very classic game: husband and wife partner to live, kitchen oil bottle poured, whoever can bear it more will win.
Obviously, anyone who compares with Zheng Jun will bow down, so it may not be all Liu Yuntai "cheap", but Zheng Juntai "Buddha".
Liu Yun is humble in her bones, wanting a little of her husband's respect and love, even if she can't bear to break out completely, she has always been looking for Zheng Jun under the steps, just like the sentence "I never asked you to be like Lu Yi", it seems to be pouring bitter water with Zheng Jun, in fact, the momentum has long been weak, because what Zheng Jun can get from this sentence is "I Liu Yun don't have so many requirements for you, I know you can't do it." ”
Looking at the quarrel between the two of them, I suddenly felt that Zheng Jun was definitely a master of quarrel, and when he came up, he raised the other party's words to a high position, broke the jar, and firmly "I just can't do it, can you help me?" ”
Liu Yun was deflated at once, as if to say: "Okay, okay, I know you can't do it, but I'm already crying, let's hug it, right?" ”
Then all the quarrels turned invisible in one of Zheng Jun's embraces.
Everyone can see that Zheng Jun subjectively does not want to change and does not want to provide any emotional value, and they can also see that Liu Yun has always been in a weak position in this relationship, and she has no ability to change Zheng Jun at all - in essence, she is accommodating Zheng Jun from the root, and the other party also knows it, so "there is no fear".
It is foreseeable that in the future, they will quarrel over a lot of trivial matters, and Liu Yun's grievances of "not being loved and respected by her husband" will continue to flow, but what is the way, these two are Zhou Yu Huanggai's "one willing to beat, the other willing to be beaten." ”
But it seems that Zheng Jun has not achieved much in the past ten years, the last album was 2007, and since 2007, he has been busy on variety shows, okay, at least make money for the worldly Liu Yun, and he himself is quite satisfied with "Phi Ge".
It's just that I often think about a question: If time goes back 12 years, back to the moment when the two met, would 27-year-old Liu Yun still want to marry Zheng Jun, who is 15 years older than her?
At that time, she admired Zheng Jun's handsomeness and fame, so much so that she completely ignored the importance of "emotional value" for a woman and a marriage, or she was too young, thinking that "as long as two people love each other, everything can change." ”
Aren't all young people like this? Full of love, no cruelty in sight.
The fact is that Zheng Jun, 56 years old this year, once again broke Liu Yun's illusions with actions.
In the program, he promised Liu Yun in front of everyone the day before: "As long as you are happy, I am willing to do anything." But the next day, he changed back to the Zheng Jun who "as long as I am comfortable, who loves whom", and even Liu Yun never talked next to him, until Liu Yun was so angry that he was hysterical and asked him: "How did you promise me last night?" ”
Zheng Jun was not only uneasy, but also accused Liu Yun of being vexatious: "Why are you unhappy, why are you throwing your face at me?" The two broke up again unhappily.
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I remember talking to an ex who promised to quit smoking after he was with me, and at first he did try to do it, and he didn't smoke for two months, but then on our first day together, I saw burning cigarette butts on the floor of the rental house.
The story tells us, "Men are reliable, pigs go up trees," and "Don't trust men to change for you." ”