"From now on, we are human beings!" When Chen Kaige sat in the extended Lincoln for the first time, he said excitedly to his wife Hong Huang.
Hong Huang was first stunned, then smiled, and finally said indifferently: "It seems that the two of us are different and do not conspire against each other." ”
Then she filed for divorce, and Chen Kaige didn't expect that the "decency" she had just earned would be completely torn to shreds...
●○Spring breeze proud○●
In 1991, at Chen Kaige's invitation, Hong Huang reluctantly agreed to participate in the event with him.
But it seems that the two attended together, in fact, only Chen Kaige himself was happy, maybe to make Hong Huang happy, maybe he was too excited, in short, he said the opening paragraph.
But what Chen Kaige didn't expect was that this sentence became the last straw that crushed the camel, making Hong Huang unbearable.
After that, Hong Huang did "different ways do not conspire against each other", she filed for divorce from Chen Kaige, and completely disappeared into his life, and the two no longer had any intersection in the entertainment industry.
You know, at that time, Chen Kaige was a cutting-edge director who was in the limelight and gained both fame and fortune.
Especially when they went through the divorce procedures, Chen Kaige was filming "Farewell My Concubine", and soon after the two divorced, he sat in his position as a "famous director" because of this film.
Therefore, many people ridiculed Hong Huang for "not knowing how to be evil", and some people insulted her, claiming that she was not worthy of director Chen Da because of her poor appearance.
In fact, as outsiders, everyone's understanding is wrong, Hong Huang's sudden indifference is contempt for Chen Kaige.
It is said that all roads lead to Rome, but Hong Huang, who was born in "Rome" since childhood, cannot look at the "decency" that Chen Kaige pursues.
You have to ask Hong Huang if she loves Chen Kaige? Presumably love.
But Hong Huang knew very well in his heart that the person in front of him had changed, and now he only had the worship of fame and fortune in his eyes.
Or there is also a possibility that after experiencing the temptation of the world, she has the opportunity to see through Chen Kaige.
Some ideas, once they appear, are irreversible, because this has gone against Hong Huang and Chen Kaige's original intention of getting together.
She thought that Chen Kaige was an otherworldly artist, different from those ordinary people, but she did not expect that no matter how elegant art was, it would lose to the magic of money.
In this case, Hong Huang believes that Chen Kaige is not a man who can spend his life with him, and he should stop the loss in time.
But because of a sentence to break up, isn't it a little too petty? Whether it is netizens or Chen Kaige himself, there are such questions.
Especially Chen Kaige, he didn't want to divorce for various reasons, but Hong Huang didn't give him any opportunities, and the only thing he gave him was a divorce agreement.
In fact, since the beginning of their marriage, Chen Kaige has hit Hong Huang's idea, and Hong Huang's connections and resources can achieve his career as a director.
It turns out that Chen Kaige's little calculation is really loud, because with the help of Hong Huang, he has indeed reached the peak of his career.
Today's Hong Huang should also be full of emotion when she thinks of the events of that year, but she was able to leave Chen Kaige so quickly and resolutely, which shows that her own heritage and strength are enough.
So, what is the reason that supports Hong Huang so boldly?
●○Born in Anle ○●
If you want to say why Hong Huang is so "decisive in killing", it is impossible to bypass her family conditions.
Hong Huang's grandfather Zhang Shizhao, a famous literati who fought a pen and ink lawsuit with Lu Xun, served as a high-ranking official during the Beiyang government, once spent a huge amount of 20,000 yuan to support the revolutionary movement, and after the founding of the People's Republic of China, he served as the deputy director of the Central Research Center of Culture and History, which was highly respected.
Hong Huang's grandmother, Wu Wannan, was the first female party member of the Nationalist Government, an old man of the Xinhai Revolution, a pioneer of the Chinese women's movement, and a member of the Shanghai Municipal Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference after the founding of the People's Republic of China.
Hong Huang's father was Hong Junyan, deputy director of the Center for American Studies at Peking University, who was also a well-known figure at that time.
Her mother, Zhang Han, was one of the five golden flowers of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs in the 70s, and was handpicked by Chairman Mao as an English teacher.
Her educational policy for her daughter is that women should be docile and not say much.
With such a tradition, Zhang Hanzhi hopes that she can become a "lady", so she is required to walk with her steps between her steps, and she must be gentle and good-looking with every smile.
But she never thought that her daughter was born with "anti-bones"...
Zhang Hanzhi told Hong Huang that the girl did not show her teeth when she smiled, but Hong Huang did not listen, and every time there was something funny, she would laugh and couldn't stop laughing.
Zhang Hanzhi told Hong Huang that the girl's river water should be drunk in small sips and gentle. Hong Huang wanted to gulp down.
The rebellious Hong Huang made the family helpless against her.
In 1972, Hong Huang's parents divorced, which made her increasingly rebellious.
After growing up, Zhang Hanzhi wanted to train Hong Huang to be a diplomat, but Hong Huang wanted to enter a foreign company, and after a big fight with his family, he eventually ran to study abroad.
After completing her studies, she stayed in the United States and resolutely chose a senior employee of a foreign company.
While working in the United States, Hong Huang met his first husband, which is ridiculous to say, Hong Huang married him because he wanted a green card in the United States!
In the days when the two got along, her boyfriend felt Hong Huang's strong sense of oppression, she would not spend time dating two people, and Hong Huang rarely agreed to her boyfriend's request.
She is such a person, independent and self-sufficient, always moving towards her goals.
In order to let Hong Huang return to China, her mother and father took turns to find her home, and finally her mother relented and promised to arrange a job for Hong Huang in China for a foreign company, and Hong Huang decided to return to Beijing.
At that time, there was a problem, the husband did not let Hong Huang go back, after all, they were married not long ago, the relationship was unstable, and now they have to face exotic love, and the American husband is really unwilling to accept it.
He originally wanted to talk to Hong Huang about returning to China, but he didn't expect Hong Huang to leave only one sentence:
"If you want to continue this marriage, we will either divorce or you will return home with me."
The husband was naturally silent, Hong Huang had been so assertive for a long time, there was no way to refute it, and the two could only separate.
It can be seen that Hong Huang's character development is the result of his own rebellion, the breakdown of his original family, and his overseas study experience.
And the relationship between her and Chen Kaige can be said to be because of this character, and the defeat is also because of this character.
●○Admiration for talent○●
When Hong returned to Beijing, her husband sent her a divorce agreement.
The reason is simple, he can't stand Hong Huang's independence, and the two end without even a formal divorce notice.
At that time, Hong Huang seemed indifferent, in fact, he was still sad in the face of a failed marriage, but his life could not only be maintained in emotions, in order to abandon those troubles, Hong Huang began to open up his own new world.
Although the work of foreign companies is very good, Hong Huang, who has a flamboyant personality, does not like the 9-to-5 life, and she wants to accept new things and fill her life with various colors.
Before you can develop a new hobby, the relationship comes first.
One day in 1984, Hong Huang went to see the movie "Yellow Earth" with friends, and when everyone was full of praise for the movie, Hong Huang had a different idea about the movie.
"I think this movie, the plot is okay, but for some reason it just appeals to me."
Hong Huang likes the atmosphere of "Yellow Earth", which is not the same as the film and television works she has watched before, and this work seems to convey some kind of emotion to Hong Huang.
With this emotion, Hong Huang fell deeply in love with the movie "Yellow Earth", and became more and more interested in the director of this film, Chen Kaige.
In order to understand Chen Kaige, Hong Huang finished reading all of Chen Kaige's works and found that each of his works could resonate with herself, and across the screen, she became curious about this man, so she intentionally or unintentionally asked about Chen Kaige from the people around her.
In order to be able to find Chen Kaige, Hong Huang used all the network resources around her, and when she heard that Chen Kaige was filming in Beijing at that time, she turned around and ran to visit the class, and saw Chen Kaige who was working.
Young Chen Kaige, handsome, tall and tall, burly, Hong Huang was thrilled when he saw her, this man's temperament is exactly what she likes.
The so-called love at first sight, is nothing more than that.
The fascination with Chen Kaige is enough for Hong Huang to cross thousands of mountains and rivers to meet him, Hong Huang is different from other girls, she is confident, brave, and does not shy away when pursuing Chen Kaige, often chasing to the studio to see Chen Kaige.
The two have also become friends, Hong Huang is enthusiastic, Chen Kaige is restrained and mature, and the two talk very well, it seems that there are always endless topics.
At that time, Hong Huang had an annual income of more than 100,000 yuan and lived a good life as a high-class white-collar worker, while Chen Kaige at the same time was still a young man with a dream, poor and white.
Hong Huang is like a girl with a fledgling relationship, while Chen Kaige seems simple, but he calculates the pros and cons in his heart.
Simulate a scenario
His emotional intelligence is very high, he speaks very measuredly, and just a few words can not only show his talent "casually", but also make Hong Huang very happy.
Three times five divided by two, Chen Kaige captured Hong Huang's heart, and the two quickly entered a period of love together.
Simulate a scenario
Hong Huang at this time believes that Chen Kaige is the best man in the world and the most suitable person to marry.
So when Chen Kaige went to the United States for further study, Hong Huang also followed for love. But Chen Kaige did not have a green card and would not be long before he had to return to China.
Hong Huang couldn't see him sad, and immediately expressed his willingness to marry him.
In this way, Chen Kaige successfully got a green card and "attached" a wife.
However, one of these two people is a "warrior who charges for love" and the other is a "thoughtful strategist", and their values and goals are different from the beginning.
So in fact, from this moment on, it has been doomed that the marriage between the two will not be particularly long.
Simulate a scenario
●○Live yourself○●
After marriage, Chen Kaige repeatedly minded Hong Huang's "big woman" character, in his consciousness, women should obediently be at home with their husbands and children, obedient to their husbands, instead of Hong Huang busy with their careers every day.
To this end, Chen Kaige repeatedly asked Hong Huang to have a child with him, hoping to trap Hong Huang through the child, but Hong Huang refused every time, in her opinion, children cannot measure the relationship between the two.
The collision of "big woman" and "machismo", the game between traditional thinking and open ideas, the married life of two people is not happy, and the relationship has been going downhill.
The only good point is that with Hong Huang's resources, Chen Kaige began to embark on the flower road, the film became more and more popular, the publicity became bigger and bigger, and gradually, Chen Kaige lost his heart...
The higher a person climbs, the more he pursues for enjoyment and the greater his desire.
After becoming famous, Chen Kaige began to be constantly busy with entertainment and wine matching, and after a long time, there was naturally more ambiguity around him.
The second female of the movie "Singing While Walking" is Xu Qing, when Xu Qing was a sophomore, young and beautiful, as soon as the movie was released, there was a scandal between the two people, and many people in the circle were rumored that Chen Kaige was cheating.
When Hong Huang learned the news, he was naturally very painful, and the husband he supported himself is now not in love, which no one can accept.
In the end, the last straw that crushed the camel still came, a phrase "different ways do not conspire against each other", now look at it, maybe you can really understand Hong Huang's thoughts.
Mourning is greater than heart death, this is Hong Huang's second divorce, for feelings, she is completely dead hearted, but she also clearly realizes that she cannot be defeated, thinking about it again, she made an important decision...
"The old lady put the words here, I want to sleep enough for five men!"
This is a flag set up on a variety show on Hong Huang, and in the face of Hong Huang's answer, the host can only answer awkwardly:
"That's a good idea."
In addition to making up his mind emotionally, Hong Huang also made a decision at work, and after the divorce, Hong Huang quit his job at a foreign company and began to travel the world and engage in fashion.
For Hong Huang, now she no longer needs to provide material needs from the outside world, and she doesn't want to make any more efforts after two failed marriages, she just wants to be the person who takes advantage of the shade in "the predecessor planted the tree, and the descendant took advantage of the cool".
With this thought, Hong Huang met a romantic French man, she likes the romance of French men, and the kind of meticulous care can well tolerate Hong Huang's broken heart.
After knowing each other for less than a month, Hong Huang and this French man got a license to marry, but unfortunately, this husband became more and more indifferent, and it didn't take long for the two to divorce.
Talk about money with the poor and love with the rich, the latter sentence is very suitable for Hong Huang.
Divorce again did not make Hong Huang lose confidence in life, but she also realized that she could no longer stagnate, since the relationship was not smooth, then engage in a good career!
In 2000, Hong Huang returned to China to found "iLOOK World City", which was the first fashion magazine she founded, and her mother was very optimistic about Hong Huang at that time, but Hong Huang told her mother a word:
"This fashion magazine, I will make it relevant to the world."
Hong Huang made up her mind that she would definitely do things well, and her resoluteness ran through the entire trajectory of her life.
The magazine sells very well, and so far iLOOK World Metropolis only introduces local Chinese designers and works, and has never been listed by foreign designers.
Over the years, Hong Huang has founded magazines, published novels, worked as an actor, participated in variety shows, and improved himself step by step, his career is prosperous, and his reputation is also standing.
It's just that there seems to be a lack of personal companionship around him, and Hong Huang's mother is also very anxious about this.
So, where will Hong Huang's final destination be?
●○Final destination○●
In April 2022, Hong Huang posted a Weibo: "My husband went to Paris to see his daughter... Since it is to send dry food...", in this Weibo, Hong Huang does not mention love, but does not leave love.
As early as 2004, Hong Huang met her husband Yang Xiaoping, who is not highly educated, but a very good designer, divorced once and has a son.
Hong Huang is very satisfied with Yang Xiaoping's character and personality, she likes to talk to Yang Xiaoping, when the two are at home, Yang Xiaoping never dislikes her for talking too much.
But this relationship was opposed by Hong Huang's mother, watching her daughter work hard alone for so many years, she didn't want her daughter to marry such an ordinary man.
Hong Huang insisted on being with Yang Xiaoping and told his mother:
"I'm going to marry him, and I feel better having children."
It turns out that Hong Huang did nothing wrong with his decision this time.
After marriage, Hong Huang focused on his career as always, but unlike the previous men, Yang Xiaoping will tolerate Hong Huang.
When Hong Huang asked him if he was too careless about his family, Yang Xiaoping gently told her that everyone has their own mission, and when you come into this world, you can do whatever you want.
I believe that no matter who will eventually succumb to tenderness! Today's Hong Huang has reduced his time to work, bought a villa in the suburbs with her husband, rented a piece of land, and the two of them live an idyllic life together in their spare time, happy and comfortable.
Hong Huang's life story shows us the self-reliance and self-improvement that a woman should have, her life, living freely and freely, compared to those pretentious ladies, Hong Huang can be regarded as a "real lady".
Today, perhaps we can really understand Hong Huang's sentence: "Different ways do not conspire against each other", people with inconsistent views cannot walk on one road.
Hong Huang's freedom and unrestrained are simply uncontrollable for Chen Kaige, in contrast, Chen Kaige's "decency" back then is really tacky.