This is another new series. In this series we plan to discuss what are the most difficult difficulties to overcome when falling in love with the twelve zodiac signs, that is, the problems they are most likely to show in love, since we take it out to discuss, it must be through everyone's communication and running-in There are methods to solve the problem, or not fatal problems, I hope to also provide you with some practical operational reference.
Then let's first exclude - the question "xx zodiac signs are scumbags / women, dogs do not talk about it". It is what I have repeatedly emphasized, whether it is a good love object, in fact, has little to do with the zodiac sign, there are indeed some zodiac signs that are not stable in love, or are easily tempted, or hesitate in the relationship, but maybe in your relationship, he abused you, and in another relationship he was abused. As for those people in everyone's complaints who deliberately love to split their legs and PUA objects, I really have no way, and I will only advise everyone to run quickly. So the premise of this series is to talk about everything, and you can also say some small complaints in the mood.
Let's start with a question, right? Do you find it difficult to fall in love with Libra, or do you feel more good things about people with Libra, or do you have more pain. In fact, I have interviewed several friends who are in love with Libra, and some of them hate their teeth itching, telling me that Libra is particularly special scum, dogs don't talk about it, and they will take a detour when they see it in the future. Some people feel that it feels very good to be in love with Libra, and there are almost no unhappy memories, even if they break up later for various reasons, they still feel that the other party is not bad. By my standards, I think Libra is a sign that knows how to fall in love, after all, they are guarded by Venus, they are representatives of gentleness and harmony, they have good communication skills, and they are not less thoughtful and romantic.
However, it is very inappropriate to fall in love with Libra, and some personalities really collide with Libra, which leads to Libra's reputation being two extremes. It is those who feel that they are deeply hurt by Libra, but in fact, they are really not suitable for Libra. I have summarized the most important points a little, if you are a person who is not willing to take the initiative to directly express your likes and dislikes, you always hope that the other party can guess your thoughts; If you are a person who needs firm, warm and persistent expression to feel love; The most important point is that if you are a person who encounters a dispute, you must quickly discuss whether it is right or wrong, and you must ask the bottom of everything... It's not very suitable for being with Libra. I'm not saying anything about personality or emotional requirements, I'm just saying that both sides may be tortured a lot.
I will slowly analyze the brain circuitry of Libra. But before that, let's talk about the pleasant experience of falling in love with Libra.
Advantages of being in love with Libra
o You will have a very good-looking object. The general appearance of Libra is not bad, I don't believe you search for whether there are many stars in Libra. Even if they do not have an innate genetic advantage, they will be outstanding in dress and temperament.
o Almost not out of control, is a very emotionally stable person. Don't think it sounds ordinary, emotional stability is really hard to value, and it reduces a lot of distress in daily life.
Always take care of other people's feelings more than your own, and always pay attention to even the smallest requests.
o The mouth is very sweet, and the nice words are one set after another, almost habitually praising others, who doesn't like to listen to praise. And there is no shortage of romantic feelings.
o Basically rarely refuse, as long as you ask Libra, they will try to do it.
o There is a sense of proportion in dealing with people, and this sense of proportion will always be maintained in intimate relationships, and you will not feel that there is any constraint with Libra or that your personal space is overly encroached upon. He is open to many things and is a good person to talk to.
o Very rare stage king, as long as you are willing to share with Libra, they will basically show interest, is a particularly happy partner.
o Very Buddhist about many details of life, not picky, most of the time willing to give in to each other, will take the initiative to adapt and integrate into each other's world.
o It is easier to turn the page, and the problems that can be passed will be passed by him as much as possible, without worrying or lingering.
The direction that Libra has been striving to make everything peaceful and beautiful. So if you don't contradict them and can keep pace, then the experience of falling in love can be said to be very good. The last thing Libra wants to face, and at the same time the least good at facing is contradiction. So the next is the turn of falling in love with Libra to make people suffer, that is, Libra is obviously very good at communication, why some people always can't communicate with Libra - the front spit warning, the part that can't communicate, that's what Libra doesn't want to communicate.
Very resistant to intense emotions
Let's start with the most common problem encountered in love - quarrel. Anyone who has quarreled with Libra should be a bag of gas, most of the time they are avoidant players, no matter how loud your war drums beat, their first choice is to hide and avoid the battle, resulting in the problem you want to solve is also unable to solve, want to vent emotions can not vent, Libra pretends to be fine. But I don't think Libra is a person who avoids questions, they just avoid drastic ways. Libra may have nervous aphasia, usually logical thinking is very clear, but also has a lot of communication skills, and is also very good at expressing and persuading others, but all this is limited to "usual", the more peaceful and relaxed the state, the more Libra can calmly express itself.
Libra will be afraid of two kinds of quarrels, and there is no reason to just vent the accumulated emotions. Or there is a specific reason, but for a while he can't sort out his thoughts and can't solve it, but the other party has to dig into the root of the question to distinguish between black and white, and ask for a solution at the moment. Everyone knows that Libra has difficulty choosing, and they have to look for the optimal solution when doing a lot of things, and want a way that everyone is not too hurt to accept. When you put a problem on hold, Libra calmly thinks, if you feel that you are wrong, or you can give in, you will slowly see their change. But if you can't swallow this breath at the moment, if you have to quarrel, it is undoubtedly pushing Libra. The tense atmosphere makes Libra's thinking confused, overwhelmed and unable to think. It can be said that the more he presses him, the more he will not get results.
Libra can really use the word fear for quarrels. Even if someone around you quarrels in front of them, Libra will embarrassingly hide away, not to mention that you have to put them themselves in this fierce environment. I think there are only two techniques for arguing with Libra, either you can be calm and sit down with Libra and have a good chat, similar to work negotiations, where everyone discusses an acceptable plan. If you just unilaterally want Libra to give in, the best way is not to quarrel, but to sell miserable, once you start to pretend to be pitiful, no matter how ridiculous this is, Libra may not debunk you, and they will even reflect on whether they really bullied people in the middle of the night when they know that you are telling a lie.
In the case of normal emotional stability of Libra, there is not much to ask for. Libra's code of conduct is probably not to, you will not be so angry, you will not quarrel for so long about a thing, you will not die for a person. Express your dissatisfaction, argue in a sentence or two, and pass. I've seen people say that the best way for us to get along with our parents is to play traditional virtues to fool learning, parents urge marriage you have to say good and good, I'm watching, you have time to help me introduce ah, in fact, I don't want to talk about it at all. But you don't have to convince your parents to agree to your singletality. Everyone is fine. Getting along with Libra is actually similar to getting along with parents. When you can't reach a consensus, you can actually skip this question and continue to be safe with Libra. It's just that some people can't accept that people who have an intimate relationship with themselves can't reach a consensus with themselves and can't understand each other, which will make them feel that they are not loved, so they have to explain the problem clearly, and the result is a fight. What wears off Libra's feelings is always a quarrel, as long as Libra is not forced to the brink of collapse, there will basically be no big problem. As soon as you force them, they can easily break the jar. I can't guarantee that every Libra will eat soft, but I'm sure I won't eat every one.
Habitually use protective colors
I have a friend who is very angry and complains to me about one thing that Libra's ex-boyfriend can never let go, that is, they had a happy birthday together the day before, and the boyfriend gave her a birthday gift without exception, which is also something she likes, and after a sweet and sweet appointment together, they went home separately, and broke up with her three days later. Making her feel that her love for her is all pretend, it is a deception to her. In fact, I have heard several things that Libra makes people feel stunned without warning. In fact, it is not without warning, everyone has always been conflicted, but Libra did not show any strong dissatisfaction, although the other party may not realize that the problem has become irreparably serious.
You can simply and crudely say that Libra is "pretending". Libra is actually a very person who will be encouraged by the current atmosphere, your emotions are here, and it is really rude for me not to cooperate well. From Libra's point of view, this is politeness, I don't want to make the people around me feel unpleasant, which also affects my mood. If you are very enthusiastic and very happy to do the same thing as Libra Amway, you will find that Libra will basically act like you are really interested, and if you express an opinion very fiercely, you will find that Libra will basically be on your side. They are just infected in the moment, and when this atmosphere passes, they think that it may be like that, not so much, not so disliked. Even you can't judge the depth of his feelings for you from how good or bad Libra is to you, and getting the gentleness of a Libra is not a big deal. To put it cruelly, sometimes they just think I'm in a relationship with you, then I should do this well, this is what I should do, not what I want to do. This leads Libra to vaguely promise a relationship that he may not like so much; This causes Libra to overcooperate with ambiguous signals, making potential objects think that Libra likes him; This caused Libra to break up without warning; This leads to Libra being in love seamlessly, which causes Libra to subconsciously lie when it perceives that it wants to explain to people. In the world of Libra, all this has traces, and for the less sensitive, he cannot judge from the behavior, just feels stunned.
This mode of getting along, in fact, in all aspects of Libra's life, is essentially afraid that the relationship will become strained. Libra's feelings may just be okay, but the other party does not know that this can contain the exclusion of their own likes in order to adapt to the other party. Libra will feel that any slightest discord is a blow to the emotionally perfect relationship, so there is hardly a moment when he really dares to be himself. This is indeed where Libra needs to grow without thinking of relationships so fragile. As Libra becomes more self-aware and more clear about what it wants, this camouflage decreases.
Intermittent absent-mindedness
Because Libra is very good at love, it has caused a misunderstanding for everyone, that is, the matter of love is very important to Libra. Don't forget that Libra is a wind sign, and the wind sign also loves romance and values emotional relationships, but love will certainly not be the most important part, let alone the only one. You may think that Libra is very good at falling in love, and there are many opportunities for them to fall in love, so naturally feel that Libra needs to be in love. In fact, Libra is just taking time to fall in love, and for most Libras, love is basically a spice of life. This brings us to the right question, you need someone who puts love first in life, and Libra is likely to be disappointing.
And Libra also has a problem, that is, he can only focus on one thing at a time, unlike his wind elephant brother Gemini, who can grow three brains at the same time, and when he focuses on work, he will definitely not let the other half feel left out. Libra very much needs its own space, as well as a smooth and harmonious environment, because one thing does not go well, it really affects them and will hinder them from completing other important things. So some Libras are easy to enter the old husband and wife mode, feeling very sad when chasing you, and not paying much attention to it when you are in love. Or a phased absent-mindedness. Many times Libra's absent-mindedness is not disliked, it is just that there are other things to be busy with. Of course, there is also a kind of absent-mindedness caused by the second situation above, that is, Libra has actually accumulated a lot of dissatisfaction, which requires careful judgment.
Written by | Alex
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