Early this morning, the news of the divorce of Indian superstar Aamir Khan and his wife was on the hot search.
This explosive news reminds people of the previous divorce of bill and his wife, as well as the divorce of the Bezos couple.
In people's eyes, they have both fame and fortune, love and affection, and the most beautiful love, marriage, and family in the world are probably like this.
However, they divorced.
The divorce statement invariably expressed gratitude for the marriage and blessings to the lover, but the more warm it was, the more it made people sigh.
In other words, the parties, perhaps, they do not want to believe that this is the final outcome.
When love has become a thing of the past, and breaking up has become the final fulfillment, this is not a continuation of love.
As Aamir Khan and his wife said in their divorce statement: End the 15-year marriage and start a new chapter in their lives. They will still be the "faithful parents" of their son Azad, who will take care of their previous careers together.
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Love is a game of equal strength.
There is a kind of love, you are excellent, I am not bad.
Searching for news about Amir Khan and his wife, Kiran Rao, we can learn that they met during the filming of a movie called Once Upon a Time in India.
Aamir Khan is a Bollywood superstar who has starred in a number of popular movies, including "Three Fools Bollywood" and "Wrestle It!" Daddy", "Mysterious Superstar", etc., are known as "Indian national treasure actors" and are internationally renowned.
Kiran Rao later became an independent director, and Aamir Khan starred in Kirlan Rao's debut film, The Diary of Mumbai. The couple, one as the protagonist and the other as a director, joined forces to launch a classic work such as "Stars on Earth".
It is not difficult to see that Amir Khan and his wife Kiran Rao are related because of movies, have common hobbies and career pursuits, and belong to the model of husband and wife.
Such a woman, talented, gentle and determined, is Aamir Khan's helper, but also his career "golden partner", such feelings, naturally deep and determined.
That's why they said in the joint statement:
The two have spent fifteen wonderful years together in the past, experienced laughter and happiness together, and the relationship has grown in trust, respect and love.
Love, is really loved, this is beyond doubt.
Moreover, this understanding is not the luck that all people who love each other can have. And Amir Khan and Kiran Rao, they have both received heavenly favor in each other's lives, they are so lucky, so happy.
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Love is to grow together, but also to watch over each other.
The song "Wordless Ending" sings: "When you break up, don't say it's hard to forget, just let that memory go with the wind, maybe I will forget, maybe I will miss you more, maybe there is no longer maybe ..."
When love is a thing of the past, letting go is the last tenderness. No love is no love, many years of friendship is not overnight can be "liquidated", those who do not give up and love, in the end, can only be handed over to time, a little bit to smooth.
When love is gone, family and friendship are still there, so Aamir Khan and his wife Kiran Rao said in their divorce statement:
I hope to start a new life, but not in the form of a husband and wife, but as a parent and a family.
In such an ending, there is no "mutual tearing" of turning against each other, and there is no thin affection of grace and righteousness. This peaceful breakup not only preserves decency, but also tells people that no longer love, that is, no longer love. Maybe there is no interference from the 1 of external forces, just the hearts of two people, no longer thinking together, the pace of two people, can no longer be consistent.
Love comes to an end, and it is difficult to harvest the water. Love any longer, like two hedgehogs too close together, neither of them will pick up the sharp edge, then they cannot snuggle, but hurt each other.
Instead of both of us suffering, let's separate two wide and rejoice in each other!
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If you have loved deeply and have no chance to be a husband and wife in this life, then change your way and continue to love you.
How much love, starting from the old moon, and finally Meng Po, this life can hold the hand of the son and the son with the old, is the happiest thing.
How much love begins with heartache and understanding, but finally the three views are inconsistent and the ideals are inconsistent. We can only part ways halfway and go our separate ways.
Such an ending, at the beginning of love, there will be no trace of distractions. However, the world is unpredictable, life is impermanent, love is gradually dissipating, and no one can stop it.
This is really wonderful and helpless change.
But how can someone who has truly loved one easily say "goodbye"? Each other has become each other's relatives, as long as one party has paid sincere love, love is responsive.
Just like Zhang Youyi, the first person who divorced a woman during the Republic of China. In that well-known marriage, she was always the unloved person, even if she used all her strength to love her husband Xu Zhimo, but in the eyes of her husband, she was a rustic person. However, Zhang Youyi's virtuous generosity was deeply loved by her in-laws.
After the divorce, the former mother-in-law moved in with Zhang Youyi and regarded her as a "dry daughter". After walking out of that self-lost marriage, Zhang Youyi studied and did business, all the way to hang, career Tengda, she has enough ability, not only to support herself, but also often to help Xu Zhimo.
When the two were husband and wife, he never looked at her squarely; after she achieved a gorgeous turn in life with strength and forbearance, he praised her from the bottom of his heart and often visited her. As for the funerals of his parents, she had the sole right to handle them.
And he did not think that this woman who was not loved by himself was still the one who took care of the aftermath for him.
Zhang Youyi once said:
"You always ask me if I love Xu Zhimo. You know, I can't answer that question. I was confused by this question, because everyone always told me that I had done so much for Xu Zhimo, and I must have loved him. However, I can't say anything about love, and I haven't said 'I love you' to anyone. If taking care of Xu Zhimo and his family can be called 'love', then I probably love him. Of the few women he's met in his life, maybe I love him the most. ”
Yes, love a person, if there is a relationship in this life, even if it is no longer a husband and wife, it will continue to love, with family, with relatives.
Conclusion: In this life, it is very rare to meet people who are as brilliant as a rainbow.
When the person you love deeply also loves you deeply, even if you have experienced the hardships of the world, it is sweeter than bitter.
When love dissipates, even if it is a golden food, everything tastes the same as chewing wax, and it is lifeless.
Love makes people so crazy, and it makes people so determined.
Perhaps, if you love, you will love, and if you scatter, you will scatter, this is the most authentic appearance of love.
As you and I in the red dust, only when love comes, use our best efforts to love well, and when love says goodbye, wave goodbye vigorously, it is loyalty to love and reverence for life.
May you, someone loved, loved by others, the road to love is sweet and eternal!
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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