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Video production, commentary Li Jiayao
Never talk about silence, losing love is not terrible, losing hope is the most deadly.
"Marriage is the graveyard of love", this is already a well-accepted old saying. Many people have the same feeling, after getting married, the other half began to perfunctory and unwilling to communicate, but most people choose to be hysterical or silently endure at this time, even if some people are willing to delve into the reasons behind this, but only blame it on not loving. Is it really that simple? For a moment and a half, I can't say it clearly, so let's take a look at the movie "The Gap of Hope" first.
In fact, at the beginning of watching "The Gap of Hope", people felt that this was an ordinary marriage drama, but in the end you can find that although the whole movie is about the heroine's marriage process, but what you see from it is more than so much, and even you will find that marriage and love are not the things it most wants to express. And the audience's attitude towards the characters in the film is also undergoing a 180-degree change.
At the beginning of the film, Grace and her husband did not quarrel, the two people even laughed and talked, but everyone can feel the sense of oppression that seeps out of it, and as the plot progresses, Grace's strength is more and more obvious, although Edward's cheating is not right, but with this wife, cheating is more like liberation!
The reason for Edward's cheating, his own answer is "I don't love you anymore", but this is not the case. It was not that he did not love Grace, and he even tried to change his relationship with Grace five times without success, so Edward gradually lost hope for this relationship, and when he met the mother of his student, his hope for love was rekindled, so in the end Edward resolutely left.
But edward is not the only one who has lost hope in this relationship, but also Grace. After Edward left, Grace has been sullen, subconsciously thinking that her husband will return, and she even uses some nonsensical tricks to hope to save Edward's heart. At this time, Grace is sensitive and fragile, so people are less disgusted with her, and more of a sudden sympathy. Only then did people feel what the film most wanted to express — love and hope.
Grace was unfortunate, of course, but in a way, she was lucky. Although she has great problems with herself, her son Jimmy is not far away from her, and after her divorce, Jimmy has been taking time to accompany Grace. Of course, it is not difficult to see that Jimmy has long been abused by the couple out of immune antibodies, and he himself has no hope of marrying his lover and living in a big house. It is precisely because of the silent companionship of her son that Grace gradually perks up, regains hope for life, and can even calmly go to the lover's house to deliver things, the confident Grace gradually returns, at this time everyone will not dislike Grace's past as at the beginning of the film, but feel happy about her now.
Only when you see the end will you find that "The Gap of Hope" is not only about love and marriage, but also about life and hope. Marriage is the hope of family and love, and divorce is the loss of this hope. To live hard is to have hope for a better life in the future, and to end life is to lose hope for life. So Grace said that Edward was murdering, not overreacting, he took away Grace's hope, it was a kind of torture without blood.
At this time, we can think about the initial question in turn, why do so many people feel love in marriage and even in daily life, and feel that the world is boring? Probably because there is less hope for each other and for their own lives. Don't feel that hope is just a vague term, without it, your life will collapse in an instant. Life is inherently tortuous, but every gully is mixed with hope, the loss of love is only temporary, as long as there is hope for life at all times, everything is not so difficult.
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Producer - Wang Bo Editor-in-Chief - Liu Aiping
Chief Executive Officer │ Wang Enze Chief Reporter - Leshui
Editors│ Mu Yilong, Li Xiaoshu, Cao Xinyu, Li Jiayao
Visual Director - Du Fang Video Producer - Li Xiaojiao Design - Liu Yao Li Xinyu