preface
After the article derailed in 2014, the image he created as a "good husband and father" collapsed, and his trust with Ma Yili was like a broken mirror, and no matter how much he mended it, he could not ignore the cracks.
In 2019, their broken marriage dragged on and finally came to an end, and this sibling relationship with a difference of 8 years was enviable before, and how ironic it is now.
But why did Ma Yili divorce after 5 years of derailment in the article? Her wisdom you can't imagine.
Step into the stars
This is a photo of Ma Yili and her father when she was a child, it can be seen that Ma Yili has been beautiful since she was a child, and she is a cute girl who has grown from childhood to beauty.
Ma Yili and her father as a child
And Ma Yili's place can step into the star path, a large part is because of his parents' careful cultivation, especially his father, who is particularly "rich" for Ma Yili.
In fact, Ma Yili's family is ordinary, her parents were educated youths in the countryside in the early years, and later after returning to Shanghai, they became ordinary workers.
But in order to cultivate Ma Yili, only the father of the beginner Chinese level, can be described as dedicated, Ma Yili wants to learn to dance, her father immediately accompanies her to the street to find dance classes without saying a word, and rides a twenty-eight bicycle to take her to class every day.
Ma Yili wanted to go to the art troupe, her father looked for enrollment information from the newspaper every day, and took her to the exam as soon as there was news, and after she was successfully admitted to the TV station's accompanying dance, the first performance fee was 180 yuan, which was a huge amount of money at that time.
While her parents were happy, they calmly told her, "You can use this money yourself." Since then, Ma Yili's tuition, clothes and shoes are all taken care of by herself, and she has not asked her family for a penny.
Under her father's careful teaching, Ma Yili has become a Shanghai girl with independent thinking and financial independence and talent at the same time, how can such a girl not be liked?
Soon, in the first year of high school, Ma Yili fell in love early, and after the teacher knew about it, he immediately invited parents from both sides and held a serious symposium, and Ma Yili's whole heart was adjusted to her throat.
But what she didn't expect was that her father didn't say a word to her, but told her that girls should be generous, even if they are dating boys, they can't always let others treat them, and they must rush to pay.
Ma Yili once said that her father didn't say much, but everything he said was very effective, without her father's persistence and guidance, she would not have achieved what she is today.
In 1994, 18-year-old Ma Yili had been practicing in the Shanghai TV Dance Team for three years, and this year she was full of confidence and ambition, and was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy in one fell swoop.
At the same time as her are the familiar Bao Jianfeng and Chen Long, the friendship between the two of them and Ma Yili continues to this day, of which Chen Long was also taken home by Ma Yili, but the relationship between the two has always been "more than friendship, lovers are not full".
In 1997, Ma Yili had not yet graduated from the theater, and her career and love ushered in great changes because of a "Beijing circle director".
Chen Long, Ma Yili. Protect the sword
Moved to the Beijing Circle
This Beijing circle director is called Guan Hu, a native of Beijing, his father is Guan Zongxiang, a very famous actor at that time, and his mother Yu Daiqin is a national first-class actor and director of the National Theatre.
In 1991, Guan Hu graduated from Nortel's directing department, and the next year directed his first film "Hair is Messy", which caused a sensation after its release and received rave reviews.
The first battle was successful, Guan Hu was ready to go, and then filmed "Romantic Street" and "Goodbye, My 1948", these works were well received, and Guan Hu also gained some fame in the Beijing directing circle.
In 1997, Guan Hu came to the theater to cast when he was filming "Night Walker", where he met the drama school Hua Ma Yili, Ma Yili at that time, beautiful appearance was her least worth mentioning advantage.
She is not only ice and snow smart, independent personality, but also very mature and smooth in the world, but more importantly, she is also extremely talented and aura, Guan Hu fell in love with her at first sight.
After the two met, Ma Yili also gradually learned about Guan Hu's ability and talent, coupled with Guan Hu's tall man of one meter nine meters, his personality was simply tough, and Ma Yili took the initiative to pursue him.
The day before Valentine's Day in 1998, Ma Yili called Guan Hu and said with a little water:
"Tomorrow is Valentine's Day, it's not fun to live alone."
Guan Hu is also a smart person, and immediately said love words to Ma Yili:
"I am willing to accompany you and guard you every Valentine's Day in the future."
In this way, the pair of lovers came together, and this summer, Ma Yili graduated from the theater, and she did not hesitate to follow Guan Hu to Beijing to develop her career.
After the two lived together in Beijing, Ma Yili went to the major crews to mix faces, and Guan Hu was also working hard to prepare for a new drama, although the two worked hard separately, they would always encourage each other when they returned home.
Later, in order to help Ma Yili gain a foothold in the Beijing circle, Guan Hu invited his girlfriend to play the protagonist when preparing for the filming of "Black Hole" and "Xi Shi Eye", and Ma Yili began to gradually become famous.
In 2001, Guan Hu won the Huabiao Award and received a prize of 8,000 yuan, although this money is not much, but it is of great significance to Guan Hu, and he used this money to buy a diamond ring for Ma Yili.
Guan Hu is 8 years older than Ma Yili, and Ma Yili, who received the diamond ring, is only 27, and Guan Hu is 35 years old, Guan Hu's meaning of wanting to get married is obvious, but Ma Yili does not want to start a family so early, she asked Guan Hu to give her a little more time.
Guan Hu was not angry, but worked harder to help Ma Yili win the role, and soon, "Huan Zhu Gege Part III" invited Ma Yili to play the role of Ziwei.
After the TV series was broadcast, Ma Yili was complained by the audience, not as good as Lin Xinru's Ziwei, a large number of people who blacked her, but black and red are also red, Ma Yili was finally known to the public this time.
So next, she took on several more plays, her career can be described as booming, Guan Hu gradually became the man behind him, but in the hearts of Guan Hu, a Beijing master, he didn't want his other half to be so career-minded.
The two negotiated many times without success, and Guan Hu finally chose to let go and decided to return Ma Yili to the blue sky of the show business, no longer obsessively trying to bind her to his backyard.
But it is worth mentioning that soon after Guan Hu and Ma Yili broke up, they were with Liang Jing, and Liang Jing is Ma Yili's best friend, the three have known each other for many years, Guan Hu and Liang Jing fell in love for three months and got married in flash, and the friendship between the two girlfriends also came to an end.
Liang Jing and Guan Hu
Eventually become a family member with others
After Ma Yili and Guan Hu broke up, the relationship has been in a blank period, she put all the focus of her life on her career, and in 2005, when filming "Jinyiwei", she met the article.
In the play, Ma Yili played the emperor's new love, while the article played the prince, and the two fought hot under the emperor's nose.
But outside the play, the two were not familiar with each other at first, after all, Ma Yili at this time was already a famous actress with status in the Beijing circle, but the article was just a newcomer who had just graduated.
The two are incompatible in age, experience and circle, but the article is the same as Ma Yili, they are both ambitious people and people who dare to work hard.
The article humbly asked Ma Yili for advice, and Ma Yili did not hide her selfishness, the two communicated a lot in private, Ma Yili gradually realized that the article has its own ideas about acting, and is also very talented, and the two get along more and more.
In 2006, Ma Yili received the script of "Struggle", and also pushed the article to play the male second, and the two had the opportunity to play again, and it was also during this period that the article and Ma Yili were photographed by the media, and the two returned to Ma Yili's villa together.
The relationship between the two was exposed by the media, but the sibling relationship, which is 8 years apart, is not favored by the outside world, and even the parents, who have always supported Ma Yili, are strongly opposed.
But the taste of love, such as people drinking water cold and warm self-awareness, in 2008, the article proposed to Ma Yili, the two quietly obtained a marriage certificate, until the media photographed Ma Yili went to the hospital for a pregnancy test, the two announced the good news.
Under the promotion of Ma Yili, the article won the role of the gentle and persistent Xiaobei in "Snail House", and then the article shined in "Snow Leopard".
And Ma Yili had to choose to temporarily withdraw from the entertainment industry because of pregnancy and childbirth, and the resource became the woman behind the article, wholeheartedly supporting her husband's career.
When the article and Ma Yili were immersed in happiness, Yao Di had just entered the crew of "New Dream of Red Mansions" at this time, although she played the role of Wang Xifeng and entered the public's field of vision, but whether it is fame or status, it is far from comparable to Ma Yili.
In 2011, the article and Bai Baihe won the 31st Hundred Flowers Award for Best Actor and Actress with the movie "33 Days of Broken Love", and in the same year, the article that was on the rise met his love robbery Yao Di.
The two met in cooperation with "The Age of Naked Marriage", but they gradually broke through their moral bottom line because of the drama, and embarked on the road of no return that everyone scolded.
Derailment during pregnancy and falling to the trough
The article career was a great success, Ma Yili put the second child on the agenda, in 2013, Ma Yili was recuperating at home with her second child, and some gossip came out, saying that the article was derailed.
These words, without some photos and videos to support them, no one believes them, and Ma Yili never doubts the article, because the article loves Ma Yili too much.
Ma Yili said that he did not dare to go west in the east, whether in life or work, the article almost obeyed Ma Yili's words, so Ma Yili would have the fierce title of "Commander Ma".
However, in 2014, Zhuo Wei, the first paparazzi in domestic entertainment, broke out on the Internet that the article and Yao Di's street intimate photos confirmed the rumors that the article was cheating.
As soon as the picture came out, the article and Yao Di's Weibo were full of insults, and the article fell from heaven to hell overnight, with a bad reputation and ruined image and career.
And Yao Di knew that she was three when she was three, and was said by everyone that she was shameless and destroyed people's families, and finally she was directly scolded and withdrawn from the circle, and her great future was directly smashed.
Two days later, the article posted an apology, claiming that he was not a good husband and father, Ma Yili forgave generously, and issued a popular sentence of "and do and cherish", netizens under Ma Yili's Weibo, mourning his misfortune and angering him.
But some people also expressed understanding, after all, both children need a father, Ma Yili, as a mother, in order to give her children a complete family, she has to choose to endure.
If you don't endure but choose to withdraw, wouldn't it just be in line with Yao Di's wishes, when the time comes, she will directly take the position, and Ma Yili will have nothing, and this result must be what Ma Yili does not want to see.
Ma Yili's father, who has always loved his daughter deeply, also spoke out overnight:
"This incident has hit our family very hard, but as long as the article knows that mistakes can be corrected, it is enough to repent, and take the initiative to return to the family."
After this incident, the image of the article was completely destroyed, naturally he could not receive any good drama, so he could only go home to avoid the limelight, and also took this opportunity to do his father's duty.
However, trust is like a piece of paper, once wrinkled, no matter how it is smoothed, it cannot be restored to its original state, Ma Yili is not a completely unclear woman, she has already encountered betrayal, and the focus of her life has shifted from family to career.
In this marriage crisis, Ma Yili gained word of mouth and popularity, and quickly returned soon after giving birth, with good scripts and good roles one after another, relying on "My First Half of Life" and "Find You", Ma Yili has won the "Magnolia Award" and "Huading Award".
In 2019, the love between Ma Yili and the article finally ended in divorce, they were separated and happy, but interestingly, shortly before the two issued a divorce declaration, Yao Di officially announced that she was married.
Many people feel that the timing of their divorce is very clever, and feel that Ma Yili is intentional, maybe she has never been able to forgive the article and Yao Di in her heart, so she has been forbearing, as long as Yao Di does not get married for a day, she will endure for a day, Yao Di does not marry for a year, she will endure for a year.
But this is just groundless speculation by everyone, according to the divorce declaration issued by the two, the article and Ma Yili broke up peacefully, and the words showed calmness, understanding and blessing, without a trace of malice in it.
The public is more willing to believe that Ma Yili chose to take a step back in order for the two children to grow up in a complete family, and the real reason for the divorce "Xiang Tai" once revealed that the two were caused by less gathering and separating more, and lack of communication.
End
Now, the two have been divorced for 3 years, and the article Ma Yili, a once loving couple, has a world of difference in career development, one career is thriving, and the other is bleak.
The 46-year-old Ma Yili in front of the camera is still dazzling, and the years not only have not destroyed her appearance, but she has added a mature charm.
And the article rarely shows his face, when the last video was released, his face was tired, his spirit was weak, he completely lost his original spirit, and he looked like an old dragon clock, which is really a world away from Ma Yili's state.
What's worse, the Internet broke out that Yao Di's husband and beautiful women held hands, after reading it, I can only say that the way of heaven is good reincarnation, who the sky spared, the experience of the article also warns everyone, and a person who loves each other into marriage, it is really not easy, don't lose marriage and lose the person who loves you because of a momentary greed and a momentary desire.
May everyone in marriage stick to their responsibilities, cherish each other, and hope that we can all live our own light in marriage and live as we want most.