"I don't care about age boundaries, only do you like it or not?"
This is what Rao Xinyu, who was 31 years old at the time, said to Wang Kuirong, who was 37 years older than himself.
When the original relationship was exposed, everyone could not understand.
Where did Wang Kuirong attract Rao Xinyu,
Let Rao Xinyu ignore his parents' objections and marry him even if he does not want a bride price.
Now that 8 years have passed, what happened to this yearless love that is not favored by everyone?
Has Rao Xinyu ever regretted it?
1.
Rao Xinyu was born in a remote mountainous area of Guizhou, and her parents chose to go out to work in order to give their children a better life.
Rao Xinyu, who was only 8 years old, became a left-behind child.
Because her parents are not at home, Rao Xinyu, who is the eldest daughter,
At a young age, he became the pillar of the family, because his younger brother was not in good health,
In order to take better care of her younger brother, she carried him to school on her back.
The teachers all know Rao Xinyu's family situation, and they will only feel distressed when they see such a scene.
At that time, Rao Xinyu had to cook for his younger siblings before going to school, and still had to take care of his younger siblings after school.
At the end of the day, I don't have time for myself.
Although Rao Xinyu is young, she understands,
If you want to get rid of the status quo and get out of this mountain, you can only rely on reading. 、
It is precisely because of this idea that Rao Xinyu has been studying hard,
Hard work always pays off, and she posted awards all over her home.
Every time my parents come home for the New Year and see it, they are happy in their hearts.
And the reason why she became interested in acting was when she was 12 years old.
Once she came home from school, her younger siblings rushed out to coquette as soon as possible:
"Sister sister, the lady next door said that there is a drama troupe, there is a performance at night, you take us there."
Rao Xinyu himself was also curious, so he took his younger brothers and sisters with him.
The audience is all under the stage, and the opera actors show their skills on it.
Rao Xinyu looked at his heart for a long time and could not calm down, so he ran to the background and asked:
"Sister, what are you doing?"
The actor explained with a smile:
"We are theatrical actors, and this time we are touring the countryside."
In fact, Rao Xinyu, who was fashionable and young, did not know what a "drama actor" was.
But he wanted to perform on stage like these older siblings.
This idea is like a seed, deeply rooted in Rao Xinyu's heart, and one day it will take root.
2.
Gradually, Rao Xinyu's family conditions became better,
When I was in high school, I moved into the county seat, and here Rao Xinyu came into contact with a lot of new things.
For example, the tape drive, which was very popular at that time, she had no money to buy it at that time, so she could only save money from her own meals.
After saving money for meals, she finally had her own tape drive.
At that time, she was addicted to listening to songs, and even secretly listened to them in class, so she was soon discovered by the teacher.
Immediately afterwards, the teacher called the parents, and Rao Xinyu's parents were very surprised, because the eldest daughter has always been the most sensible.
Then my father felt that Rao Xinyu had learned badly, and he was directly furious, and he wanted to smash Rao Xinyu when he copied things.
It was the mother who stopped on the side, and this did not fall on Rao Xinyu.
Afterwards, her mother advised her that the main thing now is to study.
In fact, how could Rao Xinyu not understand, she never delayed her study when she listened to songs.
In her third year of high school, she heard from her classmates that she could apply for an art university, and she was moved.
But her parents didn't understand, because she could get into a good university by her own grades.
At that time, those who wanted to rely on art to get their scores into university were poor grades in the cultural course itself.
But Rao Xinyu ignored his parents' obstruction and resolutely applied for the Beijing Film Academy.
At the same time, he began to make up for art-related,
Finally, with good results, I successfully received the admission letter.
Rao Xinyu knew that his family conditions were average, so he just entered the university and began to be self-sufficient.
In school, in addition to attending classes, I work part-time,
With her beautiful face, she began to model car shows during college,
He also goes to the street to hand out leaflets in his free time, and Rao Xinyu doesn't care about hard work at all.
As long as there is money to earn.
Under such a high-intensity part-time job, Rao Xinyu did not neglect his studies.
Because you study hard enough,
So although I just graduated, my acting foundation is already very solid.
So just graduated, I received an invitation from the crew.
In the TV series "The Second Under the World", he played the role of "Red Gege".
Take this opportunity to officially step into the entertainment industry.
Although Rao Xinyu himself is very good-looking, he is in an entertainment industry full of beautiful women.
Rao Xinyu is also difficult to become a hit.
She herself understands this, so she doesn't pick a job, as long as it allows her to act, even if she doesn't have lines.
If you want to pursue your dreams, you must first eat and drink,
During that time, Rao Xinyu rotated every day, and when he returned home, he collapsed in bed.
Even so, the money earned is barely enough to spend.
The kung fu paid off, and gradually more and more crews were looking for her to act.
Rao Xinyu's reputation also gradually opened.
3.
In the year Rao Xinyu was admitted to Beiying, Wang Kuirong was 55 years old.
He was a relatively late entrant in the old drama bones, and when he was 40 years old, he got a chance to enter the Chinese opera.
But at that time, he was already married and had children, but he did not want to give up this hard-won opportunity.
So after much deliberation, he still told his wife the news:
"Now there is an opportunity, I want to study at the Central Academy of Drama."
At that time, Wang Kuirong's wife was stunned when she heard the news, and thought that she had heard it wrong.
It is unbelievable that Wang Kuirong's decision to go to school at the age of forty is unbelievable:
"You're not afraid of jokes when you go to school at your age? How do you live when you don't work and go to school? ”
At that time, Wang Kuirong's wife put down her cruel words, if she must go to school, she will divorce.
Wang Kuirong has not struggled, after all, even the neighbors nearby are talking,
He also asked himself, is there still a need to toss so big?
But this is my dream since I was a child, and now that I have such an opportunity, can I give up?
No, so Wang Kuirong resolutely divorced his wife and went to the Chinese opera.
He became the oldest student in the school, but he studied harder than everyone else.
It was already very difficult for him to come to this school, so he did not dare to waste a single bit of time,
After graduation, he successfully entered the Children's Art Drama Troupe,
Here his established role is the Big Bad Wolf, and since he arrived at the drama troupe, he has performed more than a thousand times.
Wang Kuirong understands that this is not the life he wants, and this life is unchanged.
So he once again made a decision that was difficult for others to understand, that is, to resign and go to the trick.
Fate could not bear to treat him harshly all the time,
By starring in "Love You No Discussion" with Song Dandan Yingda,
Wang Kuirong finally became famous.
After that, he began to play one police role after another, and was called the "police king" by the audience.
Immediately afterwards, he began to play the villain and became a villain professional.
Wang Kuirong is very serious when acting, and he will never make do with it if he can act the best.
At that time, in "Wolf Hunting", Wang Kuirong had such a scene, that is, he needed to trample cockroaches to death and then eat them.
Originally, there was no need to eat real food, the crew had props, but Wang Kuirong insisted on eating real,
When filming, Wang Kuirong really put the cockroach in his mouth to chew, and after filming,
Wang Kuirong felt not very satisfied after reading it, and filmed it a second time.
It is precisely because of his high standards and strict requirements for himself that he can finally present such a perfect result.
After that, he played the role of "Pan Wuye" in "Crossing the Guandong", which completely opened up his popularity.
4.
In 2012, a TV series called "Hitting the Dog Stick" officially began filming.
This drama can be described as a gathering of powerful actors, and there were many newcomers who wanted to mix a role at that time,
They are not looking for salaries, but the opportunity to work with these powerful actors,
Let's see if you can learn some acting skills from it, which money can't buy.
And Rao Xinyu was also one of these newcomers at that time, but he didn't expect to really choose himself, Rao Xinyu was both nervous and happy.
It may be because of excessive nervousness, so I don't perform well when filming, and I have been NG.
Sometimes the more bad the acting, the more nervous it is, Rao Xinyu is like this,
NG again and again made the director a little impatient, plus this was not an important role in the first place, so he said directly:
"This one is no more, direct substitution."
Rao Xinyu was already nervous, as soon as he heard this sentence, he was directly scared and cried, the opportunity he had won with great difficulty, was it just gone?
The more afraid you are, the worse it is, it's like a vicious circle, and you still haven't shot well again,
When the director was about to lose his temper, Wang Kuirong came over:
"The little girl is inevitably nervous, take your time."
The director also didn't bother Wang Kuirong's face, so he went to shoot other people's scenes first, so that Rao Xinyu could take a good look at the script.
Then the director took people away, and Rao Xinyu blamed himself and kept crying,
Wang Kuirong stepped forward to comfort her: "At the beginning of acting, it was like this, the director was a little anxious, and he didn't deliberately target you." ”
Then picked up the script and began to tell Rao Xinyu, hoping that she could quickly integrate into the role.
Rao Xinyu looked at Wang Kuirong, and was very moved in his heart,
Previously, because Wang Kuirong's villain image was too deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, he was a little afraid at first,
I didn't expect him to be so gentle and careful, and he would tell newcomers.
Under the guidance of Wang Kuirong, Rao Xinyu had a deeper understanding of the role, and then successfully finished filming the scene.
After the end, Rao Xinyu went to Wang Kuirong to thank him, after all, he would not have finished filming so smoothly without himself.
Wang Kuirong asked her not to be so polite, and she could continue to ask him any questions in the future.
So after that, as long as Rao Xinyu didn't understand anything about the role, he would ask Wang Kuirong,
Wang Kuirong also taught each other, and in this way, the two became more and more acquainted.
Later, once in the crew, the actors were basically all here, and only one middle character had not yet arrived,
Because this man is powerful, no one dares to say anything,
But Wang Kuirong was not afraid of this, and directly stood up and said: "As an actor, punctuality is the most important thing, how can you delay the filming progress of the entire crew because of one person." ”
When Wang Kuirong said this, Rao Xinyu was watching from the sidelines, which made Rao Xinyu a little impressed by him.
Because in this circle, the powerful is the right to speak, and few people will offend such people,
People swallow their anger for self-preservation, but Wang Kuirong is not, he bravely stood up and spoke up.
Because Rao Xinyu is only an unimportant supporting role, the scene was quickly filmed,
Generally, small actors like them, after filming a scene in a play, will hurriedly look for the next drama,
Rao Xinyu was originally like this, but this time it was different,
After the finalization, Rao Xinyu applied to the director and stayed in the crew as a staff member,
She didn't want a salary, she just wanted to study in the crew, and seeing that she was so studious, the director agreed.
After that, Rao Xinyu seemed to become Wang Kuirong's personal assistant, and when Wang Kuirong was filming,
She sat on the side and watched the study carefully, and even recorded it in a small book,
When Wang Kuirong finished filming, he would ask him about his performance, and slowly the entire crew felt that something was wrong,
But Wang Kuirong only felt that Rao Xinyu regarded himself as an idol, because of the age difference between himself and her, Wang Kuirong did not think much.
5.
But in fact, Rao Xinyu has long liked Wang Kuirong, and she knows that her idea may be a little absurd,
But feelings are like that, menacing and unreasonable.
Soon the filming of this TV series was finished, and Rao Xinyu knew that if he didn't explain it again, he might not have a chance in the future.
So Rao Xinyu asked Wang Kuirong out for dinner, and Wang Kuirong didn't think much about it at that time, thinking that he just wanted to ask himself about acting.
As a result, as soon as he sat down and started eating, Rao Xinyu asked: "Teacher Wang, do you have any plans to find it again?" ”
Wang Kuirong doesn't want to find someone to spend the rest of his life with, but he is too old, so whether he can find it or not, let it be.
When Rao Xinyu heard this, he felt that he was not impossible, so he asked: "Do you think I can?" ”
Wang Kuirong was so frightened that his chopsticks fell off, and he felt that Rao Xinyu was joking with him,
This Rao Xin was anxious, hurriedly said that she was sincere, she felt that age should not be an obstacle between two people,
But Wang Kuirong only felt that she did not understand her feelings, so she did not agree.
But Rao Xinyu did not compromise because of this, but tried to prove his heart to Wang Kuirong.
One thing made Wang Kuirong have a new understanding of Rao Xinyu, when the two were eating at a restaurant,
Rao Xinyu turned his head and suddenly saw an old man scavenging at the door, and the old man was wearing rags,
Sitting alone on the side of the road, nibbling on a dirty steamed bun, seeing the old man so pitiful, Rao Xin couldn't bear it.
So I asked the boss for another meal, and then gave that meal to the old man at the door.
There are too many indifferent people in today's society, and they always don't care about themselves,
But Rao Xinyu is different, and this matter has given Wang Kuirong a new understanding of Rao Xinyu.
After a period of pursuit, Wang Kuirong also understood that Rao Xinyu was not just talking,
He also gradually developed a good impression of this brave girl, but because of the age difference between the two, Wang Kuirong still hesitated.
Rao Xinyu saw Wang Kuirong's concerns and said to him: "I am in charge of my marriage, I have a house and a deposit, I don't need your bride price, as long as you are willing to marry me, it is enough." ”
Wang Kuirong was still moved by her, and the two came together, and then Rao Xinyu took Wang Kuirong to see his parents.
Rao Xinyu's parents couldn't believe that their daughter's boyfriend was older than herself,
I couldn't accept it for a while, and said directly to my daughter: "If you have to be with him, don't recognize the two of us as your parents." ”
But even so, Rao Xinyu still had an iron heart to be with Wang Kuirong.
In 2014, the two held a grand wedding, and many friends in the entertainment industry were present.
But Rao Xinyu's parents still did not agree to the marriage of the two, so they missed the wedding.
At that time, as soon as the news of the marriage of the two came out, many people were shocked,
None of them believed that the two people, who were 37 years apart, came together to be a true love.
They all feel that the reason why Rao Xinyu is willing to marry this person who is older than his father is for money.
Although there was a lot of discussion from the outside world, the two of them were not affected,
How others say is someone else's, it is impossible to cover their mouths and not let them say,
But how to live your life is only known to you.
After getting married, Rao Xinyu quit the circle and stopped filming, and the next year there was a lovely daughter left.
The old queen Kui Rong was very happy, and also held a very grand full moon wine, but Rao Xinyu's parents still did not attend.
In the third year, a white and fat son was born, although the birth of the child brought joy to the family,
But there will be some contradictions, because of the 37-year age difference,
The two often have some differences in the education of their children, but how can there be no differences between husband and wife,
As long as there is more communication, the two reach an agreement.
Now Rao Xinyu is at home with her husband and son, Wang Kuirong is filming outside to make money, and the family lives happily.
In fact, the combination of old husband and young wife in the entertainment industry is not uncommon, just like Zhang Yimou and Chen Ting have a difference of 31 years.
Initially, Chen Ting wanted to participate in Zhang Yimou's movie, but was brushed off during casting.
But Chen Ting did not die, and contacted Zhang Yimou many times, hoping to give herself a chance.
Zhang Yimou saw that she was really persistent, so he gave an assistant position, but he didn't expect that the two would fall in love for a long time in getting along and eventually come together.
6.
Perhaps many people are not optimistic about couples with a lot of age difference, but no one can say such a thing as love.
Love is always menacing and unreasonable, and when you really love someone, age is not a problem at all.
No one can define two people who love each other, and they must be a few years apart.
True love is the soul fit of two people, not the worldly vision.
Many times, people miss out on many opportunities and miss out on the right people because they are timid.
As long as you recognize it, you will love boldly, and don't regret it until you miss it in the end,
Maybe you will meet many people who stand in your way on this road, but as long as you think it is right,
Just stride forward bravely, life in just a few decades, your own happiness is the most important thing.
It is not easy for people to meet a person who truly loves each other in this life, and since they are in love, they must bravely pursue it.
The brave will eventually receive his own badge.