Little Pan Emotional Beauty Series
Xiao Pan talks about love and signs the author original
01
Before encountering love, men are like an angular stone, and every cell in the body chases freedom, hoping that in this life, he can live the most wonderful self.
Therefore, when faced with choices, they are mostly based on their own feelings. If this choice makes him feel very sad, then he simply gives up; on the contrary, he will vigorously support it.
For example, Li Xiaoyao in "The Legend of the Paladin Sword".
The style of his actions, as his name suggests, always gives a sense of ethereality, and the deep blue sky, the green earth, the babbling water, the birds and flowers, cannot restrain his heart for freedom.
He is like the wind, and no one can stop him; he is like a cloud, and he does everything according to his heart, so he rarely cares about anything.
After encountering love, men will smooth out all their edges and corners in a very short period of time and become gradually smooth.
He knew that he could no longer live as he did as he did before, but should give his loved ones a home, so that their love would have a resting place from now on, without fear of the wind and rain outside.
To this end, he did not hesitate to give up the freedom in front of him, gave up the yearning for a wonderful life, like an old scalper, working diligently.
When he encountered something that made him extremely sad, he would not think of running away like before, but would face it bravely, although it would make him extremely painful, but he had no regrets.
Love, let him from a boy who only knows how to enjoy, gradually changed into a man who stands tall in the sky.
It's just that some men, because of the existence of various reasons, are ashamed to be known by others to change, so in the face of love, he is not open to accept, but blindly resist, so he will hide love.
Many times, love cannot be hidden. Even a man with very good self-control will show emotions when facing love. In other words, love is not hidden by the will of man.
So, the more a man loves you, the more he can't help but do these three things for you.
02
Can't help but guard you, especially when you encounter things
Love seems to carry a certain magic, no matter how calm a man, in the face of the loved one, will rise a strong desire to protect.
He knew that life could not be smooth sailing, so she would encounter ups and downs, and she would also encounter difficulties. But he just couldn't see her suffering. Therefore, when she encounters ups and downs, he will rush to her at the first time, and may not be able to unload the wind and rain on her body with all his strength, but as long as he is there, those winds and rains cannot hit her.
He obviously knew that the things of life were always unsatisfactory, so as wise as her, he would also encounter things that made her extremely incomprehensible; so as strong as her, he would one day be bent by fate; so wise as her, one day, would also be trapped in the cage he painted, and he could not get out for a long time.
But he just couldn't see that she was not satisfied. So, as long as she's not happy, he'll do whatever it takes to make her laugh.
This kind of guardianship predates the reaction in his mind, but is a subconscious act. Especially when she encounters difficulties, he always can't wait to rush out.
For example, Tang Yu in "The Legend of the Paladin Sword".
Every time there was an accident, he always kept Anu behind him, not allowing her to be hurt in the slightest. Even if it cost him his life, he didn't care.
In fact, Anu is not an ordinary girl, and many times, she has the ability to protect herself. Tang Yu was not unaware, but he always couldn't help but rush to the front to shield her from the wind and rain.
Some girls will understand it as distrust, but in fact, this is the reluctance that extends after the emergence of love.
I don't want her to suffer, I don't want her to be hurt, I don't want her to be sad, I just want her to be beautiful and smile forever.
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I couldn't help but go in
Although men know that if they want to live better, they must maintain a self-motivated attitude and dare to face whatever difficulties they encounter.
The problem is, it's very hard to do. So many men will eventually choose to give up and shift from "wanting to change the world" to "living a smooth life".
This is also the fundamental reason why many people "know many truths, but they can't live this life well.".
Life is too hard, life is too short, why bury your head in hard work, enjoy a good life is not good?
This is the voice of many single men. Therefore, when he is accused of being "unmotivated" by others, he will not feel sad, but proud.
But this psychology will change significantly after encountering love.
The flower of love needs financial support. The main thing is that he is not willing to let her live a hard life with him, so he will become very motivated, and he seems to have endless energy, and he will always maintain a constant forward posture in life.
In "The First Half of My Life", Luo Ziqun indulges in the "I love you" in bai guang's mouth, so he vows to be with him despite his family's opposition.
As it turned out, it was just her wishful thinking. Bai Guang may love her, but he prefers to eat, drink and have fun, so after marrying Luo Ziqun, he not only did not put away his bad problems, but felt that he had to rely on and become more intense.
He only remembered to have fun in time, not caring at all about Luo Ziqun's love with him and whether there was a place to rest. Even after becoming a father, the white light is still like this, for him, Luo Ziqun's suffocation, the child's crying, is far less important than his enjoyment, so he is not motivated at all.
Love, in fact, is a verb, it depends on how you say it, it depends on how you do it.
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Can't help but become careful
Compared to women, men are quite casual when it comes to life. The bed is not packed, it does not matter, anyway, I have to sleep at night; the clothes are not handsome enough, it does not matter, men have to rely on strength to speak instead of faces...
So, the lives of most single men are a mess. If someone objected, he didn't bother to think about it.
However, all this changes after encountering love.
Men will pay attention to their own image and will become diligent. Because, he wants to create a good living environment for her.
Sometimes, he is even more attentive than women, more thoughtful than women.
At this time, he can't help but give people a feeling of "looking at each other".
The root cause of this is love.
It was also at that moment that everyone realized that good love can really change a person.
Whether a man truly loves you, in fact, from the details, can be spied.
If in the process of getting along between the two, he will always be more and more unable to help but guard you, can't help but be self-motivated, and can't help but become careful, then he is most likely in love with you.
It must be admitted that such a man, at some point, is a bit annoying. And he may not be unaware of this, but because he has love in his heart, he can't help but do these things.
Therefore, women need to have more understanding.
It is not easy to fall in love, so if you love, then please love deeply.
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