Time goes by – you can't help it

The involuntary outpouring is the true portrayal of the depths of the heart.

Almost all people have a natural instinct to be more willing to show their better side to the world, and more willing to say what they like to hear to the people they care about, like, or want. Not necessarily flattery, but courtesy.

Mr. Huang's growing environment determines that he behaves more modestly than we do in getting along with people, and has more politeness and courtesy. This is undoubtedly a good feeling, but excessive attention may at the same time make people feel as if they are not bold enough, and even have a feeling of unreality. After all, in our bones, there is a kind of bluntness and extensiveness that is often disguised but always cannot be completely disguised, and we are not necessarily accustomed to particularly thoughtful etiquette (later, Mr. Huang also wanted to go into the local customs at some times, and deliberately imposed some "extravagance" on himself, but he was also a dong shi gong, overcorrected, and made people cry and laugh. ）。

However, Mr. Huang's thoughtfulness and courtesy still made people feel very good and comfortable, and they could not help but be deeply impressed by him. Especially in the pursuit of girls, his seemingly innate upbringing, the temperament in his bones is more effective. That's why he was able to get a young tour guide to abandon the university teacher he had been with for many years on a short trip and finally choose to be with him. Of course, he whose image is not outstanding can stand out among the many competitors who are as thoughtful and polite as him on the same tour car, and there must be his more mysterious tricks.

In the society, it is generally believed that the people who came over from Mr. Huang's birthplace are more lustful, and when the girls are not so real, he does have some doubts about the sincerity of his girlfriend. Even if he shows impeccable thoughtfulness and thoughtfulness, these are all he dominates and prepares, untested.

However, on a small matter in this lakeside outing, I seemed to see some real situation in his heart, that is, he did not treat her as a trophy of that competition, but a very serious girlfriend who hoped for development. The willfulness she showed in the water made the worry that he inadvertently revealed in his words and deeds, and let his heart surface. Only real emotions can make a person worry to the point of being angry. This is not like the polite and generous Mr. Huang.

Mr. Huang's large pile of fishing gear had not yet been fiddled with, and the two girls on the other side had already jumped into the rolling lake. I had always been very cautious and timid, sitting on the shore looking at him and them, I only felt that there was some meaning, especially Mr. Huang, who had dumped a lot of fishing gear, and did not think there was anything wrong. Mr. Huang, who was seriously fiddling with his tools, was nervous. He immediately stopped what he was doing, went to the place where they went into the water and shouted to the people in the water: "Don't swim far, don't swim far, the water is too deep, there are waves!"

There was a wave that he saw, and the depth of the water was the empirical judgment of Mr. Huang, who grew up on the seashore and enlisted in the army and trained, and he had just tried it with fishing line.

The depth of the water is a fact, and the deepest part of this lake I know is a hundred meters, and the place where fifty or sixty meters is everywhere, and there must be an undercurrent where the water is deep.

Mr. Huang's roar suddenly made me a little nervous, although I was full of confidence in the ability of my girlfriend who had been swimming in the natural waters in winter, but looking at the people who were walking farther and farther in the water, I couldn't help but shout loudly.

The scene is very funny, two people who may be of higher level (Mr. Huang had special training in the sea when he was a soldier, and I also received training as a professional coach of sports school in a nearby reservoir for a while in middle school) unwilling to (dare) go into the water, shouting on the shore, but the people in the water seem to be having fun and ignoring it.

Mr. Huang was happy to see him a hundred meters away, and the people who pretended not to hear us shouting were very anxious, and some of them could not care about their own image.

"Really disobedient, really disobedient, this kind of lake is very dangerous, there are undercurrents." He said to himself, "I don't dare to go into the water casually." ”

I feel the same way about his words, maybe I am really timid, after receiving training in the reservoir, I have not swum in the natural waters, not a special swimming pool and never go into the water.

Mr. Huang's anxiety must not have been deliberate, it was the real him, and his uncontrollable worry confirmed that his words to her were not all rhetoric.

Good morning, November 11.