"Seeing each other and hating each other"

There are many stories that are actually stories of time, whether it is yin and yang, or the sky is long, from accumulating life wisdom to healing spiritual wounds, only time can smooth everything and change everything. If it does not change, it is eternal. But a certain moment, for time, is only a scale in its endless length; and for life, it may be a key point in the turn of fate.

"Return the pearl of the king with tears, why not meet when you are not married" is to see each other and hate late, and "pouring over as before" is also to see each other and hate late. There are always some beautiful things that make us feel that we have met too late. However, some can make up for it, and some miss it for a lifetime. But no matter how good people and things are encountered too early--when we are not yet able to bear it, if we do not have the corresponding wisdom and experience in life to understand--then meeting too early is, to some extent, a miss. As the song goes: "Later, I finally learned how to love, but unfortunately you have long disappeared into the sea of people." "Whiteheads are as new" is such an interpretation--because we did not understand the way of love, tolerance or compassion, even if we knew each other very early, we missed the opportunity to go further, and even when we were old, we did not understand the true heart. Even if I finally realized it later, I am afraid that I can only silently sigh, "At that time, we did not understand love."

A sharp knife can certainly be invincible, but it is doomed to be dangerous to give it to a toddler. No matter how wonderful people and things you meet, you must have the ability to match and bear it, so that you can almost talk about enjoying life. Although love is beautiful, if it happens to people who are not old, experienced, and under-seen, they may not be able to reap the same good results. Even friendship is the same, when we were young, although innocent and clean, but too demanding and pure, often not generous and tolerant, may be because of a small misunderstanding, from then on it is like a strange road, until many years later in the heart sighed, "If I meet him (her) at this time, I will cherish this friendship."

So, the key to who and what you meet in your life is at that point in time—do you have the ability to take on this kind of people and things that may be beautiful or tragic? If you can, then everything is just right, if you can't, you have to sigh that it is too late to see each other or that you hate each other early. Seeing each other and hating late does not happen very often, and meeting and hating early - you have missed too many fates and opportunities consciously or unconsciously, so many that you can't even find out, and you have to wait for the "vicissitudes" before you regret it. Therefore, if you are still in a time when you are not enough to enjoy it and control it, at the very least, you must learn to cherish these opportunities, so as not to worry about the confusion of the time.