"He Doesn't Really Like You That Much" is a light comedy movie about love, and everyone in the movie seems to be having some trouble on the way to finding true love.
At the beginning of the movie, a little girl is bullied by a boy, and when she comes home to tell her mother about it, her mother tells her: "It must be because this boy likes you, and he can't express it, so he will express it in this way." ”
From an early age, we have learned to deceive ourselves.
When we grew up, the people around us also helped us deceive ourselves.
When politely rejected by someone liked, someone will always say, "He just doesn't know how to express it." ”
When snubbed by a blind date, people around him will also say, "He may just be too shy." ”
When a boyfriend loses his temper or even breaks up violently, someone will say, "He may just love you too much." ”
But it turns out that a lot of times these problems arise only because he doesn't really like you that much.
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Love requires active giving
Gigi in the movie is a girl who is looking forward to love, she always fantasizes about getting true love, she bravely meets different men, and looks forward to finding true love for a lifetime.
Even though many of them just disappeared after a meal, she would still ask the next man if he would actually call her.
Even for an inexplicable reason, run to the bar that the blind date often goes to and wait.
Alex, the owner of the bar, told her that if a man really likes you, he will definitely call you, and if he doesn't call, it means that he doesn't care about you at all.
Gigi senses that Alex is not ordinary to her, and she chooses to take the initiative and confess to the bar owner.
But Alex awkwardly rejected her, and he only sympathized with her.
Gigi changed the appearance of the little sheep and said to Alex, "You don't give for fear of being hurt, even if you will never be hurt, you will never get real love." ”
After that, Gigi disappeared into Alex's world, and Alex became restless, waiting for Gigi's phone calls every day, and then he finally realized that he had already fallen in love with her before he knew it.
Restless, Alex took the initiative to run to Gigi's house to wait for her, expressing his heart. Because he was afraid that if he was one step too late, Gigi would be snatched away by someone else.
If this person tells you every day how much he likes you, but there is no actual action, then it can be inferred that he does not like you that much.
People who really like you will pluck up enough courage to come to you, and all you do is full of courage to love, to accept, even if it will hurt.
Because people who don't give, will never get true love.
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Leaving will only lip service people who love you
Gigi's friend Janine marries her boyfriend of years, but her boyfriend Ben cheats on her.
Janine gave up On Ben and chose to leave, and she finally let go of herself and found herself again.
There are also many such examples in real life, such as the violent Korean stars Ahn Jae Hyun and Koo Hye Sun who divorced before.
Ahn Jae-hyun has said countless love words since he met Gu Hye-sun, "Because I like this person too much, I want to start my newly married life quickly." ”
Gu Hye-sun was also captured by such a deep affection, and soon got married, who thought that after marriage all the housework would become his own, the person who said that he would hold himself in the palm of his hand, but now he hated himself like an Obasan.
After the passion faded, the husband revealed his true face, and he began to dislike Gu Huishan and tired of the married life that he once longed for.
After a series of tugs, the two eventually parted ways.
A good marriage should make both partners better, and when a person wants to escape from marriage, it means that the marriage has become a shackle for him.
Feelings never use time to calculate the depth, some people have changed is changed, do not bother to retain people who have changed their hearts, cherish themselves is the most important.
A relationship has deteriorated, so don't stay nostalgic.
Don't deny yourself because of another person, in reality, many girls who are abandoned by their boyfriends often fall into the vortex of "I must be not good enough".
As everyone knows, no matter how good you are, there will be people who don't like you.
Since people who don't like themselves are there, why force yourself to accommodate others, it is better to be happy to be yourself, so as to attract the person who really loves you.
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Go hug the man who is willing to give for you
Friend Fangfang once fell into a dilemma of choice, one is the male god she has loved for many years, from the beginning of school Fangfang has a crush on her male god, when she went to school, she cooked for him and washed clothes and even helped him buy a round-trip train ticket, we often make fun of her like the mother of the male god.
She always laughed, thinking that love is not like this, and how much she pays should not be counted.
After work, she met a boy who would take her home, call her when it rained and ask her if she needed an umbrella, and pack a copy for her to eat.
What really made her decide was that her father was sick and hospitalized, and she rushed back to her hometown, and her boyfriend said that he couldn't leave at work, just a few simple greetings.
But the boy who chased her followed her to her hometown and waited before and after the hospital run.
Relatives and friends said: "Fangfang, this is your boyfriend of many years, the young man is really good, you have to hurry up and get married." ”
Fang Fang then remembered that after so many years with her boyfriend, he had never accompanied her back to her hometown, and every time she was either too far away or the weather was bad, in his eyes her hometown was so unbearable.
Fangfang's eyes were moist, and she said to her relatives and friends, "Yes, we are getting married this year." ”
Fang Fang did not marry her male god in the end, the day before she got married, her male god cried and begged her not to marry someone else, she just hung up the phone.
Because she knew that the male god was just crying this scene for others to see, in the end he was just acting.
Once he accompanied her to act in a love idol drama for five years, making her think that love is giving, but later she met her current husband and she knew that love could also be accepted.
Venus once said, "When my daughter grows up, I'll tell her!" If a man is upset that you squeeze the bus, complains that you don't eat on time, keeps reminding you to drink less and hurt your body, tells you to go home from work on a rainy day to pay attention to safety, sends funny text messages to coax you when you are sick... Please ignore him!
Then talk to the one who can drive you, be sick with you, take you to dinner, pick you up from work, and tell you, 'Don't do any broken work!' Follow me home! 'people together. ”
This sentence has been forwarded by countless people on the Internet, because it really poked the sore spot of countless people.
A person who truly loves you will not say it with his mouth, but will prove it with actual actions
People who want to send you home, southeast, northwest and southeast are all on the way.
People who want to eat with you love to eat sweet and sour.
People who want to shop with you are free in spring, summer, autumn and winter.
Forget about the person who will always say he loves you, and be with someone who really cares about you with action, life is already so short, why waste your life for those who are hypocritical?
With someone who truly loves you, you will not be wronged yourself.
Because no one can be happy for you, your happiness can only be fought for by yourself.
The picture comes from the movie "He Actually Doesn't Like You That Much"
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