The psychological interpretation of Jiang Wen's film debut "Sunny Day", the crazy growth under the brilliant sun
Wen, Wang Yanhui
The teenager under the brilliant sun is not sunny, but restless and ignorant, like crazy grass, full of green heart, and full of stubbornness. The green years are tinged with a little yearning and warmth, which is evocative and melancholy.
What is the symbol of sunshine? All things grow by the sun, the sun shines on the earth, but also graces the earth, and the brilliance of the sun illuminates the world.
In the song "Three Treasures of Luck", it is sung: "Dad is like the sun shining on Mom, Mom is like green leaves holding red flowers, and you are sprouting like a seed." The three of us are a lucky family. ”
The growth of a child is inseparable from the careful upbringing and protection of parents, and it should be said that a child's healthy growth and becoming a useful person are the results of parents' education and upbringing. However, if the parents are absent, the means of education cannot be implemented, the educational measures cannot be implemented, the educational goals cannot be achieved naturally, and the growth of children will inevitably grow like weeds, even if the sun is shining, it cannot become a material.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > out of control children</h1>
The children in "Sunny Days", because their parents cannot take on their respective responsibilities, resulting in the responsibility of education falling by the wayside, the children are "free-ranged" and become crazy weeds. Although they have grown up, the process of growing up is full of dangers, and some may become birds with broken wings and can no longer fly.
Ma Xiaojun's father went to work in the field with the "three branches and two armies", and after several years of not returning home, even if he came home, he would come and go in a hurry, and in such a situation, he could not fulfill the responsibility of raising his children at all.
Ma Xiaojun's mother, on the other hand, is a bitter woman. Because his father was a capitalist and counter-revolutionary, her husband's promotion was also affected, and his position as a teacher was also lost, and he became a family member of the army. The resentment in her heart led to her bad temper, depression and irritability, coupled with the fact that she could not educate and manage Ma Xiaojun, and she would beat her when she raised her hand and scold her when she opened her mouth.
In this state, Ma Xiaojun and his companions in the compound became unattended children. Coupled with the social environment at that time, heavy industry and heavy peasants did not pay attention to school, Ma Xiaojun's growth was in a laissez-faire state, fighting, smoking and drinking, early love and trouble, became a common thing.
Ma Xiaojun was originally a smart child, with a strong desire for knowledge and exploration, as well as a talent for mechanics. Ma Xiaojun is ideologically progressive, has a patriotic enthusiasm, is bold, brave and stubborn, and if there is good education and guidance, he will certainly become a useful talent. I will not use my guts to pick locks and shoot my mother-in-law.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" > adolescence, a time of trouble</h1>
Boldness and arrogance are linked, and if the guidance is not good, boldness will lead to arrogance. Arrogance is the righteousness of wantonness, and arrogance is wanton behavior and misdeeds. Look at what the young Ma Xiaojun did, it is their luck to be able to grow up, the process of growing up is thrilling, but if there is a little difference, there have been accidents several times.
In order to climb the chimney in front of Milan, he fell, and although he was unscathed, he frightened everyone. This "Leng Touqing" did not think about the consequences at all, in case he fell halfway through, he was even more stupid than the "two fools" at the intersection. At the end of the film, it is a very vivid irony that the fool calls them "silly B".
Fight with people, do not ask people to shoot a brick, blood flow like a few whips, several feet, are Ma Xiaojun alone to fight, if killed, will definitely be imprisoned, this life will be slowly boiled in prison. If you can't die, you will be seriously injured, and if you are found, you will also be ruined and treated by others. Since I was a child, I have been tinkering with such a big leak, and I can't lift my head for a lifetime.
This is not to meet the darker people, has always been "strong in the strong, drowned are watery", you "often walk by the river, where there are not wet shoes" . When I was half a child, I also caught up with the era of group fights, a classmate loved to fight, yesterday was good, today did not come to school, I heard that it was opened by others, never came to school again. Ma Xiaojun's head is not iron either. Liu Yi was bitter, wasn't he also stabbed in Ma Xiaojun's imagination, this is not only in the imagination, but in their state, every minute may be "glorious".
In the swimming pool, Milan met Biao Brother, Liu Yi bitterly looked for a few to touch the hard, Ma Xiaojun took a military stab past, a word may be a knife light to see each other, blood splash pool. No matter how high the kung fu is, the head is not as hard as a knife.
Hundreds of people almost fought in groups, both sides with bricks, iron rods, steel pipes, a bloody battle is about to start, there are eggs under the nest? If you really fight, no one can run. That little villain is a fierce character, and wasn't he also killed by a few half-grown children?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="44" > adolescent sexual budding, such as flood beasts</h1>
Even if there is no fight, the interaction between boys and girls needs guidance. The interaction between Ma Xiaojun's brothers and Milan and Yu Beibei is also sweaty.
Yu Beibei joked with Ma Xiaojun in the form of kissing, this kind of joke with heavy sexual meaning, in fact, is a prelude to sexual contact, a kind of sexual temptation when a teenager grows up, like a dry grassland, a little time, you can burn a fire.
"Sheep engaged" in the bath "straight", was slapped by Liu Yi bitterly, and also scolded "sheep engaged" is a hooligan, scared "sheep engaged" direct call is fart. Suddenly being beaten in this state of hyperactivity will produce a stress response that will immediately soften, but it may also form a psychological shadow in the future, and it will not be able to straighten up when it is necessary.
Ma Xiaojun also found Milan's residence and forcibly wanted to make love to Milan, and as a result, the fight began, which was not only easy to cause physical injury, but also prone to sexual assault. Play well, say it is affectionate and affectionate; play badly, even if you have an attempted rape. These children are on the brink of crisis, is it any wonder that the original film is called "Animal Fierce"?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" > teenagers can't handle love well</h1>
Ma Xiaojun likes Milan, but he is robbed of a single by Liu Yi, and this psychology of love and hate gradually accumulates in Ma Xiaojun's heart. Finally, a joke broke out at a birthday party, and his beloved followed someone else, coupled with his own wild impulses, and talked with his fist at the slightest discord. Ma Xiaojun and Liu Yibi slapped each other, and no one could stop them, and later smashed the wine bottle to stab Liu Yiku. Although these plots were imagined by Ma Xiaojun, they also expressed their inner anger and almost put the imagination into action.
Liu Yiku and Milan also have the act of getting rid of each other, which involves possible sexual behavior and accidental pregnancy, unmarried abortion and other issues, these troubles may not be the children do not think so much, or say pinch sweat for them. Fortunately, Ma Xiaojun, who had blown the balloon, still knew a little bit.
Ma Xiaojun fell in love with Milan because of the look and smile in the photo. In fact, this kind of love is to follow the feeling, it is completely a beautiful association caused by vision, it cannot represent the facts at all, and no one understands anyone. What is the personality of the other party, and whether the two are suitable, there is no warning. This way of choosing the person you want is the most primitive impulse.
Therefore, we encourage teenagers to interact with the opposite sex more, not only to understand each other closely, but also to maintain an appropriate distance, so as to eliminate blindness, learn to look at love more rationally, and prepare for future love.
The growth of this youth is full of crises, where is it happier to sit in the classroom and read? It's just that these children have not laid a good foundation for learning, have no interest in learning, and have no normal release channels for abundant youth hormone energy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="46" > guide young people to set goals</h1>
How to guide adolescent children may be a headache for many parents. But if you do things according to certain rules, you can do more with less. We may wish to introduce the scientific guidance method.
If there is nothing to do, the energy of the body and the energy of the mind will flood, either bored or do something wrong. Therefore, no matter what stage of people, they must have a goal in life, a certain goal, a group of dragons gathered, a sword pointed at one place. Therefore, teenagers must have life and learning goals, which depends on parents to cultivate.
For Ma Xiaojun, his parents should help him set goals in learning, such as schools such as Tsinghua University and Peking University. Their home is in Beijing, and they have the advantage of attending a prestigious school. Then urge Ma Xiaojun to go home on time every day, concentrate on homework, strengthen exercise and exercise, and so on. These things are done step by step, and there is no time to go to the alleys and hang out on the streets. And once there is no goal, all kinds of chores come, smoking and drinking, playing cards and fighting, early love and trouble, anyway, not idle.
Unfortunately, Ma Xiaojun's father went to Guizhou, and his mother was not in the mood, causing Ma Xiaojun to become out of control. Although the family status of the other children is good, they are also the chores of each family, and they do not have the heart to take care of the children.
In contrast, the social environment at that time was not as much as the current way out, such as now you can go to university, learn technology, work, become a soldier, etc., as long as you have a goal to do, to struggle, it is enough to occupy a person's energy and time, can promote a person's good development. And once it stagnates, it is like a small boat has no goal, only the wind and waves of life swirl and float.
For children in the lower grades, the main goal is to learn cultural classes and cultivate hobbies, and for children above junior high school, it is also necessary to combine the cultivation of hobbies and interests, gradually strengthen the understanding of career orientation, promote children to establish career ideals, and inject strong impetus into sustainable development.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="47" > conclusion</h1>
"Sunny Days" has triggered people's nostalgia for their youth, and also let people see the mental journey of adolescent growth.
Adolescence is the period when self-awareness is established and grown, when a large amount of social information is being absorbed, forming their worldview and outlook on life, and the internal driving force is also transitioning from complete primitive impulses to rational consciousness. If they have good guidance, they can smoothly survive the stormy period of life. On the contrary, they may break the sand before they reach adulthood and carry the endless pain of life.
May every teenager grow up healthily and share the brilliant sunshine under the blue sky; may every adult be full of confidence and have beautiful and full memories of youth.
About the Author:
Wang Yanhui, a national second-level psychological counselor, has been practicing for 16 years, founded the psychology of student instinct and the technology of simple counseling and guidance, and authored a teaching handout "Using the Troika Theory of Educating Children, You Can Teach Good Children".