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Have you ever thought that your children would become influencers and then bring us a lot of money?
Asked a few friends, one friend questioned and asked: Does my child have such potential? It would be nice to have one, and I wouldn't have to go to work every day.
Later, she corrected her answer and said: "Forget it, don't let me be free, the child is not free, the child's personality has been affected, I am not so strong, there is no guarantee that he will not be affected." ”
When we face this problem, usually the first reaction is "That must be good, if the child can earn millions a year, work for two years to close, two million may be my life's income", only a few parents will feel inappropriate.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="48" > the popularity of Zhang Junhao, so that many parents can see expectations</h1>
Zhang Junhao, who was born in 2010, is now 11 years old, and he can still imagine the little boy with two small dimples dancing when he closes his eyes.
At the peak, he was on "Happy Base Camp" at a young age and cooperated with many big bowl stars.
Zhang Junhao is a very ordinary child, born in an ordinary family, widely known for square dancing at the age of 3, and then has a lot of job opportunities.
An ordinary family, suddenly raised such a child, parents for a while also feel incredible.
Zhang Junhao was young, he ran northeast and west every day, ran work, was arranged every day, had no time to contact his peers, and he came into contact with adults.
When the host asked him "why do you like to dance", he replied that he "wanted to make everyone happy", which was obviously not a child's answer.
A child who knows how to please adults from an early age should not be congratulated on being well-behaved and sensible, but should be worried about the physical and mental health of the child.
Such a child is heart-wrenching.
Many parents see hope from Zhang Junhao, this era is really not impossible, even ordinary people, there are such opportunities to become famous. There are many people who want to make their children another "Zhang Junhao", and there are more and more small Internet celebrities.
It's just that they haven't had time to look at such a famous sequelae.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="59" > once spread all over the country, and now it has disappeared from the world, what is the current situation of Zhang Junhao? </h1>
Zhang Junhao is no longer the three- or four-year-old boy who pulls the stereo around to pick up business, and now he is 11 years old and has long been out of the public's sight.
Child stars will face a cruel reality: people like you at that age, but you will grow up day by day, and you will be forgotten day by day, only by learning to accept this reality and face it with a normal mentality will you have the same growth rhythm as normal people.
Zhang Junhao measures the stage of growth, because the people around him are adults, and he is prematurely stylized by his parents, so he can't get along with his peers at all, and he will feel that these children are too naïve.
Because he has been working since he was a child, it is difficult for him to have a pure heart like other children, and it is difficult to focus on learning.
There are no job opportunities, can not enjoy the joy of growing up like peers, can not focus on learning, Zhang Junhao has reached a most embarrassing stage.
He is now just a child star, he needs to grow up a little, but his growth will be particularly difficult and tormented, I hope he can adjust his mentality, can get along with himself and the people around him, and meet his own growth.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="66" > can not sacrifice the child's growth time for the sake of profit</h1>
Children should do what they want at what age, so that children are happy and enjoy the process of growth.
Although there are many troubles in the process of growing up, many children will look forward to growing up, but these troubles themselves are part of growth, so that when this kind of trouble fills the entire childhood, the child's physical and mental health will become a problem.
If the child contacts the society too early, leaves his environment too early, and enters the big dyeing vat, the child's troubles will be more and more, and it is difficult to enjoy the joy of growth.
Growth is a one-way car, once the child measures the opportunity to grow, it will have to bear the cost of loss, if the child can not adjust the mentality, the psychology will be affected, the personality will be prone to defects, the aura of the early years will become inferiority and pain in adulthood.
The methods and avenues of gain are diverse, but please bypass the child and do not let the child become a victim of the desires of adults.