Grassroots star Wang Erni once had the experience of complaining about the hardships of bringing a baby late at night.
At that time, she said this on social platforms: Since having a baby, she has to wake up many times a night, and after feeding, she can no longer sleep, and the mother seems to have no right to sleep completely.
That time, Wang Erni, who posted on social platforms complaining about the hardships of bringing a baby, also attracted a lot of attention.
At that time, many people saw Wang Erni's post like this,
Some people saw her post that resonated, and some people saw her post and felt that she was not doing well now.
Wang Erni, who was married in 2014, has been married for 8 years now.
After eight years of marriage, the Wang Erni who once complained late at night about the hardships of bringing a baby, is she okay?
01: The marriage of Wang Erni and Li Fei
In 2014, Wang Erni and Li Fei held a low-key and romantic marriage.
At their wedding scene, many celebrities were invited and some well-known celebrities officiated for them.
However, their marriage is particularly low-key, without extravagance and waste, nor deliberately let people hug them.
In the second year after marriage, if Wang Erni hadn't stood on the stage and said it, perhaps no one else would have known that she had entered the palace of marriage with that rural guy Li Fei.
Wang Erni and Li Fei's status is completely different, the two got married because the two people met more than ten years ago, and also because Li Fei is a good man, he is willing to give her warmth and care behind Wang Erni's back.
After marrying Li Fei, Wang Erni did not change her living habits, but could stand on the stage and sing more confidently.
After marrying Li Fei, she still chose to show her face outside, while her husband took care of the family behind her back.
Wang Erni cherishes her hard-won life, which is why after she gets married, she still treats her troubled husband without forgetting her original intention.
Although her husband's fame is not as high as her own, whether at home or outside, she will not look high, but a little woman behind her husband.
Wang Erni, who is good to her husband, is also very good to her mother-in-law who lives in the countryside.
As a star, Wang Erni has made her mother-in-law live a good life through her own ability,
In his spare time, he will also take his husband's hand back to his home in the countryside, grow vegetables with his mother-in-law, cook with his mother-in-law, and pull a homely routine with his mother-in-law.
In her mother-in-law's heart, Wang Erni is a very good daughter-in-law.
In the hearts of the neighbors, Wang Erni is a very good woman.
Because she returned to the countryside without any value or identity, she just used the daughter of a farmer to get along with the villagers around her.
Wang Erni gives her mother-in-law a long face, she is not only good to her mother-in-law, but also gives her mother-in-law a high-quality life.
When she returns to the countryside, she will go to the house with her mother-in-law to sing to the villagers,
Use your ability to repay and help the villagers.
In the eyes of the villagers, everyone does not think that Wang Erni is a star, and everyone thinks that she is like their own daughter.
Seeing this, some people may ask, since Wang Erni is so good, and the people around her are so good to her, why does she complain about the hardship of raising a baby late at night?
We all know that no couple in real life can do it without bumping and making small noises.
In real life, all couples will have some conflicts to a greater or lesser extent due to some problems in life.
Wang Erni and Li Fei are the same, although their identities are not simple, but they are also an ordinary couple when they return home.
In the face of some family chores, there will also be unpleasant times.
But overall, after 8 years of marriage, Wang Erni's relationship with her husband is still very good.
02: Children of hard-working families
In 1985, Wang Erni was born in a rural family in Yulin, Shaanxi Province.
Her father and mother are ordinary farmers, no one in the family has been a star, and no one has gone out of the big city to see the world.
Since she was a child, she has been with her father and mother, farming, raising chickens and ducks.
Due to their family's poverty, several members of their family lived in caves in the mountains.
For them, the cave is warm in winter and cool in summer, and it is a very comfortable mansion.
Although the family is poor, although her parents cannot give themselves a rich life, Wang Erni liked singing and dancing at a very young age.
In the process of singing and dancing, she found joy and brought joy to the people around her.
In fact, before her debut, she was able to sing the sound of heaven and make the people around her pleasing to the eye.
Because her family is poor, Wang Erni wants to go out of the countryside, wants to change her family, and also wants to change the countryside.
Wang Erni brought her own singing dream, the moment she walked out of her youth, what she always thought about was not herself and her family,
Her heart is filled with the poor villagers who grew up with her.
In order to be able to truly change herself and change her hometown, Wang Erni had to go out of the countryside and go to the city to study.
But the family is stretched, and it is really difficult to chase your dreams.
No matter how hard and tired, even if she couldn't even get food and clothing, Wang Erni still survived in the city.
No rural baby can reach the sky with one foot.
A rural girl like Wang Erni, you don't know how much suffering she has suffered behind her back, how much sadness she has endured to have today's glory.
At that time, Wang Erni was accumulated bit by bit, that is, she grew up in constant setbacks.
The real opportunity for Wang Erni to change the fate of her hometown was in 2001.
In 2001, she represented her hometown and went to Beijing to participate in a singing competition, and this time she won the first place.
Winning the first place in Beijing, Wang Erni has become the pride of her hometown.
But at that time, she was still not arrogant or impetuous, and still silently worked hard to study.
Because in her heart, she knows that these are not enough, and she has to work harder to truly change her hometown and help her hometown.
Finally, in 2007, Wang Erni really changed her hometown and the ability to help her hometown.
Because in 2007, she bravely defeated the stage that CCTV was very popular at that time, the stage of "Avenue of Stars".
03: Don't forget your roots after becoming famous
After standing on the stage of CCTV, this rural baby who came out of the countryside, she succeeded.
Wang Erni was in a joyful mood, she did not show off her achievements for the first time, she was grateful to those around her who had helped her, including Li Fei, who had been paying behind her back.
After becoming famous, Wang Erni's performances were constant, and many big stages also invited her to participate.
But no matter how busy her work is, there are three things that must be done behind her.
The first thing is to go back to the rural home, see your father and mother, and by the way, see your parents and fellow villagers who have always supported and encouraged you.
The second thing: use your own ability and drive the people around you to give back to the fathers and villagers in your hometown together.
During the New Year's Festival, Wang Erni will buy oil, salt, rice vinegar and give it to her father's fellow villagers, and at the same time, she will hold a concert for her father and fellow villagers for free in her hometown.
The third thing is to promote the beauty of my hometown.
In many of Wang Erni's lyrics, she wrote the beauty of her hometown,
The reason why she did this is to tell everyone through singing that her hometown is beautiful, the people are very simple, and it is a very livable and tourist place.
For more than ten years, through Wang Erni's publicity, many tourists have recognized her hometown,
There are also many tourists who go to her hometown to see the beauty of their hometown and appreciate the cultural customs of their hometown.
Wang Erni, who does not forget her roots after becoming famous, is often contributing to her hometown and society, of course, she is also contributing to her family.
For her own parents, she is fully capable of letting her parents move to the city to enjoy a luxurious life.
But because her parents like to live in the countryside, she did not deliberately let her parents move out of the countryside.
Now Wang Erni's parents and Wang Erni's relatives still live in rural Yulin.
But through Wang Erni's changes over the years, they no longer live a stretched life as before.
When she is tired from work, Wang Erni will often return to her home to accompany her parents in the countryside.
Now as a star, Wang Erni lives in a former rural home, and still feels very happy and satisfied.
For her husband Li Fei, Wang Erni did not put pressure on her husband because she was a star.
Now the two have been married for 8 years, and today after 8 years, the two are still very affectionate.
Although Wang Erni once complained about the hardships of raising children late at night, she never complained about her husband Li Fei behind her back.
After 8 years of marriage, Wang Erni is still very good and happy.
Now she and her husband Li Fei get along the same way as they did back then, one silently contributing in front of the stage, and the other silently paying for the family behind the scenes.
Finally, let us bless Wang Erni and her husband Li Fei, hoping that they can continue to love and hope that they can continue to be affectionate and long-lasting.