Some people say: "Halfway husband and wife are always thieves, and they don't communicate with each other." ”
And some people think: "No matter how long the road is accompanied, it will not feel bitter." Someone shares the tiredness, no matter how difficult it is, it doesn't hurt. ”
In 1998, Liu Zhibing proposed to Ru Ping, and the two walked into a second marriage hand in hand with their respective children.
Now that the two have been married for 24 years, they are still very affectionate, perfectly explaining to everyone what it means to be together, wind and rain, cold and warm.
However, it is such a happy two, why the first marriage will end in failure.
Looking at the emotional experience of the two, you can see that there is a reason why the two can come together.
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Liu Zhibing can be said to have become famous at a young age, born in an intellectual family, when he was a child, he often went to the border troops with his father to give sympathy performances.
Gradually, a seed of literature and art was planted in his young heart, and the seed began to thrive as he grew older.
In 1976, with the support of his parents, Liu Zhibing was successfully admitted to Heilongjiang Provincial Art School and began to receive systematic education.
Because Liu Zhibing's own conditions are very good, he was selected to play Aolei Sumuti in "Aolei Yilan" in the second year of entering the art school.
Although it is Liu Zhibing's first appearance, the difficulty of the role is not low, and the film requires him to transform from an ignorant teenager to a vigorous youth.
This is quite difficult for a 14-year-old child who has just received less than a year of education in the literary and art system.
Fortunately, the young Liu Zhibing has a strong learning ability, and he keeps the director's guidance in mind, acting while studying, and humbly asking for advice when encountering difficulties.
His serious and studious attitude was also praised by the director and the staff in the play.
The first appearance made Liu Zhibing see that being an actor is actually not as simple as imagined, but it also strengthened his determination to go further on this road.
In 1982, Liu Zhibing was transferred to Changchun Film Studio as a professional actor, which is also a very important point in his acting career.
While his career was stable, Liu Zhibing also gained his own love.
In the first few years when Liu Zhibing first entered the Changchun Film Studio, most of the time was in the learning stage and did not receive many scenes.
It was also at this time that a girl named Feng Liping appeared in his life.
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Feng Liping can be described as a talented beauty, with the titles of doctor and associate professor.
In the face of such a beautiful person, Liu Zhibing was soon attracted by Feng Liping's temperament, so he launched a fierce pursuit of her.
Treat her to dinner, take her home, chat with her, and occasionally create a little romance to send her a bouquet of flowers.
Facing this handsome and gentle and considerate big boy, Feng Liping's heart was gradually moved, and the two gradually developed from friends to couples.
The development of the two is very fast and in a hurry, and before they can get to know each other well, they have agreed to step into the palace of marriage together for life.
Although it is easy to fall in love, it is difficult to get married. Two people from different worlds come together and need more than just partnering to get by.
Like all people in love, after experiencing a vigorous love, I entered the palace of marriage, but after getting married, I found that it was far from the life I imagined.
Marriage is not like love, it is often more trivial and boring, less passionate and romantic.
In 1990, the two ushered in the crystallization of love and took the name Liu Sibo.
With the arrival of her children, Feng Liping began to shift her focus to the family, resigning to become a full-time wife, while Liu Zhibing was responsible for earning money to support the family.
In this way, it can be regarded as a clear division of labor, but the daily life of a housewife makes Feng Liping more and more boring, and gradually she begins to hate such a life.
It just so happened that Liu Zhibing's career also ushered in a small climax, and work things occupied a lot of his time, and sometimes he couldn't return home after filming for a long time.
Impatiently, Feng Liping found Liu Zhibing and told him that she didn't want to stay at home all day with her children, and she also wanted to go to work.
At first, Liu Zhibing still persuaded her that the child was still young, and hoped that she could feel at ease at home with her husband and son.
But as time passed, Feng Liping could no longer bear it, and the two also began to quarrel over some small things in life, both sides were stubborn, and no one let anyone.
The long-term quarrel constantly wears down the two, and the relationship between the two becomes weaker and weaker.
Finally, despite Liu Zhibing's opposition, Feng Liping insisted on leaving the children in the care of the elderly at home, and went out to work herself.
And this also became the fuse for the divorce of the two, when Liu Zhibing returned home from work, he only saw the crying child but did not see his wife.
All this made Liu Zhibing no longer able to hold back the anger in his heart and filed for divorce from Feng Liping.
It can't be said whose fault it is for this marriage, but both of them are not ready for married life, and they are carried away by love.
The trivialities of married life make the relationship that has not experienced too much running-in fragile, and divorce is also a predestined result.
The failure of this marriage hit Liu Zhibing deeply, and Liu Zhibing had no shortage of suitors in the following time, but every time he thought of living with his ex-wife, he withdrew again.
He began to fear married life, perhaps because of his children, or because he was not prepared until another person with a similar experience to him, Ru Ping, appeared.
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All encounters in the world are reunions after a long absence.
Ru Ping's first husband Xi Tianying is not a person in the entertainment industry, but he is a very talented person, and Ru Ping is also deeply attracted by his talent, and married Xi Tianying early.
In the second year after marriage, Ru Ping gave birth to a daughter Xi Tianying Xi Wang.
However, the life after marriage is completely different from Ru Ping's imagination, Xi Tianying's career is very busy, and he does not have much time to accompany Ru Ping.
The different lives of the two did not integrate because of marriage, on the contrary, the two lacked common topics after marriage, and gradually the relationship between the two became real and dead.
Without emotional support, divorce is only a matter of time, and finally the marriage between the two has come to an end.
In 1995, when Liu Zhibing starred in the movie "Armed Forces Behind Enemy Lines", he met Ru Ping from the same crew.
The first acquaintance only made the two have a good feeling, but did not rub the spark of love, it may be that both of them experienced a failed marriage, which made each other discouraged.
Until two years later, the two co-starred again in the TV series "All the Way to the Scenery and One Life Love", this time the two played the role of a couple with twists and turns.
The same people who have fallen to the end of the world, why should they know each other when they meet.
While discussing the script, the two also talked about their previous lives, and the two with similar experiences also had a lot more topics.
What progresses is not only the filming progress of the TV series, but also the feelings of the two for each other.
Two souls that have nowhere to rest have gradually come together with the growth of time.
In 1998, the two regained confidence in marriage, took their respective children, and once again stepped into the palace of marriage hand in hand.
Because they both have had a failed marriage, both of them know how to better deal with the trivial things they encounter in life after marriage.
Treat each other's children as if they were their own, and work together to make the family of four happy.
The essence of marriage is like planting trees, which require constant irrigation, fertilizer, pruning and leaf cutting, and killing insects in order to have lasting greenery.
A family needs to understand each other and run together.
The life of the two after marriage is very sweet, which is inseparable from each other's tolerance, and they do not forget to take care of each other while busy with their careers.
Liu Zhibing gave Ru Ping a preference, and when he had time, he would take Ru Ping to go shopping and travel, and he would have a proper sense of ritual in his daily life, occasionally creating a little romance and small surprises.
The affairs of the family are left to Ru Ping. And Ru Ping also responded to Liu Zhibing with her own practical actions, she is the master of small things, and the real big things are handed over to Liu Zhibing of the head of the family.
Now 24 years have passed, the two are a "model couple" in the entertainment industry, whether in the play or outside the play, showing everyone that even if they are a "halfway couple", they can still live happily and sweetly.
A person's life is destined to meet two people, one amazing time, the other gentle years.