Recently watched a Korean variety "Single is Hell" (background introduction: handsome men and beautiful women are trapped on "Hell Island", and there is only one way to escape: become a couple with someone every night. Those who are successfully matched can move to "Paradise Island" that night to enjoy high-quality food and accommodation, while those who do not find a companion have to rely on themselves in "Hell Island" at night), although for a person who has not been in love for a long time and has no love needs, the topic of love has gradually become distant, but when watching this show, it also ignited my happiness, however, it still has nothing to do with love, it is I who see the inner changes of the human species and the emotional transmission and struggle between each other, which makes me feel really interesting.
There is a pair in the reality show that interests me very much, Fang Shixun and Shen Zhiyan, a man who has the opportunity to go to Paradise Island three times and has voted for Zhiyan, a consistent man; On the one hand, there are "weak women" who are not interested in them and have not shown favor to them in the first and middle periods.
In fact, my biggest feeling in the early stage is that one is whether other people's words are really useful, and the other is that the same way of processing will get different results.
Everyone is results-oriented, especially the advice given to you by someone other than your own parents, is it really well thought out? Is it really right for you? In fact, often not, everyone is likely to just take care of your emotions, most of the suggestions made are either selfish or boiling, may not be of much use to you to get through the difficulties.
After that, many things you can't predict, some people are firm, in exchange for firm results; Some people's firmness becomes narrow-minded, and they all take the same approach, but get very different results.
I feel that many times, failure is failure, success is success, why say it is narrow, not enlightened, etc., it seems to use other angles to cover up failure, but in fact, it is just layer by layer on the person who failed.
From my point of view, let me analyze the situation of Sehun and Zhiyan in the later stage, Zhiyan spent one night each on Paradise Island in the early stage and Shixun and Zhenze, in fact, I can feel the sense of lover's atmosphere, and Zhiyan is active and willing. 、
And before going to the third paradise island, Shi Xun was fascinated by Zhiya, and Zhiyan knew that she did not sing; After that, turning to Zhenze, the night they spent, I remember Zhenze mentioned his chat with Zhiyan, Zhiyan wore a red dress, Zhenze said it was very good-looking, Zhiyan said it was for you, and after going back, Zhiyan then changed into a red and more colorful skirt, which was done deliberately, and then in many shots, Zhiyan walked with Zhenze.
However, Zhenze has an invisible scumbag crisis at this time, especially Suyan asked Zhenze to go out to chat, it is very clear that you are not playing with feelings, at this time Zhenze has a moral crisis, and others are also talking about it in private.
At that time, in the chat between Zhiyan and Yiyuan, she said whether she was like a junior now, and Zhiyan said that she wanted to take the initiative.
However, in the third Paradise Island competition, Sehun was second and Zhenze was third, which doomed Zhenze not to have the opportunity to continue unfolding, and the opportunity given to Zhenze was to choose Suyeon, the person who went to Paradise Island for the first time.
This gives Sehoon a good time, but does it work?
In fact, it seems useless to me, Zhiyan did not give Sehun a chance from the beginning, when chatting, talking about career, as soon as it was said that Shixun opened a restaurant, he immediately said that I would go to dinner with friends later, implying that we would not have results, and the most we had between us was a friendship. If I have a good feeling, I am in Zhiyan's point of view, I will definitely not say this, I will most likely be polite, saying "Oh, that's good, it must be very good to be with you", "Can I go to help" and so on.
Moreover, there is a huge disparity in family circumstances between them, one is a neurological graduate student at the University of Toronto, the family situation must be superior, especially the dress on the last day, the other is a store manager who does not know his education and works hard every day, here is not to satirize working people, but I think the reality is so cruel, if it were not for this show, they would not stand together and say love, they are at most the relationship between serving and being served, which is itself destined.
Even when I arrived at Paradise Island, Sehun himself said that he had come for himself and resolved the misunderstanding between the two parties, and I did not see anything like a lover or a trend in that direction.
The fourth time, it is also very dramatic, the first is Kim so-min, the second is Ji-yan, the third is So-yeon, the key factor is so-min, if she chooses Se-hoon, Zhiyan can give it a fight and choose Zhenze, but so-min did not, chose Shixun, and So-yeon also slept with Zhenze the night before, under the double pressure, she was actually embarrassed, and from the time she made the final choice, she was also hesitant, I guess she was just thinking about whether to rush Zhenze, but in the end it didn't, this is her choice.
The fourth time they went to Paradise Island, they had dinner, and Sehoon asked: "You play the game desperately, did you decide to choose me right away, or did you worry about it first, and then choose me"
Although Shen Yan said on the mouth: "I opened the atrium, did not hesitate for long", but I saw in the camera that Shen Yan has been rubbing his thighs, this signal is very bad (I have understood some behavioral psychology before), this action represents that the party is very nervous, I will tell me, the reason for the possible nervousness, told a lie; Facing discomfort, discomfort; Feeling stressed.
Later, someone may mention that Shin Zhiyan was moved to tears because of Sehun's words, and I also wanted to talk, and Sehun said: "You must be very tormented." "Then, Zhiyan was moved to cry, I want to talk about why Zhiyan cried, because she was really moved, because her feelings for Zhenze, it was indeed very torturous for herself during that time, but does this have anything to do with Zhiyan liking Shixun, this is more like between friends, you can actually feel my pain points, I am really moved, after that, it is a sentence, you are really my good friend, I don't feel the taste of love, more like a comfort.
In fact, I think Shen Yan is also like being grilled on a fire at this time, everyone around you thinks that you should be with Sehun, and the audience of the show is also expecting them to become a pair of CPs, but I can see that Shen Yan really doesn't like Sehun.
Moreover, think about it will not have any future, the two people directly basically have no intersection other than this show, and Shen Yan has to return to Canada to go to school after filming the show, the family situation, the direction they choose, and their cognition are very different, how to result, the fact is so, there is not a lot of contact after the show, that is, the relationship of friends.
Although after reading it, I still don't want to talk about a relationship of my own, but I am really obsessed with the ups and downs of feelings between people, even more interesting than writing a few pieces of code to understand this physical world, the reason why people are interesting, I think is because of that sensibility, such repetition, unpredictable, and intriguing、、、
I think that love is probably pure, it should not be wrapped up, but most people will be wrapped up, however, wrapping will also make us a little restrained, a little jealous, let us be reckless about the relationship between the two, love is a very grand proposition, I need my life to slowly understand、、、