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When Weibo hot search is still fiercely discussing how good the sibling love of domestic dramas is, there are new Taiwan dramas on the Wanwan side that hit the face fiercely.
That's right, it is "She and Her She" starring Xu Weining, Jia Jingwen, Wu Kangren and Li Chengbin.
Listening to the title of the play, you can tell that this is a drama about women.
Perhaps many people feel that the plot has bugs and is broken, and the victim is stupid for stupidity, and does not know how to refuse or resist:
"Speechless, can you pull a little more, don't call the police if you are harassed?"
"Everyone's approach is like a sky crash, completely unreasonable, stupid and funny"
But there are also many people who feel that this is a very typical female trauma:
"Female trauma to scalp numbness"
"This is the drama version of "Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise"
"This drama is a fear that only women can really experience"
"The Taiwan drama has gone from "The Distance Between Us and Evil", "Want to See You", and "The Cultivation of Vulgar Women" to this "She and Her She"; Why are we still filming so many romantic dramas that are out of touch with the actual glamorousness? ”
Overall, although the plot is not perfect, the cicada lord feels that its expression is in place.
The story extends from a suspenseful murder to explore the thought-provoking social issue of how women can regain their lives after experiencing trauma and assault.
Rather than the suspense part of the plot, Cicada Lord wants to explore the latter: female trauma PTSD.
"You were violated, why didn't you resist?"
The heroine Lin Chenxi (played by Xu Weining) is a very well-known headhunting consultant in the workplace.
But because of a car accident, Lin Chenxi woke up as if he had come to another time and space, and the world had completely changed.
In this fictional world, she lives happily with her mother, her long-deceased father and brother.
In fact, she was sexually assaulted by chemistry teacher Xie Zhizhong (played by Chen Yiwen) in high school, thus falling into endless trauma.
Although Xie Zhizhong and his wife are known as a model couple, they have never had children.
Therefore, Xie Zhizhong declared that he treated these female students like his own daughter:
"The teacher has no children, and treats you as his own daughter."
Xie Zhizhong looks good-looking, but in fact he is more hateful than the bad guys.
His heart had already become lustful, and with the reason of tutoring, he began to violate Lin Chenxi.
The master mother (played by Yu Ziyu) obviously witnessed everything, and also knew that Xie Zhizhong was violating the female student, but chose to protect her.
And said that he was the victim, a group of young girls who were seducing their husbands and ruining their marriages.
"I believe my husband is innocent, and without evidence, we are innocent."
The reason that makes Xie Zhizhong most confident to violate students is that he is a model teacher and a role model.
As he said to Lin Chenxi: "No one will believe it." ”
In fact, when Lin Chenxi's parents learned about the sexual assault, she did not receive relevant comfort.
Instead, her father questioned her:
"How is that possible? Are you lying? Aren't you resisting then? Didn't you say you don't want it? Didn't you push him away? Is there something wrong with you? ”
How could they think that a saint teacher who helped her daughter so much academically and won the Good Teacher Award could do something sexually assaulted?
However, no victim could withstand such rebuttals and doubts, and Lin Chenxi's world began to fall apart.
What's even more hateful is that when the same female master mother faced the questioning of Lin Chenxi's parents, she still chose to be an accomplice, hoping to calm the people.
"Things are big, how will your daughter behave in the future"
"This should not be allowed to be an obstacle to her future"
In the end, Lin Chenxi's parents did not swear to the death, chose to reconcile, and gave up thanking Zhizhong.
No one believes, no one gives support, these are tantamount to secondary injuries to Lin Chenxi, and they are also Fang Siqi-style tragedies.
In the real world, Lin Chenxi is one of the top ten financial women of the year and a perfect successful woman in the eyes of others, which means that she has done her best to bring herself back on the right track in life.
But despite their efforts, the victim could not forget everything, and even suffered from severe dissociation disorder because of excessive mental trauma.
You may also ask, the victim was sexually assaulted, so why not resist and not refuse?
Watching the fire from the other side, anyone can say what hindsight says, but not all victims have the ability to resist immediately, whether psychologically or strongly.
70% of the victims will be stiff in the moment, because they want to stay alive and have no way to resist.
"Women strangled by social chastity by their necks"
In addition to the "Saint" teacher sexually assaulting female students, the short nine episodes deal with more about the pain and plight of women in this misogynistic society.
As a short comment on Douban said: Women are strangled by social chastity.
It has to be admitted that although the situation of women has improved compared with the past, there is still a huge malice in this society towards women, and the malice comes not only from men, but also from women who are constantly disciplined, and women's pain is even used as a joke in conversation.
For example, the company trampled on the dignity of women and used female employees to drink and eat with customers to earn performance for the company.
As soon as there is entertainment, I will ask if there are any grassroots female employees who are willing to accompany wine to dinner, treat employees as dinner girls, and use women as tools to make money.
Even if it is a sex life video, which is filmed by the man and uploaded to the group to share with the brothers, there seems to be no room for resistance.
"She" will only be humiliated: put on her clothes and become a saint?
In the end, it was women who were talked about, beaten up, and lost everything.
In the workplace, gender discrimination can be described as more obvious and stereotypical.
The most common sin that women are called original sin in the workplace is nothing more than being single, getting married, and having children.
A single woman is beautiful is trouble, marriage is irresponsible, pregnancy is a thief of salary.
When it comes to sexual harassment in the workplace, it's easier to reverse right and wrong.
Lin Chenxi's new male colleague Du Junru (played by Wu Kangren) has wanted to possess Lin Chenxi since the first day, but Lin Chenxi has always refused.
It is clear that Du Junru is the harasser in the workplace, but he blurted out dirty water, saying that Lin Chenxi had a crush on and pestered him.
From the reaction of colleagues in the company, it can be seen that although they themselves are women, they still choose to believe Du Junru and cast a scrutinizing gaze to Lin Chenxi, which also confirms once again: no one will believe it.
In fact, Du Junru not only humiliated Lin Chenxi behind his back, but also tried to sexually assault her.
Everything is also because Lin Chenxi's ability in the workplace is stronger than his own, Du Junru's inferiority complex is at work, and men's self-esteem is frustrated.
Because of his long-term inferiority, Du Junru often abused and controlled his wife at home.
With gossip, everyone will have a more serious prejudice against women and judge each other with female chastity.
Du Junru attempted sexual assault, and the company's leaders, like Xie Zhizhong and his wife many years ago, wanted to put things to rest for their own interests.
If it weren't for Du Junru's habit of shooting, perhaps Lin Chenxi would still be as unbelieved as he was then, and then the sexual assaulter would still live a dashing life, and so on.
Women are disciplined and prejudiced in society, no matter what environment they are in, and women have always been imprisoned and full of shackles.
Injustices happen every day, but they persist because we don't talk about them enough.
Domestic entertainment's domestic dramas are always shaping the invincible workplace heroine, which is essentially filming industrial saccharine romance films.
The social issues or women's plight of the story always stop there.
Why is there so little mention of the structural contradictions of patriarchy in our work? Always ignoring sexual assault, domestic violence, gender discrimination? Even "menstruation" is muffled.
Countless Xie Zhizhong, countless Li Guohua,
How do women survive?
Most of every tragedy about women in society is based on the belief that women are weak.
But after the tragedy, they blame women for not resisting.
It's very sad that even if it is a TV series, there are many hot comments accusing "Lin Chenxi".
Small to big, the essence is the same.
Gender vulnerability and gender oppression persist, and these phenomena are cruel.
The victim has to spend his life repairing his broken soul and is constantly pulled by the darkness of the past, but the perpetrator can always spend his life in peace under the attitude of "resting things and calming people".
The way "She and Her She" is presented may indeed not be perfect or even a little unreasonable, so many people are entangled in Lin Chenxi's dissociation of the world.
Lin Chenxi has severe psychological trauma and therefore suffers from dissociative disorder.
Therefore, the world she imagines after dissociation is not in line with daily life, and we cannot interpret it with "normal" logic, in the dissociated world, she can protect herself and resolve her own existential crisis.
When Lin Chenxi is severely dissociated, he will lose his sense of reality, and he will be almost compulsively and uncontrollably, and he keeps thinking about the traumatic thing that made him feel traumatized.
Although Lin Chenxi learned to refuse and fight back during her growth, the social environment still left her in a state of suffocation.
"Since being sexually assaulted in my senior year of high school, the most painful thing is dissociation"
"I use my willpower to get myself back on track every day, but my soul is falling apart all the time"
"I gradually understood that some fragments of my soul were left at the trauma site, I had been trapped there, my life was stuck, and I couldn't go anywhere"
When watching this drama, I always think of Lin Yihan.
In "Lin Yihan's Wedding Speech", she once wrote that her body will be dissociated after great trauma, and the spirit and flesh are opposed, and only when the soul leaves the body can she live.
And this disease also deprived Lin Yihan of everything he was proud of.
"The first time I was dissociated was when I was nineteen, and I will always remember standing on the road not far from my residence as if I woke up suddenly, it was raining heavily, and I felt as if I had been woken up by the heavy rain."
"For me, the experience of dissociation is a more painful experience than eating 100 pina and then being pushed to the intensive care unit to wash the stomach."
Yes, countless Xie Zhizhong and countless Li Guohua in the world, even if they build a high wall with women's blood, they may not be able to completely resist.
There are still many "Lin Chenxi" and "Fang Siqi" in this world, and they are always humiliated and questioned again:
"Didn't you resist?"
"Didn't you say no?"
"Didn't you push him away?"
"Is there something wrong with you?"
Lin Chenxi's final ending is to reconcile with his mother, reconcile with his dead father and brother in his own dissociated world, reconcile with his friends and lovers, reconcile with everything, and get out of trouble. She wrote: "I am also loved, loved by the whole world, loved by the daylight, loved by the waves that come in layers. ”
The hateful thing is that not everyone in this world can go from dark memories to light, and a bowl of chicken soup cannot write off trauma and darkness.