On February 28, 2022, in a hospital in Switzerland, Chen Liangsheng, a famous Chinese conductor and composer, was dying, he took his wife Szczyngova's hand, and said weakly and slowly: "After I leave, you must be strong and not sad." ”
Szczyngova looked at her husband in the hospital bed, tears could not stop flowing down her cheeks, she choked up and said: "You will be fine, don't say such things." ”
Chen Liangsheng shook his head and slowly closed his eyes, Chen Liangsheng's daughter Chen Lida hurriedly ran out to find a doctor, and the doctor looked at Chen Liangsheng and said to Siqingova and Chen Lida: "Festival." ”
Szczyngova cried bitterly, and Chen Lida also burst into tears. Chen Liangsheng left this world, leaving his wife Szczyngova with her day and night, and from then on she could only meet him in memory.
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Siqingova was born in 1950 in a small county town in Chifeng, Inner Mongolia, because her father died when she was very young.
Szczynkova's mother pulled several children alone, which was really difficult, so Szczyngova and her younger brothers were sent to her grandparents' house, and Szczynkova, as the eldest sister, had to take care of her younger brother from now on, as well as her elderly grandmother and grandfather.
In her grandmother's house, Szczyngova had done all kinds of work, and every day before dawn she had to go out to fetch water far away, and when she returned home, she was even more busy like a top, and there was no idle effort.
The hard days did not wear down Szczynkova's enthusiasm for life, because her grandparents liked to dance and sing, and when they were in a good mood, they would sing and dance, and Szczyngova also learned to dance and sing, especially she was very obsessed with dancing.
Szczyngova often participated in performances in school when she was in middle school, and she was famous throughout the county for her beautiful dancing.
In 1965, the Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe hired Siqingova, and since then Siqingova has had an iron rice bowl.
In the song and dance troupe, Siqingova's dance also fascinated a man, this man is the director of the Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe, Sun Tianxiang, who is 9 years older than Siqingova.
Under the pursuit of Sun Tianxiang, 18-year-old Siqingova entered marriage ignorantly, and soon gave birth to a daughter and a son after marriage.
Sun Tianxiang lost his father before he was born, he was a widow, and his mother had been obedient to him since he was a child, so he developed the bad problem of stretching his hands and eating to open his mouth.
After getting married, Sun Tianxiang thought that women should naturally serve him, and once Siqingova did not serve well, Sun Tianxiang would add up his fists and feet, and also speak evilly.
Szczyngova had to go to work, take care of children, and serve Sun Tianxiang, and soon the marriage without much emotional foundation lit up a red light, and in 1976, Szczyngova and Sun Tianxiang parted ways.
Siqingova left Sun Tianxiang with her daughter Sun Dan, and the mother and daughter depended on each other, after that, Siqingova took her daughter while filming, and met Ao Xingchen while filming.
Ao Xingchen is a choreographer, he passionately pursues Siqingova, Siqingova forgot the pain of the first relationship, and quickly married Ao Xingchen.
Shortly after marriage, in 1978, Szczyngova became famous for her excellent interpretation of the heroine Yuzhen in "Return Like an Arrow".
In order to shoot this movie, Szczyngova removed the four-month-old fetus, and Ao Xingchen was very dissatisfied, but dissatisfaction in front of Szczyngova who had an idea did not have any effect. After "Return Like an Arrow", the husband and wife were transferred to Beijing Bayi Factory together.
In 1982, Siqingova met the tiger girl in "Camel Xiangzi", Siqingova must star, Ao Xingchen opposed her to star, but the opposition was invalid, Siqingova insisted, and finally won the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award with Tiger Niu.
Ao Xingchen and Siqingova's careers are one immortal and one is thriving, Ao Xingchen's psychology began to be unbalanced, he hopes to have a wife who cares for the family, not a big star, the two quarrel constantly, and the marriage soon came to an end.
The failure of Szczynkova's two marriages dealt her a big blow, and she one-sidedly believed that all men under the sky were the same.
Women are too strong for men to accept, so she decided that in the days to come, as long as she has her favorite acting, marriage will not dare to touch again.
However, at this moment, her true son appeared in front of her after she had suffered so much, as if the failure of the previous two marriages was for the sake of the happiness of this marriage, in order to set off the beauty of this marriage.
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A gray-haired man stood in front of a wall calendar and stared at the picture of Szczyngova for a long time, and the aunt sweeping the floor next to him said: "She is so ugly." The man said, "Very tasteful." The aunt said: "She has a big temper and is not easy to get along with. The man said, "So what? The aunt said: "I heard that she has been divorced twice. The man said, "What about a hundred divorces?" ”
This man is Chen Liangsheng, she was attracted to her at first sight of Siqingova's photos, especially after hearing that she had been divorced twice, Chen Liangsheng paid more attention to Siqingova.
Chen Liangsheng is a famous Chinese musician with a high status in the music industry, he also had a failed marriage and had a daughter, who was an adult at the time.
After returning to China, Chen Liangsheng hopes to find a partner who knows and accompanies him, and falls in love with Siqingova at first sight.
Siqingova and Chen Liangsheng are both friends of director Ling Zifeng, and Chen Liangsheng later met Siqingova through Ling Zifeng's matchmaking, and launched a passionate pursuit.
Szczynkova's heart lake was already a backwater, and at first she was not willing to talk about marriage at all, nor did she accept Chen Liangsheng's pursuit.
She said to Chen Liangsheng: "I have two children, divorced twice, and still half disabled. "Because Szczyngova fell from a horse three times while filming, leaving her left leg with a permanent injury.
However, Siqingova's words did not make Chen Liang's reputation daunting, but Chen Liangsheng thought that Siqingova had high moral character and was responsible for people, so he said that.
Later, Chen Liangsheng always intimately and meticulously calmed Siqingova's dry heart, the spring breeze and drizzle, and the moisturizing things were silent.
Siqingova slowly felt that Chen Liangsheng was really good, not only elegant and calm, but also meticulous and caring, making people feel like a spring breeze.
Slowly, Siqingova will be stunned if she doesn't get news of Chen Liangsheng for a day, Siqingova can't sleep for a long time after a day of filming, and she suddenly feels that it will be very good to have a man like Chen Liangsheng by her side.
Szczyngova accepted Chen Liangsheng, the two married in 1986, after marriage, the two went to settle in Switzerland, Chen Liangsheng planted apple trees in the Swiss yard, when the wind blew, the shadow of the apple tree swayed on the window, Szczyngova felt that the years were quiet and life was leisurely.
But after a long time, Szczyngova began to miss the life she liked to film, but she was afraid that Chen Liangsheng would not agree to continue filming, so she would be stunned whenever she saw movies and television dramas on TV.
Chen Liangsheng saw his wife's heart and encouraged Szczyngova to live according to her own wishes, and he would support her.
In 1989, Szczyngova began to resume filming, and after that, Szczyngova had many works, and Chen Liangsheng always followed in the footsteps of Szczynkova.
Wherever she filmed, he followed him, and the two were like a couple who had just fallen in love, cherishing every minute and second together.
Many of Szczyngova's roles that are remembered by the audience were filmed after her marriage: "The Gate of the Mansion", "Kangxi Dynasty", "Blue and White", "Wordless Sadness" and so on.
In 2006, Siqingova directed and acted in "Crescent Moon", Chen Liangsheng became a supernumerary, and once needed to use some ambient sound in order to express the actor's helpless mood of back pain.
The usual practice is to use lightning to increase the environment, but this time Szczyngova wanted to do it differently.
But after thinking of many ways to be very satisfied, Chen Liangsheng later proposed that the sound of the flute and the wooden fish could be used as background music to bake out the inner world of the characters. Chen Liangsheng's suggestion made everyone's eyes bright, and the effect was surprisingly good after trying.
Chen Liangsheng is not only a companion in Siqingova's life, but also many of Chen Liangsheng's insights have also played a role in promoting Siqingova's career, Chen Liangsheng's vision and pattern are inexhaustible wealth of Siqingova.
Later, Chen Liangsheng got older and older, and people would have such and such problems when they were older.
One day Szczyngova suddenly found that her husband Chen Liangsheng was full of white hair and faltering, Szczyngova recalled that Chen Liangsheng had followed her footsteps all the way to filming over the years, and Szczyngova's eyes were moist.
Siqingova decided not to film in the future for the sake of her husband, but Chen Liangsheng did not want to be a drag on her and suggested that she reduce filming.
It's good to shoot one a year, so it's not too busy and not too boring.
Since 2014, Siqingova has followed Chen Liangsheng's advice to only receive one play a year, and after filming, she immediately went home non-stop to accompany her husband Chen Liangsheng.
The two people usually paint, write, do housework, make food, walk together, and live a comfortable and comfortable life in their later years, leisurely, indifferent and detached, picturesque.
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Happy days always pass suddenly, in 2020, Szczyngova actually received a cancer diagnosis from the doctor to Chen Liangsheng, not long after a good life, why did you suffer from cancer?
Szczyngova was once unacceptable, always secretly crying, she felt that the good life had just begun, how unfair fate was to her!
Siqingova and Chen Liangsheng have since begun the road to fight cancer, in the fall of 2021, Chen Liangsheng's cancer worsened, in half a month, Chen Liangsheng's weight plummeted by more than ten pounds, looking at her skinny husband, Siqingova was forced to laugh.
Szczyngova realized the preciousness of time at this time, and she began to cherish every opportunity to be with her husband, do her best to take care of him, comfort him, and hope that her love can move the god of death, so that her husband can spend more time with him in this world.
But the wish is beautiful, but the reality is extremely skinny, the footsteps of death are approaching step by step, on February 28, 2022, Chen Liangsheng took Szczynkova's hand in a Swiss hospital and closed his eyes safely.
His last words to Szczynkova: "After I leave, you must be strong and not sad." ”
But how could Szczyngova not be sad, after the torment of two failed marriages, she was already dead to love.
It was Chen Liangsheng who made her feel the beauty of love again, knew that there were such beautiful feelings in this world, and believed in love again, but the good days passed suddenly, and before Szczyngova had enough, he left.
After Chen Liangsheng's funeral, Szczyngova rejected her children's offer to return to China, living alone in her home in Switzerland, and when the weather was nice, she would sit alone in the yard, looking at the apple trees in the yard, and recalling the bits and pieces with her husband, as if he was still by her side.
The reason I'm still here is because I'm afraid you won't be able to find me when you come back.
The reason why I am still here is because I want to meet you in memory.
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