On February 28, 2022, actor Szczyngova's husband and artist Chen Liangsheng died of illness in Switzerland.
His death undoubtedly pushed Szczyngova into the abyss.
The two are a halfway couple.
Since then, Szczyngova has had two failed marriages, each of which has scarred her and even stopped hoping for love.
But Chen Liangsheng spent 36 years to heal the scars in his wife's heart with love and tenderness.
After Chen Liangsheng died, Szczyngova spoke in tears: "The person who loved me the most went to heaven. ”
Although the words are short, the sentences are full of sadness, which reminds people of her bumpy life.
Siqingova was born in Inner Mongolia, her parents were both soldiers, and her father was an old Red Army soldier who had experienced a hundred battles.
Both my grandmother and grandfather worked in art, and my grandmother was a well-known dancer.
The scarred body is a record of the father's honor and brings him unbearable pain.
I don't know when it began, that handsome and dashing face has disappeared from its former appearance, and his face is pale and weak.
The sound of coughing in the middle of the night often woke Szczynkova, and whenever she looked at her father, she always responded with warm eyes.
Because her mother took care of her ailing father, she had no time to take care of her and her younger brothers, and they were put into her grandmother's house from an early age.
Grandma's family lived comfortably and comfortably, and her mother often came to visit them with pastries, but her father was nowhere to be seen.
She often asked her grandmother when she would see her father, but she delayed repeatedly.
One day she saw her haggard mother come to her grandmother's house and say she wanted to take the children back.
Szczyngova rushed out the door excitedly, not wanting to delay for a moment.
But when she returned home full of joy, she only saw pictures of her father when he was young hanging on the wall.
Tears were already rolling in her eyes, recalling her father's tender eyes again.
She seemed to understand something, and stopped mentioning everything about her father after that.
Time gradually diluted her impression of her father, but whenever she saw other fathers holding their daughter, she still felt lonely in her heart.
With the death of her father, her mother had to take on the responsibility of providing for the family, while Szczyngova and her younger brother were sent to her grandmother's house again.
She learned to dance and sing from her grandmother when she was a child, and she also grew up dancing in dance.
In 1963, 13-year-old Szczyngova became famous in the small county town for dancing the "Bowl Dance".
This also opened the way for her later artistic career.
She jumped all the way from a small stage to a big stage facing the whole country.
In a national ethnic minority cultural performance competition, her light and flexible dance completely conquered the hearts of the judges.
After the competition, many units threw olive branches to her, and the Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe took the lead.
In 1965, at the age of 15, she entered the Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe.
Having an "iron rice bowl" at a young age made countless people feel envious.
Szczyngova herself is sincerely happy that she can earn money to help her mother share this matter.
She not only rehearsed large and small plays in the troupe, but also served as a newsreader.
Not only did she not feel any fatigue in many positions, but she also became more energetic the more she worked.
She wants to climb up step by step, to make more money.
She could have had a better future, but accidentally fell into the "trap of love".
In 1968, 18-year-old Szczyngova met Sun Tianxiang during the troupe's cultural performance.
Sun Tianxiang is a director at a Inner Mongolia studio, a full 9 years older than Siqingova.
He also came from a military family, but unfortunately, his father died on the battlefield before he was born.
Therefore, he became a "widow".
Sun Tianxiang and his mother depended on each other, which reminded Szczyngova of her childhood.
Similar experiences make the two people deeply empathetic.
Sun Tianxiang has a burly figure, thick eyebrows and square face, dressed in a Zhongshan suit, and often rides his sophomore and eighth through the streets to take pictures.
When he works seriously, he has a temperament that is not angry and powerful, exuding the charm of a mature man.
With a mature and stable appearance, he attracted Szczyngova, who was not deeply involved in the world.
After the two confirmed their relationship, they entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
There was no big banquet or a generous dowry, but at that time, Szczyngova thought that she had enough to drink water.
As long as two people love each other, even if it is a little harder, why not?
The ideal is very full, and the reality is very skinny.
The married life was not as beautiful as Szczyngova's fantasies, but became her nightmare.
After marriage, they gave birth to their daughter Sun Dan and son Sun Tie.
While taking care of her children, she also has to juggle the work of the club, which makes her often feel distracted.
She wanted to seek her husband's comfort, but she did not expect that the other party did not feel the slightest distress for her.
Sun Tianxiang is influenced by his native family and has a sensitive and suspicious personality.
He began to persuade his wife to leave her job at home and rest assured of her husband and son, which he considered to be a woman's "mission."
But how willing to leave the society, she refused her husband's request in every way.
Sun Tianxiang thought that Szczyngova was against him if she did not leave, and the anger in her heart grew.
He began to beat and scold Szczynkova, even in front of the children.
Szczyngova wanted to endure it, but her forbearance was exchanged for the other party's intensification.
The bruises on her body made her feel pain when she practiced dance, and she realized that forbearance was not the solution.
In 1976, 26-year-old Szczyngova filed for divorce.
The 4-year-old son Sun Tie is raised by his father Sun Tianxiang, and the 8-year-old daughter is raised by his mother Siqingova.
Szczynkova's first marriage came to an end.
She does not regret the divorce, but Sun Tianxiang often does not let her and her son meet, which makes her feel pain in her heart.
But life still has to go on, she wants to change the environment and start over, so she took her daughter to Beijing to develop.
She no longer unilaterally pursues dance, but focuses on filming.
The lively and free Inner Mongolian girl really eats everywhere she goes.
Filming made her feel the colorful world and also guided her to a new world.
Szczyngova has no acting skills, and can only imitate various characters every day, shuttling through the streets to hone her acting skills.
It was in the process that she met her second husband, Ao Xingchen.
Ao Xingchen is a choreographer, with a strong body but elegant demeanor.
It has the robustness of a northern man and is full of southern gentleness.
This made the 27-year-old Szczyngova fall in love again and chose flash marriage without hesitation.
After marriage, with the encouragement of her husband, she began to focus on her career.
In 1978, Bayi Film Studio cast the new drama "Return Like an Arrow".
The outgoing Siqingova was selected by the director and won the role of the heroine "Yuzhen".
She was flattered and hurriedly took the script and took on the hard-won opportunity.
But she was more than 4 months pregnant at the time, and in order to film, Szczyngova endured the pain and beat the child.
Ao Xingchen did not blame his wife after knowing it, but he did not taste in his heart.
He wanted to blame his wife for making decisions without permission, but because he loved too deeply, he was reluctant to scold.
This matter has passed on the surface, but Ao Xingchen has an invisible estrangement for Szczyngova.
Szczyngova became popular because of this drama, and the script sent to the door was even softer.
She decided to strike while the iron was hot and put all her mind on her work, wanting to make a difference.
Her husband Ao Xingchen was once again snubbed, and this time he did not choose to continue to accommodate.
"Let's divorce, I just want a plain married life, I don't want to live under your aura."
He put the divorce papers on the table, let out a long sigh, and turned to leave the house.
Szczyngova ended her failed marriage, and with it came her fantasies about love.
Although she has mixed feelings in her heart, she still collects her mood and continues to struggle in her acting career.
In 1984, the 34-year-old Szczyngova won the fourth Golden Horse Award for Best Actress with the movie "Like Water Flowing Year".
This is the first actress in the mainland to win an award in Hong Kong, and it also established Szczyngova's position in the film and television industry.
With a booming career, her love has also ushered in the third spring.
"You have a daughter, I also have a daughter, my daughter is 21 years old, she no longer needs my care, your daughter is 16 years old I will take care of it, you can film with peace of mind and do what you want to do."
The other party's words made Szczyngova blush and lower her head.
In 1984, the famous director Ling Zifeng couldn't bear to see Siqingova take the baby alone, so he kindly helped her find a suitable partner.
Under Ling Zifeng's introduction, Siqingova met Chen Liangsheng.
He studied under international conductors and has a strong interest in music.
Chen Liangsheng is 17 years older than Siqingova and also had a marriage.
In 1962, he fell in love with the world-renowned pianist Argerich.
The two had a daughter after marriage, named Chen Lida.
However, due to different ideas, the marriage lasted only a little more than a year before it ended.
The daughter Chen Lida is raised by the man.
In order to take better care of his daughter, Chen Liangsheng did not choose to remarry.
He accompanies her at every stage of her development until she grows up to be able to live independently.
And he was finally able to take a breath and think about the rest of his life.
Under the introduction of director Ling Zifeng, Siqingova and Chen Liangsheng met.
Szczyngova didn't want to hide the past, so she said straight to the point: "I have been divorced twice, had children, and became semi-disabled because of filming. ”
Chen Liangsheng had never seen such a straightforward person, and the other party's personality made him feel good, and even gave a thumbs up to this strong woman.
Chen Liangsheng nodded, indicating that he was willing to accept everything about Szczyngova and help her take care of her daughter.
This made Szczyngova feel that she had found a soul mate, and she agreed to associate with the other party, but she never dared to take the step of marriage.
Chen Liangsheng saw her concern and said to her softly: "Don't worry, we still have a long time." ”
In the following period, Chen Liangsheng often took advantage of his breaks to visit Siqingova in Beijing and treated her daughter Sun Dan as his own.
Chen Liangsheng's sincerity touched Szczynkova, and she finally accepted the request for marriage.
In 1986, 36-year-old Siqingova and 53-year-old Chen Liangsheng held a wedding in Beijing.
After marriage, Chen Liangsheng took Siqingova's mother and daughter to live in Switzerland.
Although the married life was very happy, she always felt uncomfortable in Szczyngova's heart.
Because of the language barrier and the fact that she has no local friends, she often feels a little lonely.
I want to return to China to film, but I am afraid that my husband, like the previous two terms, does not want her to pay too much attention to her career.
She has lived in Switzerland for several years and often sits outside the balcony frowning.
Chen Liangsheng saw his wife's troubles and took the initiative to encourage: "You can go back to China to do what you want to do, no matter what you do, I will unconditionally support you." ”
Her husband's words moved her very much, and also made her firm that she did not choose the wrong person.
In 1991, Szczyngova returned to China to film.
Although she retired for a few years, she returned at the age of 41 and was no less in the limelight.
She is the decisive "Bai Wenshi" in "The Gate of the Mansion", and with her intelligent mind, she brought the Bai family's business back to life.
She is the "Empress Dowager Xiaozhuang" who endured humiliation and burden in "Kangxi Dynasty", and can endure all kinds of twists and turns for the sake of ideals.
Every character created by Szczyngova can give the audience a new image.
Her husband's support has become the most critical element of this.
Whenever Chen Liangsheng finishes work, he will fly to Beijing to visit his wife, and every time he will bring a well-prepared little surprise.
On the surface, Szczyngova ridiculed "how old is it and still learning the young one", but in fact, her heart has long blossomed.
She enjoys her current life very much, but she can't let go of one thing in her heart, and it has even become a heart disease.
That is the youngest son born to her first husband, Sun Tianxiang, Sun Tie.
After Sun Tianxiang and Siqingova divorced, they married two women one after another.
One day in 1985, Sun Tianxiang and his current wife had a dispute over trivial matters.
The quarrel between the two intensified, and he was carried away by anger for a while, picked up a fruit knife on the side, and stabbed his wife.
He was then sentenced to 5 years, and Sun Tie, who was only 13 years old, was sent to his grandmother's house.
The influence of the original family made Sun Tie's character very rebellious, and he was even sent to the juvenile detention center for fighting.
After coming out, he chose to go south to work, working as a salesman, car repairer and waiter.
After learning of her son's experience, Szczyngova tried to help her son several times, but Sun Tie refused.
It turned out that Sun Tianxiang instilled in Sun Tie the concept of "being abandoned by his mother" since he was a child, causing him to misunderstand his mother for decades.
Sun Tie also once put down cruel words to his mother: "You abandoned me in the first place, why did you come to me now?" ”
Sun Dan couldn't bear to see the stiff relationship between his mother and younger brother, so he made a conciliator in the middle.
She told her brother the real reason for her parents' divorce when she was a child, and the scars on her mother's body that could not be healed over the years.
Sun Tie suddenly realized how stupid he had been over the years.
He followed his sister back to Switzerland and hugged his mother tightly.
Chen Liangsheng watched Siqingova's heart knot finally untie, and couldn't help but burst into tears.
In 2002, Sun Tianxiang suddenly fainted at home with a cerebral infarction, and Sun Tie hurriedly sent his father to the hospital for treatment.
Although the rescue saved his life in time, he was left with lifelong paralysis, and he could only spend the second half of his life in a wheelchair.
Sun Tianxiang looked at himself now, not only sighed: "Maybe this is the greatest retribution for my Sun Tianxiang, it is time to come." ”
After being paralyzed, Sun Tianxiang's personality converged a lot, and a serious illness made him reluctant to communicate with people.
Sun Tie did not pay too much attention to his father's emotions, and what he was most worried about at that time was his father's medical expenses.
In order to make money, he turned over to major crews, but compared to the money needed for treatment, it was only a drop in the bucket.
Knowing that her son was in financial difficulties, Szczyngova began to regularly pay her son for Sun Tianxiang's treatment.
She asked Sun Tie not to tell Sun Tianxiang that she paid for the medical expenses.
Sun Tie promised with his mouth full, but once he accidentally slipped his mouth.
After Sun Tianxiang learned that the medical expenses were paid by his ex-wife, he immediately left tears of repentance: "I'm really sorry for her, I didn't expect me to treat her like that, she doesn't hold a grudge against me yet." ”
In 2007, 57-year-old Siqingova returned to Inner Mongolia with Sun Dan and Sun Tie to celebrate Sun Tianxiang's birthday with the consent of her husband Chen Liangsheng.
The former grudge has faded over time, and after Sun Tianxiang saw Szczyngova, his eyes became red, and he unconsciously burst into tears.
Then Szczyngova continued to devote herself to her career, watching her children start families one after another, and she was finally able to completely calm down and film.
In 2013, 63-year-old Szczyngova was unable to walk on the shooting scene due to leg pain.
This scene was just seen by Chen Liangsheng, who came to visit the class, and he looked at his wife with distressed eyes.
Immediately after filming, he took his wife back to Switzerland for systematic treatment.
After Siqingova woke up, she looked at Chen Liangsheng after being busy in the ward, and felt a trace of guilt in her heart.
Chen Liangsheng was 80 years old that year, and he was still working for himself.
This reminds her of all these years, it was always her husband who took care of herself, healing the scars of her early years with patience and tolerance.
From then on, she decided to take on only one play a year, and the rest of the time was spent enjoying her old age with her husband.
The rush of her early years gave her no time to sit down and enjoy.
Now I finally slow down and have a peaceful and happy life with my husband.
Szczyngova makes exquisite pastries for her husband every day, and after dinner, the two walk the streets of Switzerland together.
As the sun sets, dusk shines on their faces, making it look so appropriate.
But the happy life did not last for a few years.
In 2020, Chen Liangsheng was diagnosed with cancer, which hit Siqingova's heart violently.
During that time, she guarded her husband's bedside day and night, looking at him who could not sleep due to pain, and her tears continued to fall.
Chen Liang said in a slightly hoarse voice: "Don't cry, it's time for me to be at this age." ”
Szczyngova had planned to have her husband undergo surgery, but the doctor told her that older people had various complications of surgery.
After discussing with her husband and stepdaughter Chen Lida, she chose to treat conservatively through drugs.
Szczyngova regularly took her husband for re-examinations, reminded him to take his medicine on time every day, and saw that the cancer cells in her husband's body did not spread, so she was relieved.
After Sun Dan and Sun Tie learned that their stepfather was ill, they also rushed to Switzerland from Beijing to accompany their stepfather.
Sun Tie invited Chen Liangsheng to come to Beijing as a guest after recovery, and Chen Liangsheng answered with a full mouth.
Unfortunately, he had no way to fulfill the agreement.
In 2021, 88-year-old Chen Liangsheng's condition suddenly deteriorated.
In just one month, he lost more than 10 pounds.
Szczyngova guarded his side, and did not dare to close her eyes all night, for fear that her husband would be uncomfortable.
Fortunately, stepdaughter Chen Lida often comes to the hospital to change shifts, so that Szczyngova has a chance to breathe.
Chen Liangsheng's spark of life will not be rekindled by Szczynkova's love.
On February 28, 2022, Chen Liangsheng passed away due to illness at the age of 89.
Szczyngova cried until she couldn't cry, and even couldn't eat a meal for a few days and nights, and the whole person looked a lot more emaciated.
Sun Dan and Sun Tie rushed to Switzerland to accompany their mother, and after the funeral, they wanted to take her back to Beijing so that they would not see people.
Szczyngova refused her children's request, and only here could she feel her husband's breath.
Now 72 years old, she guards the empty house alone, and she is accompanied by loneliness every day.
The furnishings in the house were the same as when she first got married, except that the person next to her no longer existed.
Loving the husband left, leaving the widow alone in tears.