LIN CHILING MARRIED AKIRA (RYOPEI Kurosawa), a member of the Japanese group EXILE, three years ago, and the two married and had a son, who will turn one year old in December this year.
During this time, Lin Chiling returned to Taiwan with her husband and children to visit relatives and friends, and the couple took turns attending the event to earn milk powder money.
A few days ago, Kurosawa Ryohei was interviewed by a TV program and talked about his foreign marriage with Lin Chiling.
In fact, before this, Lin Chiling also talked about her marriage with Kurosawa Ryohei, revealing that the two never quarreled after marriage, because both parties are very gentle in personality and rarely contradict in life.
Once there are signs of disputes, Sister Zhiling will write down what she thinks in her heart, she believes that many hurtful words are caused by rushing out, so she chooses to express it in words, in the process of writing, she can digest negative emotions, and the words used naturally become polite.
AKIRA's statement is consistent with Lin Chiling, who said that the husband and wife respect each other, never quarrel, and because they have never quarreled, he is curious about his wife's quarrel.
Kurosawa Ryohei revealed that when the two have differences of opinion, they usually express their ideas in rational communication, and then reach a consensus, and the host asked which side usually makes more concessions, and Ryohei laughed and said, "Because we respect each other, we will all give in."
When Lin Chiling attended the event, she couldn't help but shed tears when talking about the life of a new mother, because the process was too hard, which caused her to suffer from a low point in her life and postpartum depression.
During the visit, she thanked her husband and said that it was thanks to AKIRA's help and support that she was able to regain her self-confidence.
The postpartum difficulties mentioned by Lin Chiling include physical changes in addition to the frustration of new mothers.
Zhiling, who has a supermodel body, soared to more than 60 kilograms after giving birth, and it took a lot of effort to lose it, on the one hand, she maintained her figure, on the other hand, she took the baby independently, and slept only three hours a day, the process was miserable.
Kurosawa Ryohei knows that his wife is not easy, he took the initiative to learn to boil chicken soup for Zhiling, mend his wife's body, and also get up in the middle of the night to feed his son and change diapers, so that Zhiling can rest well.
In order to be a good father, he will watch parenting videos on video sites to feed his children in a more scientific way, and at the same time avoid disputes between couples over educating their children.
He described his son as a father when he was born, but now he is a little older, with eyes and skin like Zhiling, and a nose like him.
Lin Chiling stayed in Japan from pregnancy to childbirth and did not return to Taiwan until the child turned ten, and Chi Ling, who was alone in a foreign land, was particularly lonely, and Kurosawa said that his family would help take care of Chi Ling and the child.
If Liangping asked his mother and sister to help with the baby when both husband and wife were busy, it can also be seen from the side that Zhiling got along well with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, while the Kurosawa family did not seem to hire a childcare nanny.
He said that his wife never lost her temper in front of her family, including in the process of educating her son, she was not impatient or angry when she encountered very distressing things, which he admired very much.
The host asked Ryohei Kurosawa what was the biggest change since Lin Chiling became a mother compared to before marriage, and Ryohei suddenly praised his wife with a Chinese for "becoming more beautiful".
He further explained that perhaps the outside world thinks that women who have given birth will have a distorted figure and an aging appearance, but in fact, after Zhiling became a mother, her inner strength was greater, making her more beautiful.
When Lin Chiling got married, she only knew a little Japanese for life, and when she fell in love with AKIRA, she also had to rely on her girlfriends to help translate love letters, and it is conceivable that her Japanese level was not enough to cope with local life.
Therefore, Lin Chiling studied Japanese seriously after marriage and hired a private teacher.
Kurosawa Ryohei talks about an interesting story that he will never forget.
He revealed that there is a difference between men and women in spoken Japanese, and Lin Chiling once learned the Japanese he said was "powerful", but the teacher was taken aback.
The teacher told Zhiling that the boy's wording in Japanese was too rough and not suitable for gentle women, and specially explained that Zhiling must not learn her husband to speak Japanese.
RECALLING THIS MATTER, AKIRA COULDN'T HELP BUT WONDER, AS IF REMEMBERING ZHILING'S RIDICULOUS SIDE.