In the group photo of Nortel Class of 78 alumni, Fang Shu stood at the very edge.
Now 61 years old, she has gray hair and an aging face, and she does not see the glory of the past.
Once, she was known as the domestic "Hepburn", and the popular star Liu Xiaoqing was willing to bow down.
Shen Danping, a recognized big beauty in the eighties, was ashamed of herself compared to her beauty.
Xie Yuan once said, "Her smile will make you feel that the sky is sunny and you are in a good mood!" ”。
It is said that the years are undefeated women.
But Fang Shu's current state is unbelievable.
Why, exactly? Let the once popular actress mix to such a point?
What has happened to her life?
01、
The people in the 50s were the most bitter generation, and the vast majority of people ate chaff and vegetables and had endless work, but Fang Shu did not worry about it.
His father was a bureau-level cadre and his mother was a vocal music professor.
She was the eldest daughter in the family, and her parents often told her to "set a good example for my sister."
Whether it was the dishes and chopsticks after eating or cleaning the floor, she would rush to work.
Neighbors in the same compound regard her as a benchmark for their children's learning.
In addition, she has had a Barbie face since she was a child, and her skin is like cream, and some people even propose doll relatives to the family.
In 1964, Fang Shu was favored by director Shui Hua for his excellent appearance,
In the film and television work "Eternal Life in the Fire", he played the simple, cute and upright "little radish head".
Once, she went to a neighbor's house after school to find her mother, and was praised by the other party for how good she looked when she grew up, and said that "I will definitely be a beauty embryo when I grow up in the future and become a popular star."
After the last short contact shooting, Fang Shu originally became a little interested in film and television.
But if you want to become a popular star, you must first undergo systematic training.
Therefore, she had an agreement with her parents that as long as she guaranteed that she would not lose points in the culture class, she could apply for the film and television academy.
For her dreams, Fang Shu is always the most concentrated in class, and when other friends play, she does homework at home and prepares the text.
At the same time, every night she would learn the art of singing with her mother.
In 1978, just when the Nortel examiner was tired and in a trance during the interview, Fang Shu's entry made their eyes bright.
A girl like a flower, wearing a white dress, calmly singing bel canto drama is difficult not to love.
Fang Shu got his wish and became a Nortel student of Class 78.
The classmates are Zhang Fengyi, Zhang Tielin, Shen Danping, Zhang Chao, and Xie Yuan.
Growing up in Tianjin, she couldn't quickly integrate into the unfamiliar environment.
Shen Danping, who was in the same bedroom, once thought that she was very cold, and did not dare to talk to her.
After a while of getting along, I realized that she was just relatively slow and hot.
But this does not affect the boy's appreciation and affection for her.
On the first day of entering the school, Fang Shu's alluring face caused a commotion in the upper grade, and countless boys were lying at the door of her class to see her face.
Fang Shu when she was a girl, not only has a proud figure, but also has a unique temperament of elegance and calmness.
Even if you look at the entire Nortel beauty, she must be at the top.
Once, Fang Shu forgot to adjust the class schedule, and when she remembered, she hurried to the classroom.
As a result, it was still late!
Although she was not criticized, she always had a sense of guilt in her heart.
Her emotions happened to make Xie Yuan notice, and he did not hesitate to sacrifice his handsome image and imitated some funny clips, just for the beauty of Bo to smile.
Shen Danping once said that "more than half of the 27 boys in the class have a crush on Fang Shu."
But her studies are important, and she doesn't have the slightest intention to talk about it.
Until, her cooperation with Zhang Tielin.
02、
The director of "There is such a young man" took a fancy to Fang Shu and Zhang Tielin as students' own youth and ignorance.
The two are classmates who are naturally closer than others, coupled with Fang Shu's personality, he rarely puts forward his own opinions, even if he is sometimes wronged.
During this period, the only person who could make her feel comfortable was Zhang Tielin.
Once this drama was broadcast, the response was enthusiastic and rave reviews.
When the mood first opened, Zhang Tielin's thoughtfulness made Fang Shu's heart move.
However, she did not have the courage to confess to the other party, and as the filming ended, she put away her feelings.
This drama made the female number one Fang Shu seen by more people.
In the same year, she starred with Chen Peisi and Liu Xiaoqing in the light comedy "Look at This Family".
The popularity of this drama was not lost to "Huanzhugege" and became the champion of ratings that year.
With the explosion of the play, the actors have also received more attention.
Fang Shu became a popular first-line actor.
She has received invitations from the crew of "Young Friends" and "Forget-Me-Not", and her professionalism and professionalism have been recognized by the industry.
After graduation, she entered the Beijing Film Studio.
The factory is heavy on Fang Shu, and she is present in all kinds of classic drama repertoire.
In her second year at the factory, she won the title of the Best Progress Award for her drama "True Love and False Intentions", and became the learning object of the younger generation in the factory.
Fang Shu, who had a smooth career, also met his own love at this time.
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Chen Guoxing is the senior brother of Dafang Shu, and the meeting between the two is a special idol drama.
It was autumn, the wind was very strong in Beijing, and the scarf around Fang Shu's neck was blown off by the wind, and just as she was chasing after the wind in a panic, the scarf happened to be grabbed by Chen Guoxing, who was walking over.
The two went to the teaching building together again, of course, Chen Guoxing knew that she was the school flower, but he didn't think that the other party had a good personality, and originally thought that the princess would be sick in the future.
The charred yellow maple leaves danced in the wind, and the sunlight shone on Fang Shu through the gaps in the leaves, like a beautiful painting that instantly hit Chen Guoxing's heart.
After having the idea of pursuing the other party, he launched a strong pursuit.
Wait for her downstairs in the dormitory when it rains, help her line up when she eats, and if she is filming, he will come to the set from time to time to see her and bring her more things to eat.
It can be said that the care side is very careful.
For Fang Shu, who is struggling alone in a foreign land, his help and care make her feel very secure.
With the graduation of Chen Guoxing, he was assigned to Changsha Film Studio.
Although he had just arrived in a new environment and had good places to adapt to, he would still write to Fang Shu every week.
In the past, you could always see each other every day, and Fang Shu also felt special, but now that he can't see Chen Guoxing, he misses him incomparably.
She understood her inner thoughts and wrote "I do" in the content of the reply to the other party.
When Chen Guoxing couldn't wait to open the envelope and see the contents, he slept with a pout all night with excitement.
After graduation, Fang Shu was assigned to a Beijing studio, and she contacted her boyfriend in the form of letters.
Despite this, her relationship with her boyfriend did not cause any problems, and both of them believed in their loyalty to this relationship.
Not long after, Chen Guoxing approved his request to transfer the North Plant because of his excellent performance.
After returning, he was obviously mature and stable, and spent time helping Fang Shu solve doubts and sort out the emotions of the characters.
At the same time, he is also very clear about his goals.
Acting is not what he is most interested in, becoming a director is his ultimate dream.
He did not procrastinate, and immediately began to learn the knowledge to master as a director, and his girlfriend would cooperate with him in shooting.
For a time, the two became a natural pair in the eyes of outsiders.
In their careers, the two help each other, and each has reached a new height.
Fang Shuyin's wonderful performance in "Sunrise" won the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award for Best Actress, and also became the most popular actress award in Asia that year.
Not only that, she also crossed the line to become a host.
In 1985, she became the host of "Zhengda Variety Show", and her partner was her sister Fang Hui.
Different from the style of pretending to be strange and silly in other variety shows, she takes the style of language humor, a bit like the feeling of a talk show, and the slow-paced and witty language fills the effect of the program, making the audience in front of the TV series laugh and close their mouths.
The steady typhoon who was not alarmed made her invited by the CCTV Spring Festival Gala program team to host with Zhao Zhongxiang, Jiang Kun and others.
She is also the first host in English to host in the history of the Spring Festival Gala.
In time to this day, the Spring Festival Gala still has a supreme status in the hearts of the people, and those who can appear on the stage are also the leaders in the industry.
Subsequently, Chen Guoxing also produced and directed his first work "Mountain Soul Thunderbolt", which was praised and commended by the Film Bureau.
With everyone's blessing, Fang Shu and Chen Guoxing ended their love affair for many years and became a husband and wife.
The life of the younger couple is quite nourishing, and with their income, even if they go on a trip in the last few months, they will enjoy life.
However, all this is limited to the first two years.
Since 1988, Chen Guoxing led the drama "Footsteps of the City", there has been no drama that can be shot, just like the painter has lost his inspiration and can paint but not vividly.
And in sharp contrast to him, it is Fang Shu's thriving career.
But she worked so hard to appear outside to maintain the balance of expenses and income at home.
However, Chen Guoxing did not feel his wife's feelings at all.
"I'm very faceless like you."
Fang Shu listened to this sentence more than once, especially when her husband heard that the outside world relied on him as a "soft rice man", he was even more angry and angry.
It also sowed woe for their marriage.
Chen Guoxing began to persuade his wife not to work anymore, and the matter of earning money was handed over to him.
It's not that she doesn't believe her husband's words, but she just had a child and wants to earn more money to give her child a better environment.
In 1990, their daughter was born.
The daughter is her father's little cotton jacket, and she is Chen Guoxing's lucky jacket.
At this time, Chen Guoxing's career began to improve.
"When you have a child, you can take care of the child at home."
Fang Shu thought for a long time about her husband's repeated persuasion to be a housewife, and since someone helped her bear the expenses, she decided to compromise.
Watching her children grow up day by day and her husband's career develop steadily, she has been willing to give up her dream of acting and be a good mother and wife.
However, such a happy life did not last long.
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"I admit that I cheated on me, let's divorce!"
Fang Shu took advantage of her husband Chen Guoxing's hard time to go home and told the other party the idea of divorce.
The other party only stopped for a moment, and agreed to her proposal, provided that she needed to leave the house.
Emotionally, she was sorry for the other party first, and Fang Shu had nothing to say, only to ask her daughter to return to her.
In 1994, Fang Shu and Chen Guoxing went through divorce procedures.
In October of the same year, she took her daughter to marry Tu Honggang, the object of cheating.
At that time, the "sibling love" with a difference of 10 years caused a sensation in the entire domestic entertainment for a while.
Fang Shu and Tu Honggang met at a dinner party.
At that time, she felt very aggrieved because her husband was often not at home and had just finished arguing with the other party.
In the face of the invitation of others to dance, she remained indifferent, sitting alone under neon lights and drinking stuffy wine.
Accidentally, her wine glass hand did not hold and scatter it, and when she was looking around to see who had a tissue, Tu Honggang walked straight forward and handed the tissue very gentlemanly.
The two chatted freely until the end of the party, and Tu Honggang fell in love at first sight with this woman in front of him.
Then he embarked on a frantic pursuit.
Her husband Chen Guoxing only cares about his career, and his attitude of not caring about himself has made her sad, and she is not concerned about her daughter's education, which makes Fang Shu unbearable.
The two often quarrel, and the feelings cultivated during love have been consumed by firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Tu Hong just seized the opportunity to enter.
His fire-like vitality instantly soothed Fang Shu's long-suppressed heart.
If people have no passion, they are like walking with the dead, and this boy 10 years younger than herself has regained her youthful vitality.
The reason that made Fang Shu decide to divorce was a car accident.
During one outing, she collided head-on with an opposite car.
Because there was no room to dodge on both sides and the buffer distance was short, Fang Shu hit the steering wheel fiercely under the action of gravity, and his collarbone was broken and sent to the hospital.
On the way, she first informed her husband, although the other party said that the fastest time, it would take two days from the shooting site to the hospital.
When her life was on the line, she thought of Tu Honggang.
The wound made her extremely painful, and she had to ask the doctor about everything when she watched Tu Honggang do everything, for fear that a little negligence would affect her recovery.
Tears unconsciously flowed from the corners of her eyes.
At this moment, she willingly wanted to marry Tu Honggang.
The outside world has always been optimistic about their pair, but Fang Shu does not think so.
After marriage, her life was as sweet as soaking in a honeypot, her husband's considerate care, she could receive flowers every three to five, and even if she wanted to eat large intestines a few kilometers away in the middle of the night, her husband immediately took her there.
The next year, Fang Shu gave birth to a daughter at an advanced age.
At this time, the family had three children, two daughters and one son.
The son was the child of Tu Honggang and his mixed-race ex-wife, and his wife chose to divorce him when he returned to China.
The three children exhausted Fang Shu, and the opportunities to appear were getting fewer and fewer, and he only starred in 3 works in 4 years.
Although Tu Honggang is a father, his mind is sometimes very childish, and he runs away when he encounters things, becomes an uncle, and dumps all the family burdens on Fang Shu.
In fact, at this time, Fang Shu may not know Tu Honggang's nature.
It's just that she has no career and has just divorced now, so she can only bet on the conscience of the other party.
She's tired, so if she can get by, she can overlap.
There must always be someone in the family to earn money to make ends meet, and Fang Shu decided to rely on his connections accumulated over the years to keep her husband in the entertainment industry.
At first, she just introduced resources to her husband, and when he became famous, she helped him set up his own company.
For example, "Chinese Kung Fu" and "Jing Zhong Serving the Country" were all completed by Tu Honggang with the help of Fang Shu.
"Wolf smoke rises and looks north", I believe that no one has not heard it, and the heroic song will radiate the bloody nature of the mainland's loose boys.
With the popularity of Tu Honggang, Fang Shu and his marriage also came to an end.
There are endless reports of husbands hugging left and right, and in response, the husband just said that "it is all a misunderstanding".
After several years of married life, she can naturally feel the changes in the other party and judge whether she has the ability to lie.
The reason why I have always tolerated it is because the husband still has a fatherly responsibility for the children.
However, her blindness made the other party act more recklessly.
In order to make the children versatile, Fang Shu decided to buy a piano at home.
But when she went to the bank to withdraw money, she thought she had encountered a scam, and millions of cards disappeared.
Under her pressure, Tu Honggang admitted that he used the savings of both parties to invest.
And promised to come back to accompany her when he earned money, but waited for the news of the failure of the investment.
After the defeat, the other party's temper was particularly bad, and the two often quarreled.
It is really dead and unchanging, and at this moment Fang Shuche is completely dead.
In 2002, this marriage, which transcended age boundaries, ended in failure.
The two children were raised by Fang Shu, and Tu Honggang's son was thrown back to his ex-wife by him.
Two years later, he married his assistant, and the two had a daughter.
After the failure of the two marriages, Fang Shu no longer wanted to step into the mixed entertainment industry, and he also locked the door of his feelings.
She spends all her time on her two daughters, to whom she often says, "It's all on your own."
Under her education, the two children are excellent.
The eldest daughter graduated from Beijing Foreign Chinese University, a proper student, first a journalist.
The youngest daughter is currently in junior high school and her grades are also at the top of her class, and her goal is to become a good actress like her mother.
The two daughters are very contentious and make Fang Shu proud.
Fang Shu once said: "I am very satisfied with my current situation"
summary
Life is like a mirror, if you are sad, it will definitely look at you with a worried brow; If you're smiling, it's bound to grin at you.
Today, 61-year-old Fang Shu is leisurely and calm, even if she appears without makeup, she is also calm, and her appearance is no longer as good as before.
What supports her is the perception of life, whose life can be smooth sailing, and who can be full of thorns?
Everything on the outside is a cloud, and only by fulfilling the heart and not being hypocritical can we live our truest self.
Everyone is an individual, don't be wronged for anyone, please allow your inner selfishness, provided that you don't hurt others.
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