#头条创作挑战赛 #
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The ancients had a saying: "The family has virtue, and the descendants are prosperous." The family has no virtue, and the children and grandchildren are decaying. ”
Whether a family has virtue, whether it has money, and whether it can provide a stable environment for future generations will affect the development of future generations.
Many parents always think that their children's growth has nothing to do with the family, only with the school or the teacher. Thinking like this is, after all, problematic. You know, schools and teachers will only teach children the basic knowledge, but can not teach children the truth of being a person.
When we are young, we do not understand that we have not created a good family atmosphere for our children, thus delaying our children. When we are old, we fully realize that the development of a person in this life is closely related to the family.
A good family, whose soil can give birth to three generations of good children and grandchildren. Bad families, their soil can only cultivate rebellious filial piety. The so-called "filial piety also gives birth to filial piety, and disobedience also gives birth to disobedient children" is this truth.
Whatever "cause" parents plant, they can only get what "effect." Children will also be affected by these "causes and effects". The family is the big framework for these "causal transformations".
Why do we often say that "the family is the cradle of children and grandchildren"? It is because of the influence of the original family on people that it cannot be changed in a lifetime. In this way, the number of people's qi is the embodiment of the family heritage.
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When it comes to the problem of the influence of the qi number by the family, we only need to look at the Liu family of the Han Dynasty and the Zhu family of the Ming Dynasty.
For example, the Liu family of the Han Dynasty. Although Liu Bang was a small, he relied on his superb employment wisdom to seize the world and establish the Han Dynasty. At this time, he did not read, and he paid special attention to the education of his children.
He himself, after becoming emperor, studied diligently, although his learning was still a little worse, but compared with his previous appearance as a little, he had improved a lot.
At the same time, due to the defeat of the "Siege of Baideng", he made up his mind to continue to develop and strive to one day defeat the Huns. This quality of not accepting defeat was passed on to future generations.
What is amazing is that Liu Bang's descendants actually created the "rule of Wenjing" and made the Han Dynasty incomparably strong. Until the time of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, it developed to the peak, sweeping through the northern and western regions of the desert, traversing the world, and being invincible in the sea.
For example, in the Zhu family of the Ming Dynasty, Zhu Yuanzhang became the first emperor to succeed in the Northern Expedition. Later, he educated his children, all of which were particularly harsh. Even for Prince Zhu Biao, it is more tempered.
Although Zhu Biao died early, his fourth son, Zhu Di, drove out Emperor Jianwen and succeeded Daming Jiangshan. Zhu Di, a man, also gave the prince a lot of experience, and at the same time took his grandson on a expedition. Later, Zhu Di himself, together with his sons and grandsons, created the Yongle Shengshi and the Renxuan Shengshi.
Unfortunately, due to Zhu Di's grandson, Emperor Xuanzong of Ming, Zhu Zhanji, lacked education for his children, and he personally left early because of the onset of old diseases, so the biggest scourge of the Ming Dynasty, Ming Yingzong, appeared.
Ming Yingzong was willful and did not have the ability to lead troops to fight, but he felt that he was comparable to his grandfather and father, so he went out to the grassland and was defeated by Wa La, resulting in the lamentable "change of Tumu Fort".
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Throughout the history of the Han Dynasty, we will sigh at the boldness of Liu Bang, the ancestor of Han Gao, and the hard struggle of his descendants.
Looking at the history of the Ming Dynasty, we will marvel at the strength of Zhu Yuanzhang and Zhu Di, as well as the persistence of the last two generations, but it is a pity that the fifth generation is in the nest.
This shows a truth, the influence of the family on the number of people's qi, it is huge.
Why did the reign of Wenjing appear in the Han Dynasty, and why did Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty sweep through the Western Regions become a reality? Because their ancestral family education is related to this goal (defeating the Huns).
Why did the Ming Dynasty have such a monarch as Ming Yingzong? The main reason is that Ming Xuanzong died too early and did not pass on the family's ideas to his children, and at the same time, the arrogant and luxurious atmosphere of life also affected the character of people. In this way, failure is inevitable.
What kind of thinking the family has, what kind of education the parents have, will not only affect the path taken by future generations, but also indirectly affect the family's qi number. A good family style and good living habits will benefit people.
On the contrary, a bad family style will corrode people's souls and make people's character defective. This is the biggest problem.
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Write to the end
Nowadays, there are many parents who think that if they pass on the big house and money to their children, everything will be worry-free. But the reality is that no matter how much money and assets, there will be a day of failure.
You have money, but you let your child live too comfortably, have not suffered any hardships, more laziness, more arrogance, just like the Ming Yingzong mentioned above, no amount of your family property is enough for him to fail.
You have money, but you force your children to go to the grassroots level to hone, learn to make money on their own, and earn living expenses for themselves, then your children will know that it is not easy to make money, and they will also know the nature and truth of life. That's more important than what you pass on to him for a million dollars.
There is a boss, he was born in a poor family, but his parents taught him how to be industrious and do things steadily from a young age, so when he was in his thirties, he seized the opportunity to make a fortune.
Today, he still teaches his children to support themselves, and his children have graduated from college in 985 and are fighting outside. He is particularly satisfied with this.
If you are a child, then you must absorb the essence of the family and get rid of the dross. If you are a parent, then you must create a good family environment for your children and attach importance to family education, then your offspring will not be worse.
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