Sanmao has a saying, I believe that love can eliminate all difficulties, but after all difficulties, there are all kinds of difficulties.
Deeply. It is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, and after really living together, I found that love is not only a wind and snow, but also a firework in the world.
Zhao Excellent and Liang Shuang in "Twenty Not Confused 2" insisted on the graduation season, but finally lost to reality.
They were together for 3 years, and everyone lamented the preciousness of this love, but they broke up anyway. First, Zhao Excellent proposed it, and Liang Shuang couldn't cry.
I thought that Zhao Shuang would come back to give Liang Shuang a birthday, and the two people would rule out the omnipotent coming together, but Liang Shuang said goodbye to Zhao Excellent, and the two officially broke up.
Obviously Liang Shuang is attached to Zhao Excellent, Zhao Excellent also loves Liang Shuang deeply, and accompanies her for the first time when she encounters setbacks, why can't they love each other but can't be together?
01
At the beginning of love, we all know how to accommodate each other, and we are willing to make more sacrifices for each other.
Zhao Excellent is a humanistic landscape photographer, and his work is destined to run all over the world in order to achieve results. He proposed a plan to film the "elephant migration", but finally gave up the opportunity to his colleagues.
As a result, colleagues won the award, which is undoubtedly very disappointing for Zhao Excellent. For the sake of love, he chose to accompany Liang Shuang because she was too busy at work and longed to return home with someone waiting.
In order to be with Liang Shuang, Zhao Excellent is constantly making compromises and sacrificing himself, obviously a humanistic landscape photographer, but the most proud work is only a portrait of his girlfriend.
Maybe at the beginning, you think that there is nothing wrong with giving more. But love can't always be on paper, and Zhao Excellent is good to Liang Shuang and hopes to get rewards.
However, they usually have the luxury of even a date. On the third anniversary of their love, the two made an appointment to eat and watch movies together, but in order to cooperate with Liang Shuang's work, they planned to all fail.
Zhao Excellent's father was sick and had to undergo surgery, hoping that he could take Liang Shuang back to visit him, but Liang Shuang was too busy to be separated, and Zhao Excellent had to use various excuses to help her explain.
Obviously it is the love of two people, but it has become a person's life. Obviously, I have a girlfriend, but I feel more lonely than when I was single.
In front of Liang Shuang, he is no longer himself, but a "Shuang brother-in-law" who regards her as the center of gravity, and even when others introduce him, he does not mention his name.
A person who stays in such an emotion for too long will eventually be completely disappointed. Even if Zhao Excellent loves Liang Shuang again, he can't stand such a life, and breaking up is an inevitable choice.
02
The basis for two people to be together is not only to have love, but also to have communication and communication.
However, the nature of Zhao Excellent and Liang Shuang's work is too different, and their working hours are also different, often when Liang Shuang arrives home, Zhao Excellent has entered a dreamland. When Zhao Got up to work, Liang Shuang was still asleep.
They have limited time to intersect, so to speak, they don't even have time to quarrel. Even if it is a date, there will always be a lot of work problems from time to time, and Liang Shuang is a career-oriented woman.
Zhao Excellent appreciates Liang Shuang's excellence, but he is more eager for the two people to sit down and talk about each other's plans for the future and the lives of the two people.
However, Liang Shuang had never given him such a chance, and every time he wanted to talk about his ideas, he was interrupted by Liang Shuang's various work, or directly ignored.
It can be seen that Zhao Jiao's words came to his mouth many times, but he swallowed them back rawly. He understands Liang Shuang's work, but also hopes that she can see her own needs.
In fact, Liang Shuang often regards his career as far more important than his feelings. Especially when Zhao Excellent wanted to shoot the "Tea Horse Ancient Road", he sent a message to tell Liang Shuang that he had a job opportunity, but she said "go" without asking.
You know, if it is an ordinary job, Zhao Excellent will certainly not be so cautious, but Liang Shuang ignored Zhao Excellent's feelings, although she thought of making up for it afterwards, but in the end, the problem between the two was very big.
Zhao Excellent has been seeking perfection, Liang Shuang just saw her own absence, but did not have time to really practice it, after all, the nature of her work is really lacking.
It is precisely because of this that she and Zhao Excellent are getting farther and farther apart, and in the end, they can no longer go back to the past.
03
Zhao Excellent is an easy-going person, his requirements for life are not high, although he has a sense of enterprise but insufficient ambition.
But Liang Shuang is a very ambitious girl, when encountering things or do not do, to do the best. It is also her high standards and high requirements for work that have made her rise in a short period of time and become the head anchor.
When the two people first got together, they were still students, but after several years of social experience, the gap between them was getting bigger and bigger, first of all, in terms of income.
Liang Shuang is one of the top celebrities in the field of live broadcasting, she has many opportunities and choices, but Zhao's excellent career is average, and even for Liang Shuang, he sacrificed a lot of opportunities.
If the two are in a state of equality, it is not felt, but the gap between the two is too large.
Liang Shuang can give him a limited edition watch, giving him enough face, but at the same time, this also sets off Zhao's excellent incompetence, and for men, the problem of dignity is very serious.
Although Zhao Is not the kind of person who wants women to be attached to him, their lives are obviously impossible to synchronize, and he does not want Liang Shuang to give up for himself, but he also wants to realize his dreams.
When reality and ideals conflict, their breakup is inevitable.
Many people said that when Liang Shuang fell into a trough, Zhao Excellent flew back to her side for the first time to accompany her, and they should still have the possibility of compounding.
But in fact, whether it is Zhao Excellent or Liang Shuang, they still love each other, but they do realize that if they go on together, they will probably face the end of breaking up.
I saw a sentence on the Internet that the probability of people who broke up recombine is 82%, but the probability of being able to go to the end after compounding is only 3%, and the remaining 97% will break up again, the same reason as the first breakup.
Really not fake. Even if they are compounded, the problems between them will not be solved.
Because the status quo cannot be easily changed, it is destined to be so.
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