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In 1994, when Hou Chuangao was filming, he suddenly fainted, and his girlfriend Ren Shuwen sent him to the hospital, and finally Hou Chuangao was diagnosed with cancer by doctors.
At that time, Hou Chuangao immediately proposed to break up, but his girlfriend cried and said that she would not break up.
The two people who have only been in love for half a year usher in the first "test" of love.
The girlfriend is the makeup artist of the crew, and after she goes to the crew every day to make up, she will immediately rush to the hospital to accompany him. Two years later, Hou Chuangao's condition stabilized, and he hugged his girlfriend and said that he would definitely give her happiness.
Who knows, happiness did not come, but came a bigger test.
In the eighth year of marriage, when Ren Shuwen went to the street to buy fish, he was unfortunately hit by a car. When he was sent to the hospital, Ren Shuwen had already been issued a critical illness notice by the doctor.
At that time, it was Hou Chuangao who cried and begged the doctor to find a way to save his wife, Xu was impressed by his sincerity, and Ren Shuwen, who had broken ribs and bones, woke up after half a month in a coma.
The first time she opened it, she saw her husband's busy figure and couldn't help but cry.
"Thank you". Ren Shuwen's soft words of thanks startled Hou Chuangao to drop the water cup on the ground, and his face was full of tears when he turned around.
Hou Chuangao felt that the greatest good fortune given to him by heaven was to meet Ren Shuwen. Without her constant tolerance and support, his life wouldn't have been so easy.......
01, the beauty of the first encounter
Hou Chuangao was born in 1965, and his father was also an actor. However, because the situation was more chaotic at that time, my father changed from an actor to a behind-the-scenes worker.
When Hou Chuangao was a child, he didn't know what it meant to shoot a scene. He just enjoyed going to the movies with his father and imitating the actions of others in the movies.
As he grew up, his father told him that if he didn't know what to do, he would go to drama school. At that time, Hou Chuangao felt that he did not like acting very much, so he dropped out of school for a while and went out to find a job.
Unfortunately, he always felt unhappy when he tried multiple jobs. Back at home, Hou Chuangao listened to his father's words and went to study acting.
Since 1990, Hou Chuangao has begun to develop into the circle and has starred in many small supporting roles. His career is tepid, and he is not in a hurry to become popular, for him, it is already very good to be able to make money to make a living.
Fortunately, Hou Chuangao, whose career is not popular, has the privilege of meeting true love.
In 1994, Hou Chuangao went to Shanghai to shoot a film, during which he had an affair with Ren Shuwen, a makeup artist in the crew. Ren Shuwen is not as good looking as the star, but she is very gentle and generous.
She is only two years younger than Hou Chuangao, the two often chat in the crew, the scene is not finished, the two secretly fell in love.
Hou Chuangao's home was in the north, and when he brought his girlfriend home, it was winter. Ren Shuwen's whole body trembled, and Hou Chuangao thought that she was afraid to see her future in-laws.
Ren Shuwen only opened his mouth at this time, saying that he was afraid of the cold and only liked to stay in the south. Hearing that his girlfriend was afraid of the cold, Hou Chuangao asked her where she liked to live?
Ren Shuwen thought about it and said that he liked the picturesque Hangzhou, Hou Chuangao silently remembered it in his heart, and many years later he chose to settle in Hangzhou.
Hou Chuangao's parents liked Ren Shuwen very much and thought she was a well-behaved and sensible girl.
At that time, Hou Chuangao said at home that he had no fixed place to live, and where there was a need in the future, he would go to shoot dramas.
Ren Shuwen, who was on the side, immediately followed: "Where he is, I am where I am, and I will definitely take good care of him."
It was also these words that made Hou Chuangao's parents very moved, and directly praised their son for finding a good girl.
However, happy love, fleeting, ushered in a huge test.
02, accompany the boyfriend to fight cancer, and sell the house after marriage
In love for half a year, Hou Chuangao entered the "Hu Xueyan" crew to shoot a scene, and Ren Shuwen also followed him as a makeup artist.
Who knows, in the middle of the way, Hou Chuangao suddenly fainted, and after being sent to the hospital, he was diagnosed with cancer. After Hou Chuangao learned of his condition, he immediately proposed to ren Shuwen to break up, and he did not want to involve her.
Hou Chuangao said bitterly: "We are not yet married, you don't need to take care of me, you go"! Ren Shuwen looked at his desperate expression and cried and asked him: "If it was me who suffered from cancer, would you leave?"?
Hou Chuangao was silent in the face of this problem, thinking in his heart: Even if I smash the pot and sell iron, I will cure her.
The persistence of his girlfriend touched Hou Chuangao, and he began to actively treat it.
At that time, Hou Chuangao did not have much savings, and Ren Shuwen borrowed money from his parents to treat him. Naturally, her parents disagreed, so Ren Shuwen went home and knelt on the ground, begging her parents to help her future son-in-law.
Seeing that she was obsessed, her parents had to borrow a little from their friends and give Ren Shuwen a large amount of money. At that time, Ren Shuwen was running at both ends of the crew and the hospital, and only went home to rest in the middle of the night.
A female nurse thought she was working too hard and lent her a temporary dormitory. Accompanied by Ren Shuwen, Hou Chuangao's condition gradually stabilized after many treatments.
Everyone laughed and said that it seemed that God did not want to separate the two people from each other. After Hou Chuangao's parents knew about it, they also bought fruit to go to Ren Shuwen's parents' house to thank them.
The parents of both sides saw that the two were very much in love, so they urged them to get married early. However, at that time, Hou Chuangao just received several scenes, and by the time the filming was finished, it was already 4 years later.
In 1998, Hou Chuangao bought a house in Hangzhou as a wedding room, and Ren Shuwen saw the warm decoration and was so excited that he couldn't stop her tears.
She did not expect that Hou Chuangao would always remember the casual words that she wanted to live in Hangzhou. The year after the marriage, Ren Shuwen had just given birth to a daughter and was confinement, but a friend of Hou Chuangao invited him to invest in filming.
At that time, Hou Chuangao consulted with his wife and decided to try it. However, after his friend pushed off the drama contract, he only called the average money, which was more than a million less than the agreed.
In desperation, the shooting of this work can only be suspended. However, at this time, Hou Chuangao encountered a very difficult problem, the people invited had to pay for the work, and the money from friends was simply not enough for labor costs.
After Ren Shuwen knew, he took out his savings of more than 20,000 yuan, but it was still not enough. Hou Chuangao was in a hurry, and Ren Shuwen, who had just been out of confinement, made a bold move.
She decided to sell the house, pay off the debt to her husband first, and then buy a house after earning money. After Hou Chuangao knew, he did not agree with it, and Ren Shuwen had to sell the house one step at a time and directly give him the money.
"Shuwen". Hou Chuangao, who had received the money, called out his wife's name, but he could not say anything to thank him. Ren Shuwen hugged Hou Chuangao and patted him on the shoulder.
The two moved out of their new house and rented a small bungalow to live in.
After Ren Shuwen's parents saw it, they were very unhappy and said how her life was getting worse and worse. Ren Shuwen buried her head, not daring to let her parents see her embarrassment. She said to her parents, "Isn't it just a matter of suffering and suffering together?"
The daughter's infatuation makes parents helpless and moved. When a family of three has no money to use, they will eat white steamed buns for three meals. After the mother-in-law saw it, she really couldn't bear it, so she gave them a little living expenses every month.
Hou Chuangao, who survived several years of hard work and worked hard every day to shoot dramas, finally had money to buy a house. The place to buy a house is still selected in Hangzhou, the house is not as big as before, but Hou Chuangao is still very warmly furnished.
03, the wife is in a car accident, and she accompanies her without abandonment
In 2005, when the family of three finally moved to a renovated new house, Ren Shuwen sighed: "Our good days have finally come."
However, there was an unexpected storm in the sky, and a few months later, ren Shuwen was in a car accident when he went to the street to buy fish. At that time, a car lost control and violently knocked Ren Shuwen away.
Hou Chuangao, who learned that his wife was critically ill, was like being struck by lightning, and his whole body trembled for a while. He hurriedly left the crew and rushed to the hospital to watch his unconscious wife.
Hou Chuangao was a man of understanding, and looking into the doctor's eyes, he seemed to understand something. He immediately went forward and pulled the doctor and begged for his wife's help, no matter how small the hope, not to give up.
The doctor shook his head and said he could only do his best. Hou Chuangao was determined not to leave, he pulled the doctor and said: "No matter what the result is, the doctor begs you to operate."
In this way, the doctor asked Hou Chuangao to sign his name and push Ren Shuwen into the operating room. One day after the operation, the doctor changed several times, and Ren Shuwen was still not out of danger.
Hou Chuangao looked at his wife out of the operating room with black circles under his eyes. After the operation, she remained unconscious, the congestion in her brain was not clear, and she would have a hard time waking up.
Hou Chuangao did not give up, he gave his wife a hot compress on the back of her head every day, hoping that her wife would wake up soon. This hot compress is more than half a month's insistence, and the wife slowly opens her eyes.
Seeing the son-in-law's kindness to her daughter, the mother-in-law was also touched, and she was happy for her daughter to find such an infatuated husband.
After his wife was discharged from the hospital, Hou Chuangao began to reflect on himself whether he should take on less drama and accompany his wife and children more. Gradually, he went from five or six plays a year to one or two.
In 2022, the two have known each other for 28 years and have been married for 24 years, but their feelings have never faded. After the broadcast of "People by the Canal", the family of three still sat at home to chase the drama.
Hou Chuangao starred in "Ma Shan He" in it, although it was only a few shots, but it was very satisfying for him.
Although he and his wife did not enjoy a life of great wealth and nobility in their lives, the two occasionally traveled together and occasionally got together with friends, and their lives were very comfortable.
Epilogue:
In the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, many couples are divorced, like popular actresses Yang Ying, Yang Mi, Zhao Liying and others, all have a failed marriage.
How sweet it was at the beginning, after the divorce, people regretted so much that many viewers said: they no longer believe in love in the circle.
And like Hou Chuangao and Ren Shuwen, who experienced hardships before marriage and still had many twists and turns after marriage, there are indeed very few couples who do not abandon each other.
In the 24 years of marriage, Hou Chuangao has always been his wife as the main backbone, and he knows that without Ren Shuwen, his life would not be so happy and warm.
And Ren Shuwen has also been silently supporting Hou Chuangao, because she understands that marriage needs to be paid in both directions.