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Truly love a person, a word, a look, an action, all of which are full of strong love; A person who loves you, his eyes are full of pity for you, if not love, there is only desire.
In Romeo and Juliet, Romeo and Juliet have this dialogue:
"I swear by pointing to the holy moon whose treetops have been painted silver—"
"Ah! No! Don't point to the moon and swear, the moon is fickle, there are circles and gaps in the month, and your love will change. ”
"Then what do I swear by?"
"Don't swear at all, if you must swear, just point to your heart-wrenching self, that's my idol, I'll believe you." 」
When Romeo wants to swear to the moon in order to prove to Juliet that she loves him, she is stopped by Juliet, because in her opinion, the moon is cloudy and sunny, not at all perfect, but "itself" is more trustworthy than the moon. Later Romeo said, "You haven't spoken your vows of love and exchanged them with me!" ”
"I have already given you my oath before you have asked for it." Juliet said emotionally, "But all I want is all I have now." ”
Everyone says that Romeo and Juliet are a tragedy, but even if they are still in love with each other until the moment of death, they always accompany each other, so they are by no means a tragic tragedy, their love is always the same, their love is never contaminated with any impurities, from passionate love to permanent companionship is only the end of idol dramas.
I remember that when Juliet came home, Romeo looked at Juliet's beautiful back and said, "I was afraid that all this was a dream, too happy and happy, afraid that it was not true." ”
Perhaps as the Lawrence monk in the play said: "Although the sweetest honey itself is delicious, if you eat it too fast, you will inevitably be a little greasy, and you will have to lose your appetite when you eat it." ”
It seems to me that Romeo's love with Juliet is like this, coming too quickly and too sweetly.
Personally, I agree with What Lawrence said: "There is only gentle love, so that it is long, too fast and too slow, and the result is the same slowness." ”
In the "wind and tears, interactive agitation" of the lost lover, thinking of the scene of pointing to the moon and swearing, every time thinking of the torture is as if he had died once, from this point of view, what tragedy is Romeo and Juliet? It is simply an enviable reunion, so it is an "idol drama" and not a tragedy.
Shakespeare wrote in King Lear, "If love is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with itself, it is not really a feeling." "Love for each other is a tragedy.
The so-called "washing" of the "house washing" in Shanghai recently exploded on the Internet, and the so-called "washing room" refers to the fact that after two people get married, one party turns the house that the other party bought before marriage into the common property after marriage by certain means.
Someone posted something like this on the Internet:
An aunt surnamed Jiang in Shanghai bought a two-bedroom house for her son very early.
Later, the son found a Shanghai drift girl from a certain province in a foreign country, and this girl looked particularly reasonable before marriage, but not long after marriage, she forced a request:
She said that she had to replace the marriage house, buy a new house, and add her name, otherwise she would not have children.
In order to make the little two families better, Aunt Jiang agreed to the girl's request, sold the marriage house, and bought a new three-bedroom house.
A few years later, the girl asked for a divorce, the property was divided in half, and the "washing" was successful. Aunt Jiang washed her face with tears and complained about it every time she was told.
The authenticity of the event, we can not confirm, if the girl married is to run to divorce and divide the family property, it is quite terrible, we often say that marriage is the "graveyard" of love, in this matter is verified at that time, with the purpose of sex love, in fact, it is just a transaction, the final outcome is just two tragedies, the sadness of two families.
There is a line in the Japanese drama "The Most Perfect Divorce": "The worst ending of marriage is not divorce, but becoming a mask couple." There is no love for each other, nor any expectations, but living together, this is the biggest misfortune. Similarly, Romeo and Juliet have not changed their love for each other until their deaths, how can it be a tragedy, and the "washing" marriage that has gained benefits is the biggest tragedy.