I don't know if you have brushed the video of Li Xueke when you brush the vibrato, that is, she went abroad to do a test tube when she was thirty years old and gave birth to three mixed-race babies. Her point is that she doesn't want to get married to have children, and she doesn't meet someone who wants to get married, just have one of her own! Many people will leave a message under her video saying that without the company of the father, the child's growth is not perfect, etc. and so on... Actually, I feel like giving children a lot of love, and it's not a big relationship to have a father, don't a lot of people also live in widowed marriages?
And then the other day I was chatting with my friends because I have a lot of friends who are not yet married, and I said that there are a lot of people at the bottom of her video who envy her, and there are three cute dolls with a successful career, no troublesome mother-in-law and a failed father, etc., and so on.
And then I said to my friend, actually, I also think it doesn't matter if a woman is married or not, and it's most important to make money. They all agree that marriage is not a necessity, and they all feel that marriage is not necessary when they meet it, and it is even if they don't see it. We also have a common point of agreement that we feel that there are few young people who feel normal now...
And when I got home, I thought a lot about what it meant to be married, and you did meet someone you liked and did want to marry him, and he was expecting to marry you, and to get married was to make each other better people. Otherwise it would be nice to live by yourself.
Saying so much is not that my married life is not good, on the contrary, I am very happy, and my husband and family are also very good to me. Married or not, the multiple choice of life How to choose will regret. Twenty-six years old, I sometimes regret feeling that it's too early to get married, and I can play a few more years, of course, if I go back to three years ago, I'll still choose to get married hahahahahaha
In fact, whether you get married or not, it's all about becoming happier.
To quote a quote, "The cat in the alley is free, but there is no home, and the dog in the wall has a home, but there is no freedom in life, and everything has two sides."
When you meet the right person to get married and have children, it's actually a natural thing, there's no need to worry about the sky. Meet a good person to start a family first, meet a noble person first choose a career, don't get married for the sake of getting married, don't see others get married, don't want to get married, don't listen to others say how bad it is to get married, don't want to get married.
No matter what, I hope my friends will be happier no matter how they live.