Text / URANUS.
Editor / Little Love Letter
In 2005, the broadcast of the TV series "Wrong Love a Life" successfully broke the ratings record of CCTV and won the ratings championship of that year.
As the heroine of it, Wen Zhengrong has naturally become the object of attention of the audience, and in the play, she has a flamboyant personality and a fierce heart, which makes people hate and itch their teeth.
In the play, Gu Yiluo is the child of a poor family, but she was replaced by a rich family, but even if she became a big miss, she still could not get what she wanted emotionally.
As the actor Wen Zhengrong's life experience is very different from Gu Yiluo in the play.
Although she was also born in a not-so-wealthy family, her parents have always loved her and supported her dreams, and even moved to the basement in order to provide wen Zhengrong with food and money to study.
In love, he can't remember Luo's love, and he can't get the true heart of the person he loves. However, Wen Zhengrong in real life is full of love and has a happy life.
She met and fell in love with her husband at university, and together they walked through the youthful campus time and eventually into marriage.
So what kind of experience did she have, and how did she run such a happy marriage?
01
Wen Zhengrong was born in 1978 in a mountainous area of Guizhou, and after her birth, her mother named her "Wen Zhengrong".
And this fame that looks a bit boyish is the best blessing given to her by her mother, hoping that her future daughter can be as strong as the mountain, and also hope that her daughter can go out of the mountain and have a better future.
Since she was a child, Wen Zhengrong has shown the difference with other children, because the home is black and white TV, so she put her mother's colorful silk scarf on the TV, looking at the characters in the TV, Wen Zhengrong will imitate it together.
Her mother gradually discovered her artistic talent, and although the living conditions at home were not good at that time, she chose to raise her daughter.
So Wen Zhengrong began to learn violin at the request of his mother, and this study was 6 years.
Although she loves music very much, the daily boring practice is still unbearable for a child who is only a few years old.
Even sometimes in order to be lazy, when her mother was cooking in the kitchen, Wen Zhengrong used her feet to pull, and when she saw her mother come out, she was hurrying to lift the violin and "pretend" her efforts.
At that time, everyone in the family wanted Wen Zhengrong to study at the Conservatory of Music in the future, but Wen Zhengrong did not think so.
She really didn't like the violin, so to avoid going down this path, she had to come up with a way.
In order to make her mother stop forcing herself to practice, she took the case to hit the railing and stomped her feet hard, just to let her know that she really didn't like it.
But I didn't expect to go to the 4th floor when I really broke my foot, and when I went to the hospital for examination, I fractured my bones.
It turned out that her method was effective, and her mother felt Wen Zhengrong's protest and pain, so she gave up the path of the conservatory.
After that, Wen Zhengrong began to learn to dance again, but it was precisely because of dancing that she had the opportunity to contact performance.
At that time, she met Wang Tingfang, a professor at the School of Arts of Gui university, and as soon as the teacher saw Wen Zhengrong, she felt that this girl was very spirited, so she accepted her as her own student and began to learn the basic course of performance.
And Wen Zhengrong does have a very high talent for acting, and this time she finally found a path that suited herself.
After studying under Teacher Wang Tingfang for a period of time, Wen Zhengrong also firmly believed that he would become an excellent actor in the future.
But in order to complete this dream, the first thing to do is to go to university to learn more professional knowledge.
In order to fulfill this dream, a family whose living conditions are not good has also suffered a lot.
At that time, the family of three lived in the basement, which had only three box-spring beds and a few simple cabinets. The most common thing eaten every day is cheap instant noodles, and only Wen Zhengrong can eat a plate of cucumber and ham sausage for 4 yuan.
It was also such a hard life that made her decide to be angry and strong, and she must be admitted to college.
So Wen Zhengrong shaved off her eyebrows so that she could study at home without thinking about going out to play.
She knew it was her only chance and she had to succeed.
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Finally it's time for the exam, that day is the exam body, the teacher does an action, the candidate can infinitely zoom in and out.
When the other candidates went up to perform, they were all well-behaved, and only Wen Zhengrong was maverick.
When it was her turn, she stood on the stage for two full minutes, motionless. After the end, she said very calmly: "Teacher, I finished performing." ”
The judge teacher was also confused and said, "You didn't move, what are you performing." ”
Unexpectedly, Wen Zhengrong replied, "I finished this dance with my soul, if you didn't see it because you didn't understand me." ”
After listening to it, the teacher felt that this girl was particularly smart and had her own ideas, and this was the quality of becoming a good actor.
So in 1997, Wen Zhengrong was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with the first professional result, which was a step forward for her to become an actress.
Unexpectedly, the actor's dream has not yet been achieved, but the bell of love is ringing at this time. At Christmas in his freshman year, Wen Zhengrong met the true love of his life.
The two people were also considered to be love at first sight and soon fell in love, but at that time, Huang Lei, as Wen Zhengrong's class teacher, did not allow students to fall in love.
But this also can't stop a girl's determination to love. At that time, every time the lights went out in the dormitory, Wen Zhengrong would climb over the wall to find a boyfriend, but if he was careful, he would still be found.
Huang Lei was very angry after knowing this, and said to Wen Zhengrong, "Be careful that I have screened you."
Even under such conditions, Wen Zhengrong and her boyfriend are still sweet and loving, and this love has continued from the campus to the society, and finally led them into marriage and family.
For Wen Zhengrong, her husband sometimes resembles his brother and sometimes his father. Because he is older than himself, he can always bring her the right direction in life and work.
Sometimes success in her career will make Wen Zhengrong a little proud, but whenever this time her husband will tell her how to correct herself and how to remain modest at all times.
For the development of the career, the husband will also give a lot of valuable advice.
At that time, Wen Zhengrong had just graduated not long ago, and when others were still playing daughters and wives, she began to challenge the role of mother.
Sometimes she also thinks about whether she should choose this way, but her husband tells Wen Zhengrong: "If this role can impress you, anything can be done." ”
Once Wen Zhengrong took over a play, and when she was about to enter the group, she was informed that she could not bring an assistant and would have to take the train. After listening, she said to her husband: "I want to go by plane, I can pay for it myself." ”
If it is someone else, they will definitely support the wife's decision, but Wen Zhengrong's husband is just the opposite, he said: "If one day Wen Zhengrong just doesn't live in a single room, doesn't sit in the first class and thinks it's wrong, you become." ”
With the support of her husband, Wen Zhengrong has become more and more stable in the path of an actor, and has gone farther and farther.
It can be said that he is not only Wen Zhengrong's husband, but more like a teacher, growing up with her and walking with her along the way.
From the first TV series "The Story of the Acting Department" to the extremely popular "Wrong Love Life" to the "Honghu Red Guards" that challenged themselves.
Along the way, Wen Zhengrong has never limited himself to a certain framework, but has constantly challenged himself, shaped different roles, and let everyone see more of himself.
03
The success of career love makes Wen Zhengrong's life very fulfilling and happy every day, but she has not been pregnant for a long time, and she has also been promoted by her parents.
But she didn't want to think of having a baby as a task, which would make her feel very stressed, and she just wanted to accept a new life naturally.
One year, just in time for Wen Zhengrong's vacation, the family was traveling to the United States. She was still surfing and playing in the sea that day, and as a result, at night, her body began to feel uncomfortable, and she had no appetite for anything.
As a result, I went to the hospital for a check-up and found that I had been pregnant for several months.
The husband and parents who heard the news were overjoyed, and the next day they invited all the good friends around them to a big dinner and announced the good news.
Now Wen Zhengrong's life is still happy and happy, and the children are slowly growing up.
It can be said that Wen Zhengrong's love is enviable, and how romantic and lucky it is to meet the person who can accompany him for a lifetime at his most beautiful age.
As for love, Wen Zhengrong also has his own views and opinions.
Since she was a child, she has been deeply influenced by her parents' love, and when she was young, her father would buy herself a flower every Valentine's Day, so that the romantic and free family atmosphere also created Wen Zhengrong's character.
In marriage, she also pays special attention to the management of love, and she believes that the communication between husband and wife is particularly important, not only verbal communication, but more importantly, the exchange of ideas.
And she also very much encourages women to have their own careers and jobs, because then you can continue to improve, become confident, and become more beautiful.
But at the same time, pay attention to leaving enough time for your family, work only makes you more excellent, but definitely not the whole of life, only the balance of the two phases can be happier.
Now that she is 43 years old, she is no longer the little girl who shed tears because of practicing violin, she is now an excellent actor, and she will continue to stick to the road of acting in the future.
Recently, the "Battle of the Roses" she participated in is also being broadcast, although it is not the heroine, but with Wen Zhengrong's superb acting skills, it will also be impressive.
In addition to her role as an actress, she is also a wife and mother.
Although she has rarely mentioned her family for so many years and has always kept a low profile, it can be seen from her state how happy her life is.
Young and in love, from youth to maturity, from students to adults, from husband and wife to parents, the two of them can be said to have had a smooth ride along the way.
Each other accompanies each other's growth and witnesses each other's success, and such love is enviable.
In the end, I also wish Wen Zhengrong such happiness all the time, and also adhere to the original intention to bring more excellent works to the audience.