"Who gently tapped me on the shoulder when they needed you the most, who was willing to share with me when they were happiest, and the days are so long, I am by your side." 」
Xu Mama's daughter-in-law Tian Jing posted a paragraph in the video, plain and plain, no wind and rain and no ups and downs, but the feelings are sincere.
She is content with this state, husband and wife work together, the children thrive, counting down the days of reunion with Xu Ma. If you think about what to do for so many days, no one can predict what will happen on the road ahead. Be yourself, enjoy the beauty, the beauty that belongs to you will eventually meet you.
If you understand these three truths, you can pack lightly and live comfortably in the layered tests.
First, dance with people of the same frequency
It doesn't matter what scenery you see, the important thing is who you go with. It doesn't matter what you do, the key is who the people around you are.
As soon as Tian Jing had extra time, she liked to accompany the children, and when she saw Qi Qiyue's bright smile, her tense nerves relaxed and stretched slightly.
People will meet many people in this life, but there are not many people who are really important to you, and their relatives plus three or five friends and people who appreciate you are the people who should not be let down the most.
The same sound can resonate, the same smell can merge with each other, and people of the same frequency can stay tired for a long time.
Whether it is friendship or family affection or love, people of the same frequency do not get tired of getting along.
Everyone has the psychological need to be understood, resonated with, and respected, and family and friends are the best candidates.
Second, learn to break away
Everyone's energy is limited, the number of people who can deal with them is limited, the things that can be taken care of are limited, and if you worry about everything, you will gain nothing but exhaust yourself or affect your mood.
Looking at the distance and looking down on the open is to save oneself and protect a good mood.
Tian Jing slowly learned self-confidence and self-reliance, and would not completely deny her own efforts and persistence because of the denial of others, and her own achievements.
To make everyone happy is delusional, some people like you, some people hate you.
Hate to let others hate to go, as long as you set up a defense line in your heart that is not affected, others are helpless to you, the most afraid of you messing up and making wrong choices.
Third, keep a busy attack state
It is better to be tired than idle, people are most afraid of idleness, and when they are idle, they have more distractions, more right and wrong, and more troubles of their own designation.
Tian Jing lives a two-point life every day, going to work and going home, doing the main business of a doctor, but also taking care of two babies, cleaning up housework and live streaming with goods, arranging life full of local, busy like a gyroscope can't stop, naturally there is no heart to hurt the spring and autumn, feel that the cards in their hands are not good, feel that the time is not with me.
Busy this thing can best cure the temperament, you feel that your fate is bitter, but traversing the world, more is suffering and grievances, countless words can not be finished, everyone has their own propositions, have their own problems to solve, the loneliest time is only yourself, you have to break out of a piece of the sky, and then see the sky full of stars and hope.
You do not slack, do not lazy, time will save a good return for you, anyway idle is idle, occasionally Ge You lie is relaxed, too long is to consume the mind, people still have to do something after all.
People are lazy and sick, and people are busy and prosperous. The real winner in life is to improve your ability and enrich your life in your busyness. The rest of your life is expensive, don't waste it.
Finally, I would like to say: life has ups and downs, you must be as firm as you are, even if the road ahead is windy, you still do not change your smile to the sun.
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