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Someone once said:
"Fame is a double-edged sword, even if it's just a little bit, you need to pay for it all the time."
As we all know, people's gender is determined from birth, but with the development and progress of science and technology, gender has also become a factor that can change people.
If the most famous domestic change from boy to girl, the first thing that comes to mind must be Venus.
Venus's experience is perhaps more exciting than many film and television dramas.
She has never had inferiority to her own experience, but is very confident, and she still has the title of "poisonous tongue" in the entertainment industry.
Venus dares to say and dare to do, and she is not used to some things in the entertainment industry, she will speak bluntly, and many actors are even more trembling in front of her.
Nowadays, it is difficult for us to see the figure of Venus in the show, and her "disappearance" is "sad" for the entire entertainment industry.
Venus, which was once "invincible", has actually come to this step.
Today, the author will introduce to you, why did Venus come to this step? How's it going now?
Called "alternative" and loved to dance
The formation of many people's personalities is closely related to his experiences as a child, and even affects the child's life.
When Venus was young, he was often taken by his mother to the bathhouse for bathing, and the reason why he used "he" was because it was before Venus's transgender.
For a child, there is not much male and female consciousness, only to listen to the words of the parents.
When Venus is five or six years old, she needs to follow her father into the men's bathhouse to take a bath.
What the parents did not expect was that Venus had a very uncomfortable feeling, and was particularly frightened and nervous.
He wished he could wear a beautiful dress, long hair, and dreamed of being "Snow White."
But in the eyes of others, this is "different", especially in that era, it was even more differently looked at by more people.
Especially the male students in the class, no less scolding Venus.
He and the female classmates in the class can mingle, but he is not a girl, and from that time on, his heart has planted the seeds of being a girl.
In order to escape the ridicule of her classmates, Venus wants to enter the literary troupe to learn to dance.
At first, the parents did not particularly agree, but seeing that Venus was so persistent, they agreed.
Although it was in that era, Venus's parents were more open-minded and would support their children in whatever they wanted.
It is also because of such parents that Venus in the future can be more confident and courageous to do surgery.
After entering the literary troupe, Venus enjoyed dancing very much, and danced better than most talented girls.
He also won the Taolin Cup and the opportunity to study abroad.
It is also this time to go abroad that Venus has completely changed.
To be a woman, there is no danger
At that time, Venus went abroad and was exposed to a lot of things he didn't know.
In 1990, Venus, who liked men, married a woman, but not because of love, but for a green card.
The woman, a classmate of Venus', wanted to live in Venus's apartment for free, and Venus wanted a green card.
At the time, there were even cases where three people lived in an apartment because his classmates had brought in their boyfriends.
Venus, who had not yet received a green card, quickly ended this wordless marriage relationship.
Although Venus wanted to become a woman, she also fell in love with two foreign men during this period.
That is, during his time abroad, Venus met a good friend and has since moved the idea of becoming a woman.
But at this time, Venus is already famous in the dance circle, and this move will definitely cause a sensation.
And Venus feels that it is strange to do the "woman" thing with the identity of a man.
As a result, he was opposed by everyone, but his own parents supported him.
At that moment, Venus was relieved because he knew that his parents had given him gender, but he wanted to be himself more.
With the support of her parents, Venus bravely walked into the hospital and went to the operating table.
On April 5, 1995, Venus underwent surgery at Xiangshan Hospital in Beijing.
The operation lasted 16 hours, and the process was not only long but also painful, and he died of pain on the operating table.
The operation was over, and the doctor gave her good news and bad news.
The good news is that Venus changed from "he" to "she", and the bad news is that Venus's left calf is necrotic due to improper operation by the nurse and can no longer walk normally.
Both things about being a woman and dancing are very important in Venus's mind.
Now although I have successfully become a "woman", but I can't dance, what a big blow.
Fortunately, Venus was not crushed, and during the eight-month long recovery, Venus successfully stood up and could dance normally.
This moment has been fulfilled in The Heart of Venus!
Become a mother and meet marriage again
After truly becoming a woman, Venus, like many women, came up with the idea of being a "mother".
She told her mother that she wanted to adopt a child and hoped that her mother would pay more attention.
One day in 2000, Venus's mother was visiting her comrades in the hospital when she happened to encounter the arrival of a newborn.
But the parents of this newborn didn't want much to raise the child because of financial constraints.
Venus's mother heard the news and immediately proposed the idea of adopting.
After completing all the adoption procedures, Venus successfully became a mother and named the child "Toot Toot".
Later, Venus adopted two children in succession.
Venus, who is not yet married, is now the mother of three children.
What Venus didn't know was that the father of the three children was also quietly approaching him.
In 2004, venus met her future husband, Hans, while on a plane.
In fact, when she met Hans, Venus had a boyfriend, but she did not expect that this person would become her husband.
The two left their contact information on the plane, and within a few days, Hans expressed his love to Venus.
Venus confesses her origins, and Hans says he doesn't care.
From Hans, Venus felt stable and love, so she broke up with her boyfriend and was with Hans.
The following year, the two people officially married and obtained a license.
This time it was Venus's second marriage, but it was her first time as a bride.
This incident has once again caused an uproar at home and abroad, and almost everyone believes that this marriage will not last long.
As everyone thought, the two divorced the following year.
But not because of the breakdown of feelings, but because of the children's schooling, they had to get a divorce.
Venus completed her metamorphosis, from a man to a woman, and became someone else's mother and wife.
She thought she must be the most successful woman in the world.
From the peak to the trough, the "invincible" Venus has also come to this step
Venus in marriage and feelings was fulfilled, so she began to focus on her career.
In fact, Venus is indeed a big guy in dancing, and has a more poisonous eye than many people.
She has participated in many dance competitions and has been training more dancers and promoting various dance styles.
The status of Venus in the entertainment industry is still relatively high, because many stars are particularly afraid of Venus's "mouth".
Unlike other stars, Venus doesn't care about other people's eyes at all.
If she had cared too much about other people's eyes, Venus wouldn't have had surgery.
Therefore, in the entertainment industry, Venus has become a star who dares to say and do it, and is quick to talk.
This also made her gain a very good reputation in the circle.
In order to play to their own advantages, in 2015, the "Venus Show" hosted by Venus landed on Oriental Satellite TV.
Once it was broadcast, it attracted the love of many viewers.
Unlike other talk shows, Venus asks some particularly sharp questions from stars.
And these are precisely the questions that the audience wants to know the most.
Not only that, Venus was crowned by the audience as a "poisonous tongue" by the audience with the courage to speak and criticize.
In the program, Venus bravely exposed the undesirable phenomena of the industry such as the use of stand-ins for traffic stars to shoot dramas, and the drug use of celebrities, which greatly resonated with the audience.
However, it is precisely because of the "poisonous tongue" that offends the interests of certain groups, and the "Venus Show" is forced to stop broadcasting.
Although the "Venus Show" was forced to stop broadcasting, Venus still dared to speak out.
As a jealous and hateful person, as long as Venus can't see it, she will be brave enough to stand up.
For example, in this beating incident in a certain area, Venus has repeatedly spoken out for the victims and condemned the beaters.
Even the unfair portrayal of some state media is blunt.
But what everyone did not expect was that Venus had played too much and was banned by the platform.
Especially under the influence of various factors, Venus never returned home, but in France.
All kinds of shows have also been forced to stop, and as an audience, I have not seen Venus on the stage for a long time.
For the "disappearance" of Venus, it must be the "sadness" of the entertainment industry.
Because there are really fewer and fewer people in the entertainment industry like Venus who dare to tell the truth.
I didn't think that Venus, which was once "invincible", has also come to this step, but I still hope to continue to see Venus.
After all, her presence, her words, is too precious.
"Conclusion":
Venus must be a controversial person in the entertainment industry, there are many people like it, and many people hate it.
But her authenticity, sharpness, and sobriety are something that many people don't have.
Her experience is wonderful enough, of course, full of drama, but everyone has their own way of life, and their own happiness is the most important.
Venus's life may be painful, but the process is unparalleled for her.
Dare to face her own past, face her own experience different from others, her courage is worth learning from each of us.
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