In 1993, Hong Kong media reported that Lin Jianyue, a wealthy Hong Kong businessman, spent 30 million yuan to buy a mansion for Wang Zuxian and divorced her and his wife Xie Lingling.
In the same year, Yu Baozhu, the mother of Lin Jianyue, who was distressed about her daughter-in-law, angrily rebuked Wang Zuxian through the media: "Just when my son spent 30 million yuan to find a J!" ”
In 1995, Lin Jianyue and Xie Lingling formally divorced, and she became a rich abandoned woman.
However, it is the mutation of this role that has made Xie Lingling's legendary life. From a rich abandoned woman to a single parent hot mother, to a strong woman in the investment industry, an amateur female painter, and a charity advocate, she has grown up in every role and broken into a butterfly in the precipitation of the years.
In September 1956, Xie Lingling was born in Taiwan to a warm and loving family, with nine brothers and sisters. Xie Lingling is the sixth oldest, she looked very beautiful and lovely when she was a child, and her big sparkling eyes were very spirited, so she was also deeply loved by her parents.
In 1964, at the age of eight, Xie Lingling, with her fresh and beautiful appearance, defeated more than a thousand audition girls and became the role of the childhood Wanjun in the Chinese film "Wanjun Cousin".
Xie Lingling's natural and unpretentious performance in this play not only won the love of the audience, but also won the Best Child Star Award at the 4th Golden Horse Awards; The following year, she won the Fifth Golden Horse Award and the Best Child Star Award at the Asian Film Festival with "My Daughter Ruolan", and since then Xie Lingling has been hailed as a contemporary genius child star.
Young and famous, the foreseeable star path is open.
As time flew by, Xie Lingling grew up, and at the age of 20, she came out bright and moving.
Qiong Yao, known as the originator of romance novels, praised her: "Heaven! She is truly amazingly beautiful, as beautiful as a dream! Her fair skin was almost translucent, and she was like a work of art carved out of crystal."
Since then, Xie Lingling has become Qiong Yao's favorite actress, in 1978 and 1979, in just two years, she shot more than a dozen movies in a row, variety shows asked her to be the host, magazines asked her to shoot covers, her popularity is getting wider and wider.
Although the Taiwanese showbiz circle at that time was already the era of Lin Qingxia and Lin Fengjiao dominating the screen, the starlight of the two could never cover the light of Xie Lingling.
Xie Lingling played the female number two in Qiong Yao's movie "Moon Hazy Bird Haze", her one-shot performance is not inferior to the heroine Lin Qingxia, and the media once praised her as the biggest surprise in this film.
This is not only a compliment to her appearance, but also an affirmation of her acting skills. After that, Lin Qingxia once regarded Xie Lingling as her idol.
Fading the aura of a child star, she is still shining and dazzling.
Although she has been involved in the show business since childhood, Xie Lingling from the care of her parents and traditional family education is very simple, her social circle is very small, and the number of men she has come into contact with is even more numerous.
Fate always comes inadvertently, and with the passage of time, the gathering of fate is the most fundamental background of life, and no one can overcome it.
At the age of 23, Xie Lingling met a man who changed her destiny. Lin Jianyue, the eldest son of Lin Baixin, founder of Lixin Group, and Yu Baozhu, the second wife of the second house.
Star hunting is usually the standard of the giants, and Xie Lingling, who is unique in style, has naturally become the object of Lin Jianyue's pursuit. The rich man played romance and pampering, that is, few people can resist, the simple nature of Xie Lingling fell step by step, she fell in love with Lin Jianyue, and decided to give up the career of the sun and marry him.
In 1980, the Lin family was hired six times in three books, and Xie Lingling married as a Lin housewife. Xie Lingling, who married into a wealthy family, came to Live in Hong Kong from Taiwan, and her life has changed its trajectory ever since.
From her parents' good tutoring, she quickly won the recognition and love of her in-laws.
In the second year after marriage, Xie Lingling gave birth to her eldest son, Lin Xiaoxian, and in the following years, she gave birth to four more children for the Lin family. However, the golden combination of three women and two men did not stop her husband's heart.
Since ancient times, there are many prodigal sons. With the successful expansion of the Lin family's business territory into the entertainment industry, Hong Kong sister Yuan Yongyi, Ya sister Weng Hong, and Wan Qiwen have all become Lin Jianyue's gossip girlfriends, but these rumors Xie Lingling has never paid attention to.
She turned a blind eye, thinking that one day her husband would turn back to the prodigal son. Xie Lingling while raising children while serving her in-laws, the emperor did not pay off, her forbearance and dedication, not only touched the mother-in-law Yu Baozhu, but also became a model of a good daughter-in-law of the family.
At that time, Yu Baozhu would take her with him no matter what activities he participated in, and let her get involved in the family business, and really wanted to train her to be his heir.
The appearance of the public lover Wang Zuxian broke all the balance, lin Jianyue threw 30 million yuan for her to buy a mansion, and promised Wang Zuxian: "As long as you agree, I will divorce my wife immediately."
This sentence infuriated Yu Baozhu, who was extremely fond of her daughter-in-law, and she not only angrily scolded Wang Zuxian in public, but also repeatedly said that she only recognized Xie Lingling as her only daughter-in-law in her lifetime.
Her husband is always gossiping, and traditional education makes Xie Lingling choose to be patient most of the time, thinking that as long as he still goes home, as long as he can make her stand in front of outsiders, this home will still be there.
But this time is different, Xie Lingling just learned from the newspaper that within a few days of the scandal, her husband officially filed for divorce and moved out of the house.
Just because you don't care doesn't mean there's no bottom line. As a Virgo, Xie Lingling's own perfectionism in her bones made her lose confidence in this marriage, and she chose to let go.
When the reporter asked her how to make up her mind to divorce, she said calmly: "My personality is to love face, you let a man do this to you, if you don't let go, is it a dignified woman?" Even if you forcibly retain, your other half will not look up to you, your children will not look up to you, you will not get the respect of others, such a day, I will definitely not be able to stand it. ”
In 1993, she and Lin Jianyue agreed to separate, and in 1995, the marriage that lasted for 15 years finally came to an end.
Wang Zuxian was also discredited because of this, and he left his hometown and is still unmarried.
Lin Jianyue still has not stopped his star-chasing journey, after the divorce his girlfriends have emerged, the youngest one is 24 years younger than him, and no one has become his wife again.
Human growth is usually not related to age, an experience, a small thing will become an opportunity for transformation.
After the divorce, the first thing Xie Lingling did was to remove her husband's surname and become "Miss Xie" again.
However, the failure of the marriage still brought harm to Xie Lingling, she often lost sleep and was anxious, and it took almost two years for her to really come out of the trough.
During this period, she read a lot of biographies and inspirational books, and actively learned various new knowledge. At the age of 40, she learned English from scratch, practicing with her personal trainer during the day and reading English books at night, so that later English books became her best "sleeping pills".
As a result, she can choose a foreign boarding school for her children, accept school interviews, and attend all parent-teacher conferences.
The best way to forget her hurt is to keep herself busy, and Xie Lingling and her friends have partnered to open a clothing company, so she travels to the mainland almost every week. Although it was hard, the busy life gave her no extra time to immerse herself in pain, so although the clothing business was not very good, it helped her get through that difficult time.
Xie Lingling, with the support of her in-laws, got a "sky-high" break-up fee of 400 million yuan, and she turned to invest in the mainland real estate market, and the successful investment made her earn a lot of money and became an invisible rich woman.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
The education of children has always been a top priority for a family and even a country. Because she grew up in Taiwan, Xie Lingling's educational concept is very traditional. After she actually lived in Hong Kong, she gradually emancipated her mind under the influence of the international environment.
Xie Lingling once said frankly in an interview: "When they were young, I didn't treat them as friends, I treated them as children, and they were beaten when they were young. ”
Because the children's personalities are different, Xie Lingling compares a little and chooses a school suitable for their children's personalities.
Growing up in a privileged family environment and being extroverted, Xie Lingling sent her to a traditional British girls' school; The eldest son is more introverted, Xie Lingling in order to exercise his social skills, she chose a lively atmosphere for the eldest son to choose a positive atmosphere of the boys' and girls' schools, so that he can contact more different people and things.
So no matter what country her children are in around the world, Xie Lingling has never missed a parent-teacher conference for her children. Reading thousands of books is not as good as walking a thousand miles, and Xie Lingling, who is well versed in this way, lets her children go to different places in the world to learn and feel different cultural atmospheres, and she flies around the world to take care of herself.
A marriage change changed Xie Lingling's values and life path, and her personal experience made her attach great importance to her daughter's education.
She often taught her daughter: "The most important thing for a woman is to gain the ability to survive independently." Otherwise, you can't get the real initiative in life. ”
Since she was a child, the eldest daughter has gone to poor countries alone to volunteer, to help others paint houses, to take care of the elderly in nursing homes... When I got home, my feet were full of bags that had been bitten by mosquitoes.
The second daughter and the youngest daughter went to the mountains of the interior to teach English at a very young age. These experiences not only enriched the daughters' life experience, but also let them understand the various changes in life.
According to the talents of the ancients, there are very few rich mothers like Xie Lingling who are willing to let their daughters go through the experience.
Today, the daughters not only succeed in their studies, but also actively participate in and organize charitable activities under the words and deeds of their mothers.
Once the sea was shipwrecked as water, except for the Wushan Mountain is not a cloud.
Xie Lingling's marriage did not stay on the news page for a long time, and for a mrs. Kuo who had lived in a deep house for a long time, the attention from the public brought her great pressure.
In order to alleviate the pressure, Xie Lingling began to learn to paint, Pu Xinshe, Zhang Daqian, Huang Junbi, these three are great painters who went to Taiwan from the mainland, and the Taiwanese painting circle called them "three families crossing the sea".
Teacher Huang Junbi was the teacher of Chiang Kai-shek's wife, Soong Mei Ling, and Xie Lingling was his closed disciple.
From the beginning to the end of the process of relieving the boredom to the end of the learning, all this is not easy.
When Xie Lingling began to organize a charity exhibition, she donated the proceeds of her exhibition to the charity fund; In the inner donation to build a number of hope primary and secondary schools, actively participate in various charity activities, I have to sigh, once a woman rises, the energy can not be underestimated.
As Xie Lingling said in the interview program: "I feel very lucky, but in addition to being lucky, I still need to work hard, so after the divorce, I kept learning, constantly adding value to myself, and always maintained the heart of keeping pace with the times." ”
From Miss Xie to Mrs. Lin and back to Miss Xie, such a high and low life is a big challenge for her, and Xie Lingling is very grateful for the growth opportunity brought by the pain of divorce, which also makes her more confident.
In Xie Lingling's life, there was someone who gave her the strongest support in her most difficult and painful time. This person was her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu.
To get the true heartache and love of the rich mother-in-law, Xie Lingling not only paid for the action but also paid her own sincerity.
Xie Lingling's parents taught her very early on that she must respect filial piety from her heart, because this is a very important relationship in a person's life. Therefore, when she married into the Lin family, she has always scrupulously kept her duty and served her in-laws with all her heart, people's hearts are long, feelings are mutual, and her sincerity is waiting to get the help of her mother-in-law.
Xie Lingling once said bluntly in a talk show that she is a person with a temperament, often showing joy and sorrow on her face, her mother-in-law is very good at "observing the color", once she is in a bad mood, Yu Baozhu will tell the children: "Your mother is unhappy again, everyone be careful." "This is the true feeling that can only be revealed in front of the family."
So although Xie Lingling and Lin Jianyue divorced, she still devoted herself to serving her former mother-in-law. When her father-in-law died, Xie Lingling appeared next to her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu in time to accompany her through the most painful stage of her life.
Xie Lingling spends every year with her mother-in-law's birthday, often appears with Yu Baozhu, and the two often interact intimately, and are still the enviable former mother-in-law.
In November 2020, Xie Lingling was diagnosed with new crown pneumonia and was once issued a critical illness notice; Through this illness, she understood the preciousness of life even more. Gratitude and cherishing the present have become her latest life creed.
Recently, Xie Lingling posted beautiful photos on her social platform, as always graceful and luxurious, beautiful and moving, time seems to have stopped flowing here.
Epilogue:
Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said: Born as a person, in the end, you must not do a few stupid things and wrong things, eat fruits that should not be eaten, and love things that are not worthy of love.
Nowadays, a happy marriage is no longer the only criterion for measuring women's happiness, and the abundance and independence of the heart are the source of women's true happiness.
With the passage of time, Xie Lingling has reshaped her life, and the "rich abandoned woman" of that year has transformed into a rich man, and she is a proper winner in life.
Uncle Chai wishes her happiness and health in the days to come!
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【Text |.】 Yaqin 】
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