In the 90s, Xie Lingling was definitely the most expensive daughter-in-law of a wealthy family.
Because of Wang Zuxian's involvement, she chose to divorce her rich husband, but even if she was divorced, her mother-in-law was still on her side.
not only gave up his 5 grandchildren to help her get custody,
also suppressed his son and won her a property of 400 million Hong Kong dollars.
To do this as a wealthy daughter-in-law, Xie Lingling can be regarded as unprecedented and unprecedented.
However, Xie Lingling does have her advantages, just a few years after the divorce, she joined the business world and her value skyrocketed.
Even if he is no longer a wealthy man, he can still make Lin Qingxia envious.
When talking about her former rival Wang Zuxian, she said very generously:
"If I could meet her again, I would give her a hug. ”
Maybe in her legendary life, Wang Zuxian is just a hurried passer-by, a poor woman.
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Xie Lingling was born in an ordinary family in Taiwan, she has five sisters, a younger sister, two younger brothers, and a total of 9 brothers and sisters.
Even if both parents have a stable income, it is difficult to raise so many children, and it is difficult to live in a stretched capacity.
In 1964, China Film adapted Qiong Yao's novel "Pursuit" into the movie "Cousin Wanjun", and openly selected child stars to play "Wanjun".
At that time, there were many people who participated in the selection, more than 1,700 people, but after layers of selection, this opportunity fell to 8-year-old Xie Lingling.
Her fate changed as a result.
In 1965, "Cousin Wanjun" was released, which caused a great sensation at the time, and Xie Lingling became an instant hit and became the brightest child star at that time.
Even Qiong Yao was not stingy with her praise, saying that she was beautiful, like a handicraft carved out of crystal.
The next year, Xie Lingling, who was in the limelight, filmed the movie "My Daughter Ruolan" again, with these two works, Xie Lingling won the Golden Horse Award for Best Child Star for two consecutive years.
and is known as a genius child star.
Since then, Xie Lingling has been active in the film and television industry, and in 1978 and 1979 alone, she participated in 14 movies.
But it's a pity that it was the era of "Erlin" at that time, and even Xie Lingling could only play a supporting role for Lin Qingxia.
After the release of "The Moon is Hazy and the Bird is Hazy", many media commented that Xie Lingling is the biggest surprise of the film.
Her light faintly overshadows the heroine Lin Qingxia.
Lin Qingxia is only two years older than Xie Lingling, and the two should be in a competitive relationship, but Lin Qingxia sincerely admired,
said that Xie Lingling was so beautiful and perfect that even she would be envious.
However, Xie Lingling, who should have had an infinite star career, ended her career as an actor prematurely because of the appearance of a person.
Since then, he has married into a wealthy family and lived a rich life as a husband and children.
And this person is the wealthy businessman Lin Jianyue.
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Speaking of Lin Jianyue, I have to talk about his biological mother Yu Baozhu.
Yu Baozhu is Lin Baixin's second wife, she came from a humble background, and was originally just an ordinary employee in a garment factory.
But later, with her unique vision in business, she was recognized by Lin Baixin step by step.
and married her home as a second wife.
Lin Baixin's wife is called Lai Yuanfang, although her personal ability is average, she is a beautiful lady with a deep family background.
He has contributed a lot to Lin Baixin's career development.
Therefore, when Yu Baozhu learned that she could only be a child, she did not have any complaints, and wholeheartedly served as a good husband's virtuous helper and gave him advice.
Later, Lin Baixin married the third wife and the fourth wife one after another, and she didn't say anything to stop it, and she didn't even show any unhappiness.
Therefore, among the four-room wives, Lin Baixin's favorite is Yu Baozhu, although her appearance is very ordinary, her status in the family has never wavered.
And Lin Jianyue is the son born to her and Lin Baixin, the so-called son is precious by his mother, and Lin Jianyue has become the most important son of his father Lin Baixin.
However, Lin Jianyue, like many rich second generations at that time, was an out-and-out playboy, hunting for beauty in the entertainment industry every day.
In the end, he set his sights on Xie Lingling, who was in her prime.
Although Xie Lingling started filming at the age of 8, she has always been well protected by her parents, and every time she goes out to work, her parents accompany her throughout the process.
After work, they went home together, there was no too complicated communication, and they never fell in love, and they didn't know the nature of these playboys.
In order to chase Xie Lingling, Lin Jianyue can be said to be painstaking, for him, the means of chasing girls are also very rough, that is, smashing with money,
Every time Xie Lingling sees a piece of clothing, he has to spend a lot of money to buy out all the styles and colors of this dress to ensure that Xie Lingling will not collide with others.
He even said to Xie Lingling:
"All the clothes I'm going to let you wear are out of print. ”
In 1980, when she was only 23 years old, she gave up her good future.
Xiying married Lin Jianyue.
Everyone knows that marrying into a wealthy family seems to be beautiful, but there are many rules, and her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu is also a very strong person, known as "the ghost of the shopping mall".
It can be seen how difficult she is.
Unexpectedly, Xie Lingling and her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu turned out to be very close to each other, although she was once a beautiful female star,
But when facing her mother-in-law, she was extraordinarily docile, and listened to her mother-in-law's teachings to be a good helper to her husband.
In the second year of marriage, Xie Lingling gave birth to her eldest son, and then gave birth to two daughters one after another, but her father-in-law and mother-in-law still said that the family was not prosperous enough.
So not long after, Xie Lingling gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and the whole family took her as a hero.
But Xie Lingling was not proud of this, while teaching her husband and children, she also honored her in-laws, and sometimes her husband Lin Jianyue was out of the flowers.
She also turned a blind eye and never made a big noise, saving the face of the family.
For all kinds of reasons, her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu directly treated her as her daughter, and after giving birth to 5 sons in 7 years,
Her mother-in-law often took her with her to train her, teaching her how to do business, and she was also very smart and never disappointed her mother-in-law.
Lin Jianyue becoming the heir of the family is an ironclad thing, if nothing else, Xie Lingling will become the biggest help in his career in the future.
But at this time, Lin Jianyue's old problem was committed again, and there was an affair with Wang Zuxian in 1992.
In 1993, he spent 30 million yuan to buy a villa and a golden house, and lived a cohabitation life with Wang Zuxian.
In the past, Lin Jianyue had a scandal or something, Xie Lingling never cared about it, but this time, she was really angry.
Although her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu tried her best to keep her, she still chose to divorce and officially ended her 15-year marriage in 1995.
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After the divorce, what Lin Jianyue wanted to do most was to marry the young and beautiful Wang Zuxian home, but in the eyes of his mother Yu Baozhu,
Only Xie Lingling is a qualified daughter-in-law of the Lin family, and she only recognizes Xie Lingling, a daughter-in-law.
In order to prevent Wang Zuxian from entering the door, she used the strength of her whole family to block it, and said that Wang Zuxian was just a prostitute that her son spent money on.
This incident caused a sensation in Hong Kong, and Wang Zuxian was also discredited.
In 1996, Wang Zuxian, who had been waiting for many years to no avail, could only break up with Lin Jianyue, and then chose to go to Canada for treatment, and soon after reunited with his ex-boyfriend Qi Qin.
But just when the two were about to get married, Qi Qin's ex-girlfriend suddenly came to the door with her son and demanded a huge amount of compensation.
Wang Zuxian was stunned, she didn't expect that Qi Qin would make such a "little mistake", and he had been hiding it from her.
In addition to being disappointed, she went abroad again, with green lights and yellow rolls, and never married.
Compared with Wang Zuxian's many unsatisfactory achievements, Xie Lingling seems to be a new life after the divorce, even in the face of a behemoth like the Lin family,
She also fought for the custody of her five children and the property she should have after the divorce.
She can pay for her husband without regrets, but it doesn't mean that she is a weak person.
After more than ten years of wealthy life, she has already been reborn and has become a strong woman who can take charge of herself.
At that time, everyone was not optimistic about Xie Lingling, because compared to the Lin family, she was too small.
I don't think she can take anything away from the Lin family.
What is surprising is that even if she is divorced, her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu is still on her side to support her.
not only helped her get custody of her children, but also won her a property of 400 million Hong Kong dollars.
With this money in hand, even if Xie Lingling doesn't do anything and sits on the mountain, she won't be able to spend it in a few lifetimes.
However, Xie Lingling did not do so.
During the period when she had just divorced, Xie Lingling was indeed depressed for a while, when she was almost 40 years old.
Shaohua is no more, his career is gone, and he has lost the aura of a wealthy lady in the past.
Therefore, she did not dare to go out for a long time, for fear of being ridiculed, and even more worried that her former best friends would turn a blind eye to her.
But fortunately, these friends of hers were all right, and they all came to comfort her and said to her:
"No matter how your identity changes, we are always good friends, and we believe that you can live well alone. ”
With the support of her friend and mother-in-law Yu Baozhu, Xie Lingling quickly cheered up, she began to devote herself to the business and business, and also invested in a lot of real estate.
Now these properties alone have given her the title of "10 billion charter wife".
After the divorce, she also understood a truth.
Although she and Lin Jianyue have divorced, her 5 children are still surnamed Lin, and this blood connection cannot be broken.
Therefore, she treats her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu and father-in-law Lin Baixin as before, and even her house is near Lin's house.
It is convenient to visit the father-in-law and mother-in-law at any time, and it is also convenient for the parents-in-law to come and see the children.
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Xie Lingling is a strict mother in educating her children, and even pursues stick education.
She sent her daughters to learn ballet, violin, and her sons to learn kung fu, and taught them from an early age:
"You must read more books, and you will have to rely on yourself for everything in the future. ”
In order to set an example for her children, she herself is constantly learning and enriching herself.
In her spare time, she learned skills such as painting, horseback riding, and skiing, and although she was not married, her life was very colorful.
So much so that when Lin Qingxia saw her, she looked at her and admired her sincerely:
"After so many years, you still make me so envious. ”
In 2005, her father-in-law Lin Baixin died, and Xie Lingling also went to attend her father-in-law's funeral, and her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu held her hand throughout the whole process.
And let her sit in the front row with her.
After Lin Baixin died, the huge family property was in the hands of Yu Baozhu and Lin Jian's mother-in-law.
Yu Baozhu, who is over eighty years old, can be said to be in power, and he says everything at home.
She not only set aside the largest room for Xie Lingling, but also ordered the servants in the house to call Xie Lingling Mrs. and no other titles.
If someone shouts wrong, the old lady will be furious, emphasizing that no matter what time it is, Xie Lingling is her only daughter-in-law.
This made Xie Lingling very moved.
On Yu Baozhu's 90th birthday, Xie Lingling also knelt on the ground to serve tea to express her blessings and filial piety to her mother-in-law.
And when she celebrated her birthday, her mother-in-law Yu Baozhu also sent her flowers to celebrate her birthday.
After the divorce, the relationship between the two not only did not become estranged, but became closer and closer.
Now, Xie Lingling has been divorced from Lin Jianyue for 29 years, she has not only become a strong woman, but also worth a lot of money.
He also devoted himself to public welfare undertakings and donated hundreds of hope primary schools.
It has become a model among independent women.
Many years later, when talking about Wang Zuxian, she said very sincerely, if I can see her, I will definitely give her a hug.
More than 20 years have passed, Xie Lingling has completely let go of this grievance, on the one hand, it is related to her generosity, and on the other hand, she is strong enough.
Back then, when Lin Jianyue was pursuing Wang Zuxian, Wang Zuxian did not agree immediately, because she knew that Lin Jianyue was a person with a wife.
In the end, Lin Jianyue promised Wang Zuxian that he would definitely divorce and then marry her.
In the final analysis, Wang Zuxian, like her, is a poor woman who has been let down by Lin Jianyue.
When talking about her marriage, Xie Lingling said that life cannot be perfect, she is just unsatisfactory in marriage.
In other ways, she considers herself happy and content.
And she also repeatedly emphasized that a happy woman must have a good marriage,
If you really can't have it, then you must work your own and find a way to become independent.
After Lin Jianyue divorced Xie Lingling, he never married a wife or had no other children.
Now their eldest son, Lin Xiaoxian, has worked in the family business, and has also achieved the positions of executive director, chief executive officer, vice president and so on.
It is foreseeable that in the near future, Xie Lingling will become the second Yu Baozhu and become a real winner in life.