Text: Black Dogs
Ten years ago, Hu Ge said in an interview:
"I've stepped on two boats, and it's particularly difficult to pedal two boats because I'm too tired, too guilty, and it's very painful for all three parties."
At that time, everyone speculated that the "two boats" that Hu Ge stepped on were Jiang Shuying and Xue Jianing.
Whether it is or not, no one knows.
Ten years later, Tanabata, a special day, Hu Ge has disappeared!
Someone found out that he had actually gone to Tibet. Not to travel, but to pick up trash.
Surprised? Surprised?
Surprisingly, the big handsome guy didn't date; Surprisingly, as a star, I completely disregarded the burden of idols.
In fact, Hu Ge became a green environmental protection protector as early as 2013, silently doing his part for environmental protection.
Hu Ge, as a rare high-quality idol in the entertainment industry, not only has online acting skills, but also attaches great importance to righteousness.
The only groove may be the unruly words he said in an interview many years ago- "It is normal for men to spend their hearts." ”
In fact, Hu Ge didn't bother at all, but there were more scandals.
Who called him so handsome!
01
"Ke Fan Listens", Hu Ge was asked, "What is the most regrettable thing in thirty years?" ”
He let out a long sigh and said, "After that incident, I thanked many people, but I never thanked my girlfriend at the time in public, which is my biggest regret." ”
That incident, of course, refers to the car accident.
In 2006, Hu Ge suffered a serious car accident during the filming of "The Legend of the Eagle Shooter".
The severity of that car accident is no less than Lin Zhiying's this time, by the way, our little Zhi brother has passed the dangerous period and transferred to the general ward.
At the moment of the car accident, the female assistant Zhang Mian immediately pounced on Hu Ge and protected him with her body, but she lost her young life.
Hu Ge was seriously injured, comatose on the spot, did 10 surgeries before and after, and stitched more than 100 stitches on his neck and right eye, but fortunately he finally recovered a life.
Because he was unconscious on the spot, Hu Ge did not know that Zhang Mian had left, and when he woke up the next day, he happily said to his friends who came to visit him, "I am fine, don't worry." ”
When a friend told him, "Zhang Mian is gone," his tears burst out of his eyes in an instant.
After learning of this matter, Mr. Jin Yong also gave an inscription:
"After surviving the great difficulties, there will be great achievements, continue to work hard, and eventually become a great instrument."
Hu Ge's girlfriend at that time was "Ha Sister" Xue Jianing, a girl with a smile like a flower and a pure heart.
The acquaintance of the two stemmed from the introduction of their friend Yuan Hong.
At that time, Hu Ge was filming "The Legend of the Paladin Sword", and Yuan Hong was filming "Peerless in the World" in another crew. In his spare time, Hu Ge often ran to his brother's crew to visit the door.
One day, Hu Ge said, "Alas, brother, the girl in your crew who laughed and had two dimples laughed, she didn't look good. ”
Yuan Hong laughed loudly, "It turns out that your boy has ulterior motives in running to me every day." ”
Later, through Yuan Hong's introduction, Hu Ge met Xue Jianing.
Xue Jianing's family style is pure, well educated, beautiful and good-looking.
Everyone will definitely ask, since Xue Jianing is so good and has the same crew as Yuan Hong, why doesn't he start himself?
The main reason is that Yuan Hongsheng is shy, even if he has this heart, he can't erase his face, and later after Hu Ge said so, he was even more unlikely to start.
Moreover, Yuan Hong was somewhat unconfident at that time. He once revealed in an interview:
"When the new students reported to the play, I saw Hu Ge's first glance, and my self-confidence was all gone."
If Yuan Hong, who was near the water tower at that time, started first, it is estimated that there would be no "second sister" Zhang Xinyi in the future.
After all, Yuan Hong is one of the few infatuated men in the entertainment industry who is loyal to love and marriage.
At that time, the relationship between Hu Ge and Xue Jianing progressed very rapidly, and under the nourishment of love, the acting careers of both sides also went all the way up.
Hu Ge, in particular, has had ten works published in just three years. The 2005 costume fairy drama "The Legend of the Paladin Sword" directly sent him into the queue of A-list stars.
It is precisely because of the hot that the director of "The Legend of the Eagle Hero" fell in love with him, but the bad luck has quietly come.
After the car accident, Xue Jianing pushed off all her work, rushed to the hospital at the first time, and took care of Hu Ge meticulously.
Under the careful care of Xue Jianing, Hu Ge recovered quickly, and it took only 10 months to announce his comeback.
Subsequently, he went on to shoot "The Legend of the Archery Hero". When he saw the wounds on his face that had not yet fully recovered in the monitor, Hu Ge's heart was faintly painful.
But he gritted his teeth and insisted, and after the last shot was shot, he couldn't hold back any longer and cried loudly.
This crying is a kind of release, a kind of catharsis, and it is also a thought of the assistant Zhang Mian.
Over the years, in order to commemorate Zhang Mian, who sacrificed her life to save herself, Hu Ge donated more than 30 schools to poor areas in her name.
Perhaps only in this way can we comfort Zhang Mian's spirit in heaven and let my heart get some comfort.
02
Not long after the filming of "The Legend of the Eagle Shooter", Hu Ge broke up with Xue Jianing.
As for the reason, Hu Ge revealed in "Lu Yu Has a Date" that the main reason is that her mother feels that Xue Jianing is not good and does not agree with the two to go further.
Mother Hu has very high requirements for her daughter-in-law, and even Hu Ge herself complained that by her standards, she is either a scientist or a postdoctoral fellow.
Moreover, at that time, Mother Hu, who was suffering from breast cancer, had been in poor health.
On the one hand is family affection, on the other side is love, Hu Ge can only choose one of them.
Years later, Hu Ge said:
"At the time, I could choose to rebel against my mother and be with her, but that would definitely affect the family. My mother is not in good health, the family is noisy and noisy, how to get it? I still have to take care of the overall situation, after all, I want to live a life, if I marry home hard, what will I do in the future? ”
In order to take care of his mother's feelings, he gave up a period of true love, and had to say that Hu Ge was a mother, but Lu Yu seemed to be a little unable to look at it.
The scene directly shook, "That means that you don't love her enough, otherwise you will fight against the whole world for her." ”
In a word, Hu Ge was speechless.
In fact, Hu Ge is very interested in this feeling.
After all, true love.
It's just that love is not so inseparable!
After the breakup, he was in a bad mood and drunk himself, and then sent a Weibo.
Regret is really regret, maybe Hu Ge fought for it in his mother, but in the end he gave up.
Because Xue Jianing took care of Hu Ge inseparably, he stayed away from the entertainment circle for a long time, and his career was once stagnant.
Hu Ge felt that he owed Xue Jianing too much and always wanted to make up for it. After the breakup, he did not hesitate to reduce his salary to win a role for Xue Jianing and instructed the director not to tell her.
But the intelligent Xue Jianing, when she saw the production team and the star lineup, concluded that if there was no one to help her fight for this role, she would not take her turn at all. Therefore, I declined the invitation of the crew.
Because, she never felt that Hu Ge had anything to do to her.
In the 2015 "Langya List" fire, Xue Jianing was caught by reporters and accepted an interview in desperation.
Reporter: Have you watched the recent popular TV series "Langya List"?
Xue Jianing: I watched Teacher Hu's play, and as a good friend, I was especially happy for him. As an actor, being able to make others like in his work through his own efforts is very respectable. He's very, very hot right now, and I don't want to get involved in this topic anymore.
Do not rub the heat and do not earn the topic, lightly call "Teacher Hu" and "good friend", express blessings, and avoid talking about the past.
As soon as this remark came out, netizens praised Xue Jianing as the "best ex-girlfriend", and her kindness was painful.
Later, Hu Ge's love affair with Jiang Shuying was exposed, and Xue Jianing also generously sent blessings.
Be wholehearted when you are together, elegant and calm when you are apart, and always think of each other.
No wonder Hu Ge confessed: "The most memorable person is her." ”
Unforgettable or true love, everything is already passing through the clouds.
It's just that it is a concern for him, and she has long been relieved.
03
Looking closely at Hu Ge's situation is really strange, after the two fires, both suffered a catastrophe.
One is a life robbery, and the other is an emotional robbery.
In the early years, when he was at his hottest, he almost died due to the filming of "The Legend of the Eagle Hero";
After relying on "Langya List" to become popular again, Jiang Shuying left him again.
Hu Ge and Jiang Shuying have been together for a short time, less than a year, but their feelings are very deep, and both sides have moved their hearts.
Late at night on the street, there are pictures of them kissing; Cosy apartment, left with their warm lingering.
Once, the two were so sweetly fed at the airport that they almost missed the plane, and the airport's small horn repeatedly urged them to board the plane as soon as possible.
It's just that this relationship finally failed to resist the gossip, and the two broke up peacefully.
After the breakup, Hu Ge got himself drunk again and sent four microblogs in a row.
Weibo wrote: "I love that memory, I love the woman I know." ”
In response, Jiang Shuying also admitted in the program, "There was a very good predecessor, but I didn't want to be an accessory to the predecessor." ”
When he was a guest on "Strange Story", he was asked by Cai Kangyong: "Is he still a friend?" ”
Jiang Shuying replied shyly and sweetly: Yes.
Cai Kangyong continued to dig the pit: "Will he go when he gets married?" ”
Jiang Shuying: "He invited me to go, and I will go."
Then continue digging the pit, "He's not married, why are you with tears in your eyes?" ”
Jiang Shuying responded with a smile and shyness: "I didn't, I didn't bring tears!" I just blushed! ”
Perhaps, if you can't put it down, you will be red in the face, and there will be waves in your heart.
After all, the lover knows a lot.
And what is Hu Ge's ex-girlfriend Xue Jianing doing at this moment?
Yi Yi Buddha Gate!
Before and after her career, Xue Jianing seemed to truly realize what she really wanted - "pure, pure, and indisputable life." ”
So, she decided to practice with her hair.
Xue Jianing said that she would go into Tibet every year and liked the kind of life that was isolated from impetuosity and complexity.
Every day I wake up to the first sun in Tibet, then meditate, eat, read, and feel very calm, like a re-wash.
Zhu Yan ci mirror flower ci tree, the most is that the face can not be retained.
Xue Jianing, who is now 44, already has the traces of years on her face, but she did not cover up, but accepted and faced the baptism of time.
Compared with the persistent pursuit of a girlish feeling that is contrary to age, being able to accept oneself to grow old gracefully is the true wealth of the heart.
Over the years, there have been rumors of Xue Jianing and Hu Ge reuniting.
The most recent time was that last year Hu Ge went to see Xue Jianing's drama and took photos together.
The same frame photo of the former lovers made netizens wake up the original "difficult to reconcile" and seek to reunite.
I have to admit that being recognized by so many fans, Xue Jianing is indeed the "best ex-girlfriend".
This "best ex-girlfriend", Hu Ge deeply thought about it, and he no longer regretted it all the time.
In 2015, as a guest in "Lu Yu Has a Date", mentioning Xue Jianing, Hu Ge instantly blushed and frankly said: "She is really good."
When Hu Ge was in a car accident, she gave up all her work and took good care of him.
Later, Hu Ge made a comeback, her career was booming, and it was she who broke up peacefully and low-key.
Xue Jianing warmed others in her own way, and also touched herself.
A sentence of "she is really good" said Hu Ge's heart.
In an instant, his eyes were red, and it was Hu Ge's true feelings.
It's just that there is no chance in this life!
I only hope that I will meet again in the next life!