Now, the speed at which a network topic iterates and deteriorates doesn't give people time to react at all.
"Second Uncle" video.
On the first day, it went crazy.
The next day, the state media praised.
Today, it has developed to -
Question the copywriting.
Discuss whether to broadcast live and adapt the film.
Too many people want to see the second uncle, and now he and his mother have left the village.
No wonder even the UP lord said that he hoped that the heat of the second uncle would fade as soon as possible.
And this will also be the inevitable law of the Internet.
Hot search to come.
Hot search goes.
It was as if nothing had happened.
Then there is the question at the beginning of the video explosion:
"The second uncle cured my mental intriguation."
Can it be cured?
Maybe it can be cured... Three days.
This is not the second uncle's problem.
In the cramped fate, the second uncle has lived his life into a respectable appearance, and he does not need to cure anyone's internal friction.
Nor is it the problem of the UP Master.
His creation has put a lot of effort into it, and a second uncle like this, this side of the shaded countryside, deserves to be shown more.
If there is a deviation, if there is a deviation.
Should be:
Projected on the second uncle, he could not carry the expectation.
And the fermentation of this grand proposition on the Internet, in turn, brings new troubles to the second uncle and the author.
Say it without hesitation.
Sir had no doubt that the second uncle would return to his peaceful life.
And the others do the same:
The anxiety of the anxiety, the internal friction of the internal friction.
01
In a third-party perspective, it's all too easy to fall into a narrative that romanticizes the life of our second uncle.
The video says:
The second uncle is the second happiest person, because he never looks back, never lives in regret.
But there is one possibility:
The second uncle did not express regret, just because regret could not accurately describe his feelings about life.
It's like the line "Hidden in the Dust".
"What can the wheat say when the wind blows around?" Pecked by flying sparrows, what can the wheat say? What can wheat say when you are nibbled by your own donkey? Cut off by the scythe of summer, what can the wheat say? ”
The second uncle is the wheat stationed in the soil, which represents the normal state of China's bottom working people.
Forbearance, silence, helplessness.
An interesting phenomenon.
Casually flip through the comments, you can see someone say:
The second uncle really looks like my **.
**, can be grandpa, dad, uncle, uncle.
It seems that every young man's family has a smart mind and flexible hands, but because of various encounters, he cannot live to face in the end, and can only live as the "second uncle" of Lizi.
This is certainly not a coincidence.
This was the most common aspect of sentient beings in that era.
Living into face or inside, it is not the second uncle himself who decides.
It can even be said that face is something that the second uncles dare not expect, so they can only try their best to live into a child, or let you think:
They can live as long as they are inside, and they can also be very "happy".
Not sure if you have noticed a detail of the video.
After the second uncle was paralyzed, he found a copy of the "Barefoot Doctor's Manual".
This is a special product of those years.
Ten years of turmoil, the young people were decentralized, they responded to the call of the state, and worked hard to teach themselves to become doctors, becoming the only reliance in the countryside at that time.
The so-called barefoot doctor is an extremely limited condition, not a full-time professional doctor, may be planted in the field, mud legs have not been washed, the back foot will be treated.
Sun Lizhe, one of China's most prominent barefoot doctors, was stunned by the medical situation in the countryside on the first day of his devolution to Yan'an.
Finally understood -
Why is the rural mortality rate several times higher than in the cities?
After having a serious illness, there is almost no doctor to treat
There are also witch doctors
Then various indigenous methods
Such a situation with life
Complete lack of medical treatment and medicine
Or there is no medicine or medicine
△ Source: Interview with "Barefoot Doctor's Past"
Like the second uncle, he was seriously ill and paralyzed for half a life, which was not enough for outsiders.
In his description, when he encountered a patient with acute intestinal obstruction, because the conditions were too difficult and no one would operate, they had to send the patient to a hospital dozens of miles away.
So halfway through, the patient died.
Another time, a pregnant woman had difficulty giving birth, the placenta was stuck in the womb, Sun Lizhe had no experience in delivering babies, but his life was at stake, so he had to put his hand into the womb.
Then "clack" and forcibly peel the baby off by hand.
You know, Sun Lizhe was already one of the most qualified doctors walking in the countryside at that time.
△ Source: Documentary "Barefoot Doctor"
So, that's why the second uncle had to go through the "Barefoot Doctor" manual for himself—
It's not that he always has a way, but neither the quacks who treat him nor the countryside where he lives have any way.
So you say, will the second uncle complain about the world and hold a grudge?
This in itself is a pseudo-question.
If there is, so what?
Just like Cai Kangyong said.
This is not the misfortune that belongs to him alone, but when the great wheel of the times is crushed, under the survival, crying is a waste of energy.
Sir did not want to deny his second uncle's strength, optimism, and his own talent.
The same encounter, in exchange for others may not be able to be like the second uncle.
Just want to say:
These qualities of the second uncle cannot be stripped away from his special background, and can be simply used for today.
The other side that is folded up.
It is something we never yearn for, or even dare not touch.
We don't know how the second uncle is entangled with it, how the heart is full of hammers, and we can't say to the "fruits of victory" after the nine deaths, I yearn.
Because some things are two sides of the same coin.
You plucked the other side.
This side has become empty talk.
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When it comes to the "second uncle" video.
Sir remembered another second uncle.
In Feng Xiaogang's "Party A and Party B".
Four young people had a whim and started a "good dream day trip" business, which was thought to be a great thing to realize their dreams.
Unexpectedly, in a society full of wine and greenery, too many people have been obtained, and what is most lacking is "lack".
All owed.
There are wives who often abuse at home, and they also want to taste the taste of abuse.
There are well-known movie stars who live in the spotlight and feel that they are popular.
Also, easily make money, saying that he is looking forward to returning to the super-rich.
Me
Eating lobsters every day and pulling mussels is a big fish and a big meat
They all give me nausea and don't eat it, and it's okay to offend people
I dream of a few days of hard days, wild vegetables, stick stubble porridge
You've got me to make it
Disgusted with the deep urban routine, I want to go back to the countryside for a quiet time.
Before leaving, the rich man was very determined.
Ge You, fearing that he would repent, read the contract word by word.
Instead, he refused to make a triple: What about looking down on people? Uncle Ben just wants to go back to the countryside, that is, to enrich the empty soul that has been poisoned by consumerism!
He also left a harsh word: If you repent, run to send you!
Okay.
Which poor to give.
Ge You remembered his second uncle.
When I came to the second uncle's village, the rich man was very satisfied: it was really broken.
Also took the initiative to break the back road, the mobile phone wallet to take away, the second uncle to eat what? I'm going to eat worse!
In this way, after a month of dripping meat.
Rushing to pick up, the rich man became like this-
If he didn't take it anymore, the second uncle was sad to die.
Boss You is about to turn into a weasel
At night, the eyes glow green
He even ate the rats
It's almost about to eat people
In the end, the rich man sat on the big run, wolfing down and eating roast chicken.
The secretary asked: Will you come later?
Pull it down, you, I've wanted to sleep with lobsters for the rest of my life
In the words of the psychology big V.
Mental internal friction is an urban disease.
It is the people who have gone out of the countryside, county towns, and small towns, in order to become part of the big city, they have no hesitation in rolling in, buying houses, and voluntarily entering the endless material vortex.
In the end, it seems that the tired and tired can not live, and they have lost their faces.
The second uncle's rural life is different——
How detached, how open-minded, how well he lived!
However, there is actually a gap between the second uncle's survival dilemma and our spiritual dilemma.
We imagine that the second uncle can live another life -
Admitted to a good university, became an engineer, entered the system, the unit was divided into rooms, the pension was a lot, and became an "old naughty boy with idle clouds and wild cranes in Wang Zengqi's pen".
We see that he does not falter by frustration.
So praise this kind of no regret, only look forward.
Envy him for still having peace of mind in poverty.
But perhaps everyone has forgotten that the second uncle is not without mental internal friction, but is not qualified to join the gladiatorial arena of spiritual internal friction.
When today's people are in the vast world, as the Lord of up said, "the era of more opportunities", they are also under complicated pressures.
The second uncle is in a world that has been artificially shrunk and pitifully small.
At that time, the mobility of the population was extremely low, and it was necessary to issue certificates from the countryside to the cities.
Coupled with the accidental disability of the second uncle's leg, not only lost the opportunity to go to college, but even the range of activities was extremely limited.
The second uncle is not a person who does not have internal friction and does not want to roll up.
However, he could only roll in a small place.
And it's also rolled to the extreme—
There were almost no appliances that he could not repair, and every household in the village came to him.
After watching for three days, I learned carpentry.
And to study this craft day after day.
In order to let his sister marry decently, he wanted to create so many exquisite furniture, and also posted The Shanghai Brand, the Beijing Brand, the Tianjin Brand, and the Ultra Luxury OK.
For the sake of his daughter, he took out his life savings and exchanged it for a county house for her.
Is the second uncle really more extraordinary than us?
As if not.
It's just that we climbed out of the fence and went to a bigger place to consume it.
The second uncle could only stay where he was, and it was so consumed.
Therefore, when we put the second uncle's struggle to live bravely, it is directly equal to the ordinary of the quiet years.
It would have been inaccurate.
It is like today, when short videos are so involuted, the countryside has become an outlet for "yearning for life".
A simple and simple popular science plant, snow drifting in the hometown, and even noisy flowing water mats can be seen happily.
Looking at it, of course, are people living in the city.
They hadn't seen it, so they were curious, and they came out, so nostalgic.
How deep is the city routine, how tired is the inner roll overtime, how hard to get off work, buy ice cream to relieve hunger, all have to be attacked by assassins...
Sir didn't deny it at all.
Watch the story of the second uncle and you will be healed.
But the other side is.
If the second uncle is really so healed, why is there not a single young man in the second uncle's village? None of them knew his second uncle, didn't know his story, didn't admire his spirit?
The difference is that --
Watch the video of the second uncle and you will be cured of internal friction.
Seeing the real second uncle may only speed you up your departure and double the internal friction in the city.
03
In the comments about the second uncle, Sir felt that the most puzzled was this category.
Safe?
Having experienced so many winds and waves, suffering and injustice, why can it still be considered stable?
In fact, it is not really everyone who extracts stability from the life of the second uncle.
Instead, the era of the second uncle was added with a rose-colored filter.
The most pleasing persona is the boyfriend in the system.
The most fashionable outfit is the leadership style of the department and bureau.
Work package assignment?
Life at a glance?
Wonderful, I am worried that life can not see the hope...
Isn't it beautiful that there is an end?
Therefore, at the end of the universe in this era, it has become the examination of public examinations.
Just like in the video of the second uncle, the author is a post-90s who has worked hard for ten years, and he can't help but reveal his yearning for the second uncle's "another life".
"The other" is a yearning for what is missing now.
But we only saw what we wanted.
But rarely think about it, with everything in it, will it be what you want?
If that's really the destination, how did the previous generation escape?
Thirty years ago, people rushed to the sea, and the three young people with good families in "The Stubborn Lord" would rather open a three-T company that did not do business and was extremely risky, and did not go to night school, enter the establishment, and find a serious job.
Thirty years later, we were all numb and tired.
But when people are isolated a lot, they become numb and unaware.
For example, in "Underground", a child who is locked up in an underground bomb shelter at birth, even if he has been living in an orderly world, when he first sees the outside world, he still looks dazed.
I stole a banana and swallowed it in my mouth with a whole strip of meat.
The battle was panicked and could not help at all.
The most ironic thing is that it even refers to deer as horses.
But even if there were many mistakes and omissions, when he first saw the sun, he was blinded by the blinding light.
He still fell in love with the world without hesitation.
It's the smell of the world, the taste of freedom, the taste of reality.
So, when our previous generation wanted to escape stability, was it just cutting off poverty and backwardness?
What everyone is afraid of is poverty.
But even more frightening is the sense of suffocation that cannot be escaped when the absolutely correct and unquestionable mainstream voice envelops your life from the inside out.
In the grand narrative of collectivism, there is a steady happiness.
But that happiness sometimes has nothing to do with oneself.
Jia Zhangke's "Platform".
Before the reform and opening up, the cultural and labor troupe was so stable and stable-"
Only eight scenes can be seen.
Watching a movie, wearing a pair of flared pants, and talking about a friend are all subject to censorship by parents and organizations.
Jia Zhangke said that he was still very young when he filmed "Platform" and was afraid that he would not be able to release it, so he was afraid of his head and tail, and habitually played dumb puzzles.
In order to let young people feel that era, he used the most resonant pop song variations, from the cookie-cutter hymns, to Luo Dayou's "Whether or Not" on the radio, to the electronic dance music of Choi Mingliang's performance in the cave.
Obscure and vividly string together an indescribable era, an era that has not been personally experienced, it is easy to think that there is no need to take risks and unknowns, and the eyes are full of happiness.
So, in the end, let's go back to the story of the second uncle.
Sir believes that the second uncle is not a person who easily accepts the ordinary, will use stability to comfort himself, and spend his life on it.
The first time, when he was told of his disability, he lay in bed for two full years.
Can you say that his heart is not high and he does not desire to get out of town?
The second time, the disabled person's certificate could not be issued, and he had no way to do anything, but decided to go to Beijing to find him.
What are you looking for him for?
Because the second uncle was also unable to be completely self-sufficient and self-consistent in his bound little world.
So, then again.
The second uncle can't cure mental internal friction.
However, mental attrition does not seem to be bad.
Because each generation has its own internal friction.
The internal friction of the second uncle may be unimaginable to us, and the internal friction of the second uncle is not cured today.
Instead, he endured, walked through, and lived as many people yearn for today.
But you're going to get to that place.
Don't look back at your second uncle.
You have to look ahead of you.
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Editorial Assistant: Dr. Qi Ai's multi-store proprietor