Li Jiaxuan
"My husband's kindness to me made me feel like if I wasn't with him and didn't treat him well, I wasn't human!" Haha, just kidding, but my husband was good to me, I can't forget it in my life..."
In 2012, Li Jiaxuan, the actor of "Li Concubine" in "The Biography of Zhen Huan", smiled happily at the camera.
No one expected that only two years after the interview, her husband would suddenly leave her.
Stills from "The Biography of Zhen Huan"
At the end of 2016, Li Jiaxuan became an actor.
It took two years to shoot a TV series "Bean Lady".
Although the response to this play is average, it is the last wish of her husband who has done her best to complete.
Choosing to retire during the rising period of her career, Li Jiaxuan took her daughter and a puppy with her alone.
When friends and family introduce her to her.
She said, "I haven't forgotten the senior, or you wait, and when I forget him, you can introduce me to him." ”
Li Jiaxuan in "Bean Lady"
Now, 8 years later, 45-year-old Li Jiaxuan still carries her wedding ring, and she has always been alone.
Talking to others about the senior, she will smile softly, laugh, and she will whisper "I miss him"...
01 Meet, the best age
Born in Hefei in 1977, Li Jiaxuan's original name was Li Min.
As a child, he went to school while studying vocal music at the Provincial Art School.
Her voice and singing voice appeared at various school evenings.
Because of her good looks and good personality, she was also selected by the director who came to the art school to look for models to shoot advertisements.
In 1994, he was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy and became a classmate with Bao Jianfeng, Ma Yili and others.
Li Jiaxuan's starting point was no worse than that of these two classmates who later caught fire.
In my junior year, my first film was the heroine of "Poplar".
Later, I received scripts such as "The Wife Club".
Thousands of college students graduate from acting every year.
There are also some "wild roads" who have not received professional learning, but are constantly taking root in the performing arts industry.
After graduating from the theater, Li Jiaxuan deeply felt that the opportunity was not waiting for.
So she came to Beijing with money, took the initiative to attack, and plunged into the flood of actors.
With a good figure and a face full of high-end feelings, Li Jiaxuan was the first to stand firm in Beijing as a model feature.
In just a year, she spelled out herself as a singer.
Also ran a dragon suit in several dramas.
In 1999, she met her noble and beloved.
Because a friend wanted to audition for the "Very Summer" crew, Li Jiaxuan waited as a companion.
Perhaps it is the word fate that is at work, and director Lu Xuechang took Li Jiaxuan as an audition actor and let her try the play together.
The result was such a coincidence that the friend was not selected, and Li Jiaxuan got the role of Pan Yueming's ex-girlfriend "Swallow" in the play.
"The interpretation is natural and flexible, the script is thoroughly understood, and the feelings are rapid."
This was all the impression that Elder Lu had of Li Jiaxuan at that time.
Road chief
After the release of "Very Summer", Lu Xuechang not only won the Best Director Award at the 7th Beijing University Student Film Festival.
It also won the Special Award for Best Director at the 9th Golden Rooster Awards for Chinese Film.
In 2000, Lu Xuechang wanted to shoot the comedy film "Carla is a Dog" directed and self-acted.
Remembering Li Jiaxuan, whom he had worked with the previous year, he handed her the role of a fashionably dressed "dog girl".
After filming the scene with the well-known actor Ge You in the pet market.
Lu Xuechang was once again moved by Li Jiaxuan's life-like interpretation and became interested in it.
And Li Jiaxuan also had a good feeling for Lu Xuechang in the process of meeting every day.
"Carla is a Dog" Lu Xuechang played for Ge You
Lu Xuechang was 13 years older than Li Jiaxuan.
Before that, he had a love affair with Ma Xiaoqing, who was nominated for the Golden Rooster Award for "Best Supporting Actress".
The two have a strong relationship together.
In 1990, Lu Xuechang was busy dealing with kidney disease.
During this time, his girlfriend Ma Xiaoqing proposed to him to break up, and the two separated.
02 Get to know each other and get married
This love affair gave Lu Xuechang a big blow, and he also had a long period of singleness after he recovered from his illness.
The beginning with Li Jiaxuan was a decision made by Lu Xuechang suddenly.
Li Jiaxuan and Lu Xuechang
Since the filming of the film, the two have maintained intermittent contact.
At that time, Li Jiaxuan, who was filming outside, tasted a little ethnic minority cuisine.
Thinking it was delicious, she bought some trekking from the locals and mailed it to the road master in Beijing.
Because the mouth was not sealed, when this intention reached the hands of Lu Xuechang, it had already deteriorated.
He called Li Jiaxuan to inquire about the mail.
After that, he described the strange smell he smelled and the greenish food.
"Is that it? Doesn't look good, smells bad, but eats fragrantly? ”
Li Jiaxuan hurriedly blocked, and then apologized.
"I'm sorry, I just thought it was delicious, and the first thing I thought of you was to let you taste it too." I didn't expect that the road would be delayed for so many days, things should have deteriorated, you threw it. ”
It is this sentence "the first to think of you" that makes Elder Lu's heart instantly filled with warmth.
He carefully recalled the process of getting along with Li Jiaxuan and felt that this good girl should be caught by herself.
So after completing the shooting task and returning to Beijing, Li Jiaxuan received an affectionate confession from Lu Xuechang.
Naturally coming together, Lu Xuechang is not a person who does everything in life.
But he gave Li Jiaxuan enough respect and spiritual support.
He never made any decisions for Li Jiaxuan, no matter how big or small.
If there is anything related to the work of the two people, they will always take the initiative to discuss with Li Jiaxuan.
Because Lu Xuechang is a director, he is different from the position of the actor.
Get a new script or a role that she has doubts about, Li Jiaxuan asked her boyfriend to give her some advice.
At this time, Lu Xuechang always does not hesitate to speak, a little help to analyze, so that his girlfriend understands thoroughly.
In the middle of his career, Lu Xuechang can help Li Jiaxuan, and in life, Li Jiaxuan can take care of and remember Lu Xuexuan.
One is out acting, and the other is directing a play outside.
Many times without meeting, Li Jiaxuan will regularly call her boyfriend.
Remind him to eat and sleep on time and try not to be too tired.
Elder Lu said, "You're in charge of me, how long are you going to take care of me?" ”
Li Jiaxuan said, "When you marry me, I will always be in charge of you from now on!" ”
In 2003, Lu Xuechang won the Best Film Award at the Beijing University Student Film Festival for "Carla is a Dog".
At the age of 38, he and Li Jiaxuan, 25, officially entered the palace of marriage.
03 Achievements, career into life
After marriage, Li Jiaxuan and her husband's life is very sweet.
There aren't too many sweet words like "I love you".
Mr. Lu is willing to give his wife affirmation and encouragement in all aspects.
The two are still busy with each other's careers.
But they also agreed to compromise with each other every year and set aside at least two months to live together in the world of two.
In 2004, Lu Xuechang prepared to shoot his own digital film "Rental Period".
The female protagonist is set to be his wife Li Jiaxuan, and the male protagonist is Pan Yueming, who has worked together.
This film is the most enjoyable one that Li Jiawei has ever acted in since she made a movie.
Facing the realistic plot, the staff's serious and responsible attitude, the actors compete immersively throughout the whole process.
The play was released in 2006.
The film won the Best Film Award at the Tokyo International Digital Film Festival.
Li Jiaxuan was also nominated for best actress at the Beijing University Student Film Festival.
Stills from "Lease Term"
Actors are always busier than directors.
Starred in "Also Love Happiness", playing two roles in "Police Flower Swallow" starring Tang Wei and Tian Yu.
Partnered with Liu Ye and Sun Li in "Blood Romance", and after the meeting, he filmed "Red Face" and "I Am the Sun".
Li Jiaxuan gradually distracted most of her energy from her work.
Elder Lu did not have the slightest dissatisfaction with this.
When his wife was not at home, he took care of himself and did not let his wife worry.
When his wife returned, he slowed down his work and relaxed with his wife.
In her work, Li Jiaxuan always calls her husband a road guide.
But outside the work, when talking about Lu Xuechang, a sentence of "my husband", coupled with full of admiration.
Everyone can see the sweetness and happiness of Li Jiaxuan's life.
Li Jiaxuan took a group photo with Song Dandan's "Spring of Li Spring"
In 2007, the husband and wife file cooperated again, inviting Zhu Shimao and Cong Shan to star in "Two People's Room".
In the years since then, due to physical reasons, Lu Xuechang's works have come out.
And Li Jiaxuan first starred in "A Woman's Epic" with Zhao Wei and Liu Ye.
Starred with Song Dandan in "The Spring of Li Spring".
It has also become the occasional and beautiful beauty "Li Concubine" in "The Biography of Zhen Huan".
After more than ten years of debut, he finally carved his name in the film and television circle.
Behind Li Jiaxuan's success, there is always a person named Lu Xuechang, who has given her enough support and help.
What is done well will be praised and encouraged, and where it is not done well, there will be timely criticism and reasonable suggestions.
Li Jiaxuan never hides her dependence and love for her husband.
"He's really nice. Even if I scrambled an egg fried rice, I could get him a big compliment. If he thinks I play a good role, a big meal reward can't run. ”
"There are a lot of things I think I should do well, but he just gives me a lot of affirmation."
"I love acting, I love life, I love my family, all because I have a husband named Lu Xuechang!"
However, such a good partner did not go on with Li Jiaxuan for a long time.
04 Bad news, complete your husband's wish
On February 20, 2014, Due to a sudden illness, Lu Xuechang's life was forever fixed at the age of 49.
Obviously, half a month ago, this man was still discussing with the producer, saying that he had booked the 21st to start filming the TV series "Bean Lady".
But he said goodbye to the world the day before he was about to put his 2 years of painstaking efforts on the screen.
Li Jiaxuan, 36, could not accept this fact, and great grief shrouded her.
During that time, she could not take care of her young daughter and washed her face with tears all day.
Lu Jia's mother also couldn't withstand the pain of the white-haired person sending the black-haired person, and fainted several times.
For nearly a month, Li Jiaxuan could hardly get out of bed, and her spirit quickly faded.
It was as if there had been a serious illness that was difficult to cure.
But the work before her husband's death had been arranged, and she still had the strength to call each person in charge.
It was originally intended to cancel the filming work, but after nearly a month of contact with the staff.
Li Jiaxuan made a decision - "I want to complete the unfinished business of her husband"!
Familiar with the novel of more than 20,000 words of "Bean Lady", take on the responsibility of the director system, and find a large number of materials to analyze the background of the times reflected in the text.
Putting herself in a very busy environment, Li Jiaxuan also starred in the role of "Flower Mist" in the play at the same time.
Sick and tired could not defeat her convictions, and the woman at work seemed sharp.
When she was in the crew, Li Jiaxuan did not shed a tear once, nor did she lose once.
She just pressed her husband's picture under her pillow, and flowers were always on the table in the room where she lived.
After selecting and approving actors, he started up in Taigu, Shanxi, and Li Jiaxuan's daily rest time was once again compressed.
During the day it is the crew's fixed sea god needle, and at night it is a woman licking her wounds alone.
When the shooting task of "Bean Lady" was completed ahead of schedule, all the staff members left one after another.
In the face of subsequent broadcasting and distribution, Li Jiaxuan can only carry all the pressure herself.
Until the news of CCTV's eight sets of prime-time broadcasts was determined.
This strong woman was finally able to sleep soundly.
It was also after filming this TV series that Li Jiaxuan began to gradually move away from people's sight and was in a semi-reclusive state.
05 Remember, if I will forget
Putting her mind and focus on life, Li Jiaxuan decided to use travel to fill her increasingly empty eyes.
"There is also happiness in the boring life, but we just have to slowly find it on the days of chicken and dog!" 」
Leaving these words behind, Li Jiaxuan began to set off.
With the puppy that has accompanied him for many years, he meets good friends from time to time.
She travels from home to abroad, often without stopping.
On Li Jiaxuan's personal external account, there was no longer any information about Lu Xuechang.
But as long as her right hand appears in the camera, people can see the wedding ring that has been with her for more than a decade.
Flowers, animals, food, and the quiet years on social platforms seem to declare that she has come out of the pain of her feelings a little bit.
But the ring on her hand also shows that her heart has never forgotten her husband.
"Expectations never end, and a good life is hidden in simple contentment..."
Li Jiaxuan is very satisfied with her current life and state.
She sees her daughter as her own, and the three puppies in the family as emotional sustenance.
Especially after her daughter went to boarding school, the puppy in her life was the longest companion.
Lu Xuechang died 8 years ago, and Li Jiaxuan missed him for 8 years.
Over the years, it was not that no one had introduced her to her, but she was unmoved.
"If I'm going to forget, I can start a new relationship. But when I am obsessed, I am not willing to be sorry for myself and my seniors, nor do I want to be sorry for others! ”
When the lover is gone, he strives to love himself, and since he can't put it down, he will remember it in his heart.
From the age of 36 to 45, for 8 years, Li Jiaxuan refused love, but welcomed family affection and deep friendship.
Once you have had warmth, you can use this heat to resist the frost sword in the future.
Bright, brilliant, love nature, love life.
The best time is on the road, I wish Li Jiaxuan all the way to the sun in the future, accompanied by happiness.
Bless the world in her eyes, forever peaceful and serene.