Chinese culture has a long history, which has been passed down for 5,000 years without interruption, and many customs and habits have been passed down, especially the older generation pays special attention to these. In the growth and development of infants and young children, we are more familiar with the fact that pregnancy can not be co-existing, the child should be harvested when he is born, and there are treasure fortune telling and so on. However, you may not know that in the concept of many older generations, the specific time when the child is born is also very exquisite.
Lele's mother-in-law is such a person who pays attention to the birth time of the child, in the words of our contemporary young people, it is more feudal and superstitious. Since LeLe and her husband got married, her mother-in-law has constantly urged the two of them to have children, and often goes to pray to God to worship The Buddha, and get some "many children and many blessings" water for Lele to drink. In order to have a son for one child, the mother-in-law also specially provided a son Guanyin at home, and worshiped all day and all day, which greatly affected the happy days of the little two. However, when he thought that this was the mother-in-law and the child, Le Le still silently endured.
After Lele became pregnant, her mother-in-law's approach was even more radical, not only opposing Lele's makeup, sports, going to work, and even interfering with what to eat at every meal, what time to sleep and what time to go, saying that everything was for the good of the fetus. Le Le is angry, but there is no way, although it is wronged, but for the sake of the child's good, it can only be done by the mother-in-law. Finally, when it was time for the baby to be born, the whole family was very happy, but at this time, the mother-in-law made a more excessive request, which completely made Lele explode and was difficult to accept.
Originally, LeLe's mother-in-law asked LeLe to let the baby be born at noon on time and on time, saying that it was yang enough at this time, and the child's birth at this time could dispel yin and ward off evil, and in the future it would be more masculine and strong, and it would not invade all diseases. As a new youth in the 21st century, she did not believe in this superstitious statement at all, so she got into trouble with her mother-in-law for this matter.
However, let's analyze and analyze, the child's birth time is still quite exquisite
1. Born in the morning
During this period of time, the pregnant mother rested for a night, full of energy, if it is just this time to give birth to a child, you can have sufficient energy to give birth to a baby, can make the child less "seedlings to promote growth" of the external force, naturally smooth birth. And the morning is sunny, the breeze is warm, everything is full of hope, and the meaning of having a child at this point is also excellent, bringing people the beauty of new life.
2. Born at noon
The advantages of this time period are not reflected in the pregnant mother, but in the doctors and nurses. At noon, the sun is shining and everything is amiable, and this time period is the time when people's spirits are at their fullest. Some important surgeries in the hospital will be arranged in the morning, and the midwives during this period of time are at a time of high concentration in the day, treating the operation more rigorously and seriously, and taking care of the pregnant mother and fetus to be more meticulous. For the birth of the baby, this point in time has an external advantage.
3. Born at night
At night, the human body will naturally slowly get tired. When it comes to having children, the impact of this cannot be ignored. First, most of the doctors and nurses in the hospital have left work, and only a few on duty personnel remain, which may be more imperfect to take care of. Then the pregnant mother may be restless under anxiety one day, lack of strength when giving birth, and the time for the pelvic finger to be opened will be greatly extended, increasing a lot of pain, which will have a certain impact on the mother's body and the baby's body. Therefore, the birth at night is even less productive than the first two.
In fact, no matter what time point is born, as long as the baby can be safe and healthy, this is also the biggest expectation of the family. As for the influence of yang and yin at the time point, or some other superstition that emphasizes and forcibly stipulates a time point to give birth, it is not conducive to the health of both mother and child, and should be abandoned. In the new era, we still have to look at problems with a scientific eye, respect the objective laws of things, and just go with the flow.